Do Virgo men truly forgive

I sort of messed up. I was sweet talking with my Virgo man via text while I was at a party. While there I got drunk and sent him a sea (About 20 sets of three to four words each) of text messages questioning our relationship and how he doesn't care about me. It was only in the morning I realized what I did and found myself begging for his forgiveness. He chewed me up, but later softened up telling me that he does care about me and told me how was wrong for what I did but it happened and its water under the bridge now. I know that he forgave me but I still feel terrible and feel that he's truly disappointed in me and I'm nervous and scared to even call or text him. So Virgos, has he really forgiven me or is there more to it when Virgos forgive?

Posted by Kodak375
Drunk talk sober heart

I'm sorry. Could you please elaborate?

Posted by Kodak375
Drunk talk sober heart

I'm sorry. Could you please elaborate?

It's not forgiveness you should seek here but for him not to lose his respect for you.

Respect lost = it's over

If this was one incident, depending on your age and his, he will get over it. But make it a pattern and you'll soon become virgoless.

Posted by Damnata
It's not forgiveness you should seek here but for him not to lose his respect for you.

Respect lost = it's over

If this was one incident, depending on your age and his, he will get over it. But make it a pattern and you'll soon become virgoless.

I'm 36 and he's 46. This is my second strike. The first time was a very poor drunk attempt at sexting, bombarded with 15 nonsense, which annoyed him. This second time was more assaulting. Being that this is the second time, is why I'm so nervous to contact him. Thanks for clearing it up about maintaining his respect vs forgiveness. Any recommendations on how to keep a Virgo's respect?

Have integrity. You're 36, you know what makes a person have respect for another.

This drunk texting is childish shit.

Trust is pretty easy to get with Virgos because we are gullible and see scenarios for everything but respect is way harder.

It's not the texting part that would worry me but the drunk state. It means you cannot handle yourself to know how much alcohool to drink to not get wasted.

having no self control will get you out the door. You need to ask yourself why do you have an impulse to text him nonsense when you are drunk. Try talking to him about your feelings sober and not when you are acting like a 20 year old drunk girl at a party. You scared? What are you 5? You need to be confident in yourself whether you end up staying together or not!

wow .... what a fucking coward, you obviously don't even have enough dignity to own up to yourself.


Virgos will play, if you insist on being a dumbass and won't leave them alone ..... but, don't come crying to us when you are taken for the fool you are.

Posted by Damnata It's not the texting part that would worry me but the drunk state. It means you cannot handle yourself to know how much alcohool to drink to not get wasted.

Yep...a lousy drunk and Virgo = drunk and alone