I'M BAAACK! & dating a VIRGO MAN! Help!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by GeminiVixxen on Saturday, June 21, 2014 and has 14 replies.

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@GeminiVixxen
12 YearsGemini

Hey guys!!! Who missed me!?!?! Okay.. so I'm back.. and guess what? I'm dating a Virgo guy and EVERYTHING is just A-amazing! Surprising eh?

His chart.. Sun: Virgo, Moon: Libra, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Leo, Mars: Aries, and Jupiter: Gemini!

Mine.. Sun: Gemini πŸ™‚ , Moon: Aquarius, Mercury: Gemini, Venus: Gemini, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Gemini!

ANNNDD.. We share the same Numerology number, and its a Master number too! It was like god put us together for a reason! He treats me soooooo good, and we hanged out 4 days in a row.. he was actually with me about an hour ago, but left because he had a lot of work to do (he works from home and is a DJ). He's amazing, and we have SO MUCH in common its unbelievable! Next month we already planned a road trip just to get away from it all! He shows me so much affection, and its just so natural! Today he told me that we are moving fast but it feels natural and we should continue what we have! He's so protective and such a strong supporter and he's so cool to hang out with. What do you guys think, will it last? How's his chart with mine? GOOD huh?!?! I've always wanted a Virgo man and I finally got one! A good one too! He's far from distant, the only time he ignores me is when he's working! He calls and text me every single day.. So Far.. haha, I'm so happy πŸ™‚

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by GeminiVixxen
Somebody needs to answer my question.. hopefully nobody dislikes me here.. πŸ™‚

GV, i get where you're coming from because I'm a gem. We like to share our joy and happiness because we radiate. It's in our DNA to express ourselves when we are most happy.

With that said, this is the Virgo board. Most don't get where you are coming from. Read most of the posts on this board. It's about negativity, analyzing everyone to the point of insanity, acting distant and cutting off communication because it's more about being right than being happy; why? because that's what many virgo's do. It's in their DNA.

From knowing both male and female virgos over the years, it's seems that happiness for them is a life long struggle that can only be reached when a certain level of "logic" is attained. It's more an endeavor rather than an emotional experience that recharges us throughout our life, which comes natural for us gems. Sure we have our bad days too. But we soon realize it's a waste of time to dwell on the negative as it literally wears us down. It's refreshing when I read several virgo's who can bring some light into the conversation. There are about 2 VM on this board who do that.

While we gems and virgo's share mercury for communication purposes, we communicate in different manners. That's not a knock on virgo's. It is simply what it is. We are often expressive with words. They tend to embrace subtle communication and or actions.

One thing I've learned over time is this. If you're happy, that's all that matters. While it would be great if others could simply acknowledge your happiness and wish you all the best, some people (not just virgo's) aren't capable of doing that. Some of it is how we are wired differently. Some is how we were raised. And some people honestly are emotional infants who can never get past their own barriers and weaknesses.

Congrats on our relationship. I hope you and your VM continue to develop a strong and lasting relationship built upon trust, respect and true affection.

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12 YearsGemini

Posted by gemini64
Posted by GeminiVixxen
Somebody needs to answer my question.. hopefully nobody dislikes me here.. πŸ™‚

GV, i get where you're coming from because I'm a gem. We like to share our joy and happiness because we radiate. It's in our DNA to express ourselves when we are most happy.

With that said, this is the Virgo board. Most don't get where you are coming from. Read most of the posts on this board. It's about negativity, analyzing everyone to the point of insanity, acting distant and cutting off communication because it's more about being right than being happy; why? because that's what many virgo's do. It's in their DNA.

From knowing both male and female virgos over the years, it's seems that happiness for them is a life long struggle that can only be reached when a certain level of "logic" is attained. It's more an endeavor rather than an emotional experience that recharges us throughout our life, which comes natural for us gems. Sure we have our bad days too. But we soon realize it's a waste of time to dwell on the negative as it literally wears us down. It's refreshing when I read several virgo's who can bring some light into the conversation. There are about 2 VM on this board who do that.

While we gems and virgo's share mercury for communication purposes, we communicate in different manners. That's not a knock on virgo's. It is simply what it is. We are often expressive with words. They tend to embrace subtle communication and or actions.

One thing I've learned over time is this. If you're happy, that's all that matters. While it would be great if others could simply acknowledge your happiness and wish you all the best, some people (not just virgo's) aren't capable of doing that. Some of it is how we are wired differently. Some is how we were raised. And some people honestly are emotional infants who can never get past their own barriers and weaknesses.

Congrats on our relationship. I hope you and your VM continue to develop a strong and lasting relationship built upon trust, respect and true affection.

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Thank you love πŸ™‚ and its true..

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@VirgoChyld
12 Years500+ PostsVirgo

I couldn't tell you if it would last..... but like gemini64 said "as long as your happy is what matters". He treats you the you supposed to be treated, you should expect nothing less than the best for you. So enjoy you new relationship. I can't read charts that well 😒. I am glad your happy.

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12 YearsGemini

Posted by VirgoChyld
I couldn't tell you if it would last..... but like gemini64 said "as long as your happy is what matters". He treats you the you supposed to be treated, you should expect nothing less than the best for you. So enjoy you new relationship. I can't read charts that well 😒. I am glad your happy.

Thank you love πŸ™‚

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@VirgoChyld
12 Years500+ PostsVirgo

Posted by GeminiVixxen
Posted by VirgoChyld
I couldn't tell you if it would last..... but like gemini64 said "as long as your happy is what matters". He treats you the you supposed to be treated, you should expect nothing less than the best for you. So enjoy you new relationship. I can't read charts that well 😒. I am glad your happy.

Thank you love πŸ™‚

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Your welcome πŸ™‚

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12 YearsGemini

Posted by Ixion120
I mean look honestly I wasn't gonna respond at all lol just because there is nothing meaningful that I can add but then Gem64 cast that shade lol >_> (no hate on you gem, i'm jes sayin lol).

If you are good great...I wouldn't be able to tell you if it is going to last. Depends on how much work both of you put in. It seems to be off to a good start so that's a plus, keep doing what you are doing.

Take it one day at a time and u'll be aight.

Thank you.. I've always wanted a Virgo man.. I've dated a couple and it never went well.. it was either because they were to critical, distant or they couldn't stand my Gemini ways! This one.. he's different, but I think its because our chart matches up, when it comes to the relationship aspects, plus we share the same numerology number. lol

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12 YearsGemini

Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by gemini64
Posted by GeminiVixxen
Somebody needs to answer my question.. hopefully nobody dislikes me here.. πŸ™‚

GV, i get where you're coming from because I'm a gem. We like to share our joy and happiness because we radiate. It's in our DNA to express ourselves when we are most happy.

With that said, this is the Virgo board. Most don't get where you are coming from. Read most of the posts on this board. It's about negativity, analyzing everyone to the point of insanity, acting distant and cutting off communication because it's more about being right than being happy; why? because that's what many virgo's do. It's in their DNA.

From knowing both male and female virgos over the years, it's seems that happiness for them is a life long struggle that can only be reached when a certain level of "logic" is attained. It's more an endeavor rather than an emotional experience that recharges us throughout our life, which comes natural for us gems. Sure we have our bad days too. But we soon realize it's a waste of time to dwell on the negative as it literally wears us down. It's refreshing when I read several virgo's who can bring some light into the conversation. There are about 2 VM on this board who do that.

While we gems and virgo's share mercury for communication purposes, we communicate in different manners. That's not a knock on virgo's. It is simply what it is. We are often expressive with words. They tend to embrace subtle communication and or actions.

One thing I've learned over time is this. If you're happy, that's all that matters. While it would be great if others could simply acknowledge your happiness and wish you all the best, some people (not just virgo's) aren't capable of doing that. Some of it is how we are wired differently. Some is how we were raised. And some people honestly are emotional infants who can never get past their own barriers and weaknesses.

Congrats on our relationship. I hope you and your VM continue to develop a strong and lasting relationship built upon trust, respect and true affection.

and some people just don't give a fuk.

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12 YearsGemini

Posted by starlover
Awwwwww that is good that you are happy!! I was married to one for years...never cheated on me and was devoted to me, but the relationship ran its course and we moved on from each other. We made a lovely son together and we are all good friends and help each other out

Enjoy!

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Very nice, thank you πŸ™‚

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12 YearsGemini

Posted by LetltB
Best wishes to you...the charts actually look pretty damn good too.

Don't wig out on him...communicate, communicate, communicate. Good luck.

I know right!!! I won't, I literally just came back home.. I spent 2 days at his place πŸ˜„