Do virgo men really ignore the women they love to avoid heart break?

Aqua Sun*Scorpio Moon*Pisces Rising*Venus Capricorn*Taurus Mars
I have been in a relationship with a virgo man he comes back like a cancer we were on and off for 4years because his a coward and cant make up his mind about me i've had enough,whenever i break the seal of my wall he backs off everytime,now he is back and wants me again with 2 kids he broke off with his wife since she cheated on him,if i can only tell him that "you would have cheated first if i had grab your advances to me", and now hes gone again what did i tell you?no consistency and i hate someone like that i want a stable partner so no thank you
the " you might hurt me part " is true . But isn't true with everyone ? I might show some distance if I know :
A) you might hurt me
B) I might hurt you

Either way , I can be cautious in relationships , I just don't jump in and see what happens . I need to protect my heart and if I feel like you are worthy and I can trust you then slowly but surely it will happen .
But if you are trying to force me into something I'm not reay for ? I have a moon in tarus by the way so good luck
Virgo Sun/Virgo Moon
Some Virgo sun & venus men seem to do that, "i'll go away bc I can't add value to your life or you might hurt me" thing

If things don't seem logical, I back away to avoid getting my feeling crushed, if we can talk it out in a logical way but they also show it, it makes me feel comfortable
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26 years old female
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by yupvirgoo
@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.


What if the person don't leave after self-sabotage and continues to talk to the virgo


You continue to talk to a Virgo that actively ignores you?

Is he more polite?

But more quiet?


He never misses a phone call nor text ...

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what does he say
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by yupvirgoo
@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.


What if the person don't leave after self-sabotage and continues to talk to the virgo


You continue to talk to a Virgo that actively ignores you?

Is he more polite?

But more quiet?
click to expand


He never misses a phone call nor text ...

Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
Yes!

My Virgo ex did this a lot of times to women.....not the bravest of men
male
married, Virgo sun, Taurus moon, Leo venus, Libra rising, Libra mars, Libra dom
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by yupvirgoo
@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.


What if the person don't leave after self-sabotage and continues to talk to the virgo
click to expand


You continue to talk to a Virgo that actively ignores you?

Is he more polite?

But more quiet?
Posted by yupvirgoo
@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.


What if the person don't leave after self-sabotage and continues to talk to the virgo
Some will pick her apart until she leaves.
Not always, I'm a Virgo, I talk things out
male
married, Virgo sun, Taurus moon, Leo venus, Libra rising, Libra mars, Libra dom
@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.

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