Do you have a fear of being alone

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I have friends that are afraid of being alone all of them happen to be of air and fire signs. One is an aries and would just force his way into a relationship. I never had a fear of being alone in fact I like being alone more, sometimes I wonder do I hang around others just because society tell us we should. If I didn't need money and need to eat food I would stay home and think lol. Any ways do any of you virgos have a fear of being alone or are you crazy like me lol.
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No, not afraid of being alone. I actually prefer my own company. I do want a family however, but not right now.



This, 100% .

In fact, I'm doing everything to sabotage getting married anytime soon, it seems.
Just having fun being to myself, with a dose of lovin' from my man here and there.
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LOL. Would be like a Virgo woman to sabotage a possible marriage union..."oh, oh, oh no dear, I possibly can't accept your proposal right now..maybe after I finish this second master's and do the last five things on my bucket list which includes spending a year over seas and, and, oh just look at those floors! They do absolutely need my attention right away...please do hand me those gloves, that bucket and that toothbrush" LOL!!!! Kid'n!!!!!!!!!!! Don't want to generalize. AHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA...C, so you're telling me that if he proposed anytime soon you wouldn't accept?
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No, not afraid of being alone. I actually prefer my own company. I do want a family however, but not right now.



This, 100% .

In fact, I'm doing everything to sabotage getting married anytime soon, it seems.
Just having fun being to myself, with a dose of lovin' from my man here and there.



LOL. Would be like a Virgo woman to sabotage a possible marriage union..."oh, oh, oh no dear, I possibly can't accept your proposal right now..maybe after I finish this second master's and do the last five things on my bucket list which includes spending a year over seas and, and, oh just look at those floors! They do absolutely need my attention right away...please do hand me those gloves, that bucket and that toothbrush" LOL!!!! Kid'n!!!!!!!!!!! Don't want to generalize. AHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA...C, so you're telling me that if he proposed anytime soon you wouldn't accept?
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Nah...I'd say "let's do a trial let's...hm...let's PRETEND we're engaged for a year (shhhh, don't tell anyone else, it'll spoil the fun)...then see if we fall more in love...and if we do, we can be engaged for REAL" LOL. I figure that will give me enough time to decide if I want to spend my life with him or not. A lot can happen in a year.

I'm just not ready. I love just cleaning up after myself, I really don't want to add rugrats and a crybaby hubby to that mix. Maybe one day, but not TOday...
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Nah...I'd say "let's do a trial let's...hm...let's PRETEND we're engaged for a year (shhhh, don't tell anyone else, it'll spoil the fun)...then see if we fall more in love...and if we do, we can be engaged for REAL" LOL. I figure that will give me enough time to decide if I want to spend my life with him or not. A lot can happen in a year.

I'm just not ready. I love just cleaning up after myself, I really don't want to add rugrats and a crybaby hubby to that mix. Maybe one day, but not TOday...
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Oh shit, get out of my head! When I look at my pad, I say to myself "it's all good and it's gonna stay this way" LOL! I know what you mean about cleaning up after yourself...and NOBODY ELSE. Is that selfish? I have everything just so. A place for everything and everything in its place. Hmmph! That motherfucker is like a museum I tell ya. Somebody told me that when the time was right I wouldn't think twice about selling all of my shit. Yeah well, brotha don't know everything is coming with me. Worked too hard for what I got to just go selling shit away.

As for that secret engagement...yeah, clever you. I like that. It's practical because you grant yourself a decent amount of time to see if he's actually the one.
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Just a quick note (not that you are saying this)

Being alone and loneliness (in most cases) are different.
Do I fear being alone? No. I need my alone time as much as I need to be with the people I am close with.
Do I fear/abhor loneliness? Yes. But it has nothing to do with me being alone.

Lol your just like my girl friend every thing has to said in a certain way or it will lose it's meaning to you lol. But the way i'm talking about alone I mean loneliness. I use alone because that how my friends were describing their fear to me which I knew what they meant. Even though I knew what they meant I could not understand because I do not have such a fear. I rather be lonely than force myself with someone that I don't love or care for.
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Nah...I'd say "let's do a trial let's...hm...let's PRETEND we're engaged for a year (shhhh, don't tell anyone else, it'll spoil the fun)...then see if we fall more in love...and if we do, we can be engaged for REAL" LOL. I figure that will give me enough time to decide if I want to spend my life with him or not. A lot can happen in a year.

I'm just not ready. I love just cleaning up after myself, I really don't want to add rugrats and a crybaby hubby to that mix. Maybe one day, but not TOday...



Oh shit, get out of my head! When I look at my pad, I say to myself "it's all good and it's gonna stay this way" LOL! I know what you mean about cleaning up after yourself...and NOBODY ELSE. Is that selfish? I have everything just so. A place for everything and everything in its place. Hmmph! That motherfucker is like a museum I tell ya. Somebody told me that when the time was right I wouldn't think twice about selling all of my shit. Yeah well, brotha don't know everything is coming with me. Worked too hard for what I got to just go selling shit away.

As for that secret engagement...yeah, clever you. I like that. It's practical because you grant yourself a decent amount of time to see if he's actually the one.
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Honestly, I think it's more selfish to marry if you're not ready. At least by stalling, I'm giving the guy an opportunity to pull back with no repurcussions. I also think it's selfish to have kids you're not ready for.
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Just a quick note (not that you are saying this)

Being alone and loneliness (in most cases) are different.
Do I fear being alone? No. I need my alone time as much as I need to be with the people I am close with.
Do I fear/abhor loneliness? Yes. But it has nothing to do with me being alone.

Lol your just like my girl friend every thing has to said in a certain way or it will lose it's meaning to you lol. But the way i'm talking about alone I mean loneliness. I use alone because that how my friends were describing their fear to me which I knew what they meant. Even though I knew what they meant I could not understand because I do not have such a fear. I rather be lonely than force myself with someone that I don't love or care for.
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i knew u had a heart despite ur cappy moon lol.
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Just a quick note (not that you are saying this)

Being alone and loneliness (in most cases) are different.
Do I fear being alone? No. I need my alone time as much as I need to be with the people I am close with.
Do I fear/abhor loneliness? Yes. But it has nothing to do with me being alone.

Lol your just like my girl friend every thing has to said in a certain way or it will lose it's meaning to you lol. But the way i'm talking about alone I mean loneliness. I use alone because that how my friends were describing their fear to me which I knew what they meant. Even though I knew what they meant I could not understand because I do not have such a fear. I rather be lonely than force myself with someone that I don't love or care for.
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Lol I see what you're saying. I don't always associate loneliness with not having someone. I have many people in my life and don't always desire a significant other. I'll be honest and admit here that for about 5 o 6 years, I was very depressed and I have anxiety issues, and one of the things I dealt with a lot was loneliness. But it wasn't because I was alone, it was because I couldn't find anyone to emotionally connect especially when I needed help; like I didn't have close friends and I couldn't go to my mother. I learned that there was two types of loneliness: social and emotional; one I had little issue with, while the other just ate me up. So, I had no problems not having anyone around, but I just had a lot of trouble talking to people, and that's what I really hated about being "alone." That's kind of what I was getting at.
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Posted by Qbone
You came to this world ALONE, you leave this world ALONE too, the rest is just background noises.

What could be possibly so scary that makes you afraid of..?

This must be a virgo line because when ever I say this to a non virgo its like I break their heart or something you should really look at their faces. I only seen virgos use this line interesting but true.