@Cajunspirit
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Hygiene in Intimacy
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kthnxbai
What is that ^^^^^^^^^ a Domino wanna be?
Posted by P-Angel
kthnxbai
What is that ^^^^^^^^^ a Domino wanna be?
Just thought I'd use some these kids' new school lingo.
If you would have so many reasons not to engage in the simultaneous passionate stimulations of the moment, and would rather have rules in place which is a thrill killer .... then I guess you'll have to resort to licking your own lollipop.
I see ... sounds like a xerox copy of Domino.
Do you realize that to have these rules in place kills the passion?
Go with it, where ever it leads .... if you want the experience to be real.
Otherwise, you are directing it .. and directing it means, it's not coming from the other persons sense of giving at their pleasure.
The secret is to unleash her steamy desires onto you ...... and if you put conditions on what turns her on (which you benefit from) .... then you end up wanking on Junior in shower, watching your future heirs swirl down the drain.
If it turns her on .. you're suppose to tap into that to encourage it, not discourage it.
Hmm. Could be leavning myself wide open here. I see both viewpoints here. I don't see cajun's view as rules, more/less standards. I'm big on clean. I never went down on my ex-wife once in 11 years, cuz her shit stunk! Truly made me fearful. Later realized it's not all women, it's their level of cleanliness. I would rewrite the "rules" to include don't ask for what you're unwilling to give. And keep your back porch swept before commenting on your neighbor's steps or however the hell the phrase goes. lol. I MUST be clean. If I know I haven't put a scrubbing to my man parts after my morning shower but before oral then I won't let her do it until I get the cleaning done. I think it's consideration. Here's where P-Angel is right and I might be opening up myself to criticism. I also believe in go where it feels right, as long as it doesn't lead me to the neighbor's farm after midnight! I have a huge labito and find myself craving weirder stuff over the years. No I'm not a psychopath or into children or anything like that, more/less dif positions and pleasures. Regular missionary just got friggin' boring. But all this does leave me wondering if it will continue to progress into the realm of borderline weird. I don't expect to eventually be in any R. Kelly videos getting p1ssed on but I still wonder am I insatiable?
It appears to me that the Virgo men here tend to base the definition of pleasurable sex off of what they desire ... and fail to mention the pleasure of the other.
Perhaps, the reason for it is because you don't know what pleases her?
Lol P-Angel tell that to my lady that showed up at my work a little over an hour ago cuz she wanted a quickie!
lol @ squirting and how non-chalantly it was "placed" into conversation. Um, I've never been with a woman that squirts but in pornos it looks hot as hell and I think I would also have a good time if she was producing large volumes of female juice in one orgasm. You probably go through dryer sheets and Gain like it's no tomorrow huh?
I'm sorry ellesque, that probably wasn't right to say. Apologies. 😢
Decan I'd imagine the "Flood" comes from wide open spaces and a "Squirt" comes from a more, hmm, how should I put this, vaginally frugal woman.
You know. Like putting your finger over the end of a garden hose for more pressure. 🙂
GG allin liked to be pooped on, and i think chicks would be turned off...
Nice, my scorpio is in pluto...only makes me horny, but not sex-prop crazy (such as poop).
Crap, since we are talking about sex...I\'m more mental, so the crazier you say something the more you will expect, but beware for i say some strange ideas too. 😢
I\'m going to hide this...I need to remain a professional godddamnnitt!
Haha I saw your dirty little mind before you said you would hide that post. The scat is outta the bag I guess the analogy would go lol!
Haha, ah well. 🙂
Since ellessque wants the crazy stuff, OP3CR you can give her what she craves >=D
Heard he's a Virgo too! Crazy bastard!
Posted by P-Angel
I see ... sounds like a xerox copy of Domino.Do you realize that to have these rules in place kills the passion?
Yup and Yup
Posted by P-Angel
The secret is to unleash her steamy desires onto you ...... and if you put conditions on what turns her on (which you benefit from) .... then you end up wanking on Junior in shower, watching your future heirs swirl down the drain.If it turns her on .. you're suppose to tap into that to encourage it, not discourage it.
If you would have so many reasons not to engage in the simultaneous passionate stimulations of the moment, and would rather have rules in place which is a thrill killer .... then I guess you'll have to resort to licking your own lollipop.
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I don't disagree in the least.
I just stay away from these things. My choice.
Posted by ellessque
question. one word.squirting.
yay or nay?
Hot
Posted by Cajunspirit
I'm sure I am not the only one who has thought these things and set rules themselves.If you're footy is sweaty or smells bad, don't expect me to go tastin' your jammies!
If you lick my lollipop, you better wash the sugar out ya mouth, b'fore ya kiss me!
If you had a long day at work and smell fresh, go take a bath 'fore ya come hug me!
Chocolate dispensers are for chocolate dispensing, not licking!
Yellow water goes in the bathroom, not on me!kthnxbai 🙂
Cajun, I agree with you. I always make sure I am freshly bathed, soft and sweet-smelling all over before I go see my man. I feel better this way, and I'm sure he appreciates it too... He too is always freshly showered. Now of course, later in the night, we let loose, go with the flow. But I am also turned off by kissing right after oral on me. But I tell him sweetly,saying "not into tasting myself baby". And um, as virgoish that he is, I have agreed to laying on towels, can't blame him, he has to do the wash...lol
Posted by ellessque
question. one word.squirting.
yay or nay?
The fact that I haven't been able to achieve this yet upsets me.
Cajun, I agree with you. I always make sure I am freshly bathed, soft and sweet-smelling all over before I go see my man. I feel better this way, and I'm sure he appreciates it too... He too is always freshly showered.
Awesome.
Now of course, later in the night, we let loose, go with the flow. But I am also turned off by kissing right after oral on me. But I tell him sweetly,saying "not into tasting myself baby".
LOL, my ex used to say the same thing. We agreed on this, strongly.
Try telling that to a water sign... sheesh.
And um, as virgoish that he is, I have agreed to laying on towels, can't blame him, he has to do the wash...lol
LOL, glorious virgetiquette
Posted by BelovedAssata
you virgos, and your euphemisms for naughty bits.chocolate dispensers? lollipops? apple pie? really?
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Don't forget munching on cookies 🙂
So what about shaved/waxed/bare women? Hot or not?
Of course I read 25th *waving* but where does it go exactly?
Posted by sandyclaws
So what about shaved/waxed/bare women? Hot or not?
A low trim is nice, beavers are alright.
Waxed is very visually stimulating.
Bare... err, once theirs none that gets stuck on my lollipop, I'm cool
It depends. I like doin the shower thing as pregame. I like smashin like sweaty beasts during the summer.
Haven't encountered a female *knock on wood* who's smelled bad. But boy have I heard stories!
Posted by Cajunspirit
I'm sure I am not the only one who has thought these things and set rules themselves.If you're footy is sweaty or smells bad, don't expect me to go tastin' your jammies!
If you lick my lollipop, you better wash the sugar out ya mouth, b'fore ya kiss me!
If you had a long day at work and smell fresh, go take a bath 'fore ya come hug me!
Chocolate dispensers are for chocolate dispensing, not licking!
Yellow water goes in the bathroom, not on me!kthnxbai 🙂
Damn, where's the kink in you, man?
About licking your lollipop, she's got to wash the sugar out her mouth before kissin' ya? GTFO.
Posted by BelovedAssata
you virgos, and your euphemisms for naughty bits.chocolate dispensers? lollipops? apple pie? really?
teehehe
Hehehe, bwahahahahaa 'Danny Tanner clean'. 😄
Let's just say..I'm very clean and well-kempt. I would expect the same. Do I expect a sparkling set of gonads after a sports related afternoon or chopping a cord of wood? No. But don't come at me with onion pits, bad breath or sweaty taters that have been marinating in B-ball shorts. Guh. No 'Downtown Julie Brown' if that is the case.
And none of that porn star shaving dudes. There's a reason you're a man. If you like to be aero-dynamic, great. Swimmer? Bicyclist perhaps? I digress. One thing if a man is more comfortable that way, that's personal level of happiness...necessary? Not in my world.
But I tell him sweetly,saying "not into tasting myself baby".
What's wrong with that? Don't like tasting your own "sugar"? (I'm stealing that word btw lmao) ...not even off the lollipop? Damn. Guess I'm a conceited bitch lmao!
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Lol, been told I'm very sweet too , but not too into trying it..
You eat loads of fruit, and good food, you taste better. Man or woman. Every woman should grace her man with pineapple.
Posted by venusianbull
You eat loads of fruit, and good food, you taste better. Man or woman. Every woman should grace her man with pineapple.
^^ Truth! Men, eat your pineapples and other fruits too.
Bit of a mental segue, but ever grill pineapple? Holy goodness.
Come on now. Ooops, let me clean that up, drooled a bit there. I make an amazing pineapple salsa for chicken or fish ( well, someone else can eat that, anyhooters.. ) fresh pineapple, serrano; minced, not a lot, cilantro, lemon juice, fresh tomato, onion, green pepper and red, tiny splash of balsamic and let that fester in the refrigerator awhile so it all macerates. Oh yeh!
I don't mind myself either, or a mans taste, and I'll leave it right there. No need to edge into descriptive.
Posted by venusianbull
Of course I read 25th *waving* but where does it go exactly?Wherever you want it. Mark your territory.....
*strokes chest forest lightly
Somebody said bald or shaved. Either is fine. If it suits YOU, I'll know. Like I said...explore her. See what sounds you can coax out of her. Find her highs and lows....
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Are you SEEING this ladies and gentlemen? Asking an Aries Moon to claim you is asking for trouble, BIG style .
Chest forest, man hair, my kryptonite.
It's pretty damned tasty Cappyy, and easy to toss together and forget about until you grill chicken breasts up.
Posted by venusianbull
Of course I read 25th *waving* but where does it go exactly?Wherever you want it. Mark your territory.....
*strokes chest forest lightly
Somebody said bald or shaved. Either is fine. If it suits YOU, I'll know. Like I said...explore her. See what sounds you can coax out of her. Find her highs and lows....
Are you SEEING this ladies and gentlemen? Asking an Aries Moon to claim you is asking for trouble, BIG style .
Chest forest, man hair, my kryptonite.click to expand
He's yours now, do with him what you like... he asked for it.
Posted by venusianbull
Of course I read 25th *waving* but where does it go exactly?Wherever you want it. Mark your territory.....
*strokes chest forest lightly
Somebody said bald or shaved. Either is fine. If it suits YOU, I'll know. Like I said...explore her. See what sounds you can coax out of her. Find her highs and lows....
Are you SEEING this ladies and gentlemen? Asking an Aries Moon to claim you is asking for trouble, BIG style .
Chest forest, man hair, my kryptonite.He's yours now, do with him what you like... he asked for it.
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BWAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA 😈
No, you sound like a grown woman who owns herself. Mistress of her domain. You....you...SCORPIO YOU. 🙂
Is it a 'stronger' orgasm?
*brows raised* My worst, my absolute best. Oh my goodness Mr. Virgo, we are begging for an absolute journey aren't we...sure you can handle lil' Fire Bull? Hmmmm? *biting side of neck and swirling tongue over to ease the sting*
Handcuffs not necessary, want 'em free. For now.
okay good... it was starting to sound like it was just a location thing. I was starting to feel silly for taking 'pride' (that male ego😛) in making a woman squirt. I like that shaking and numb toes, I want her to be a sweaty, weak kneed, mess when we're done. I always gave myself bonus points for that. Haha, I was like aww damn it, it's just a different spot!
No, no. Real talk is just fine.
Posted by ellessque
there is definately a difference between a gspot orgasm and clitoral orgasm.the gspot seems to be more internal and a lingering feeling that is very elating....like you are floating in air.
the clitoral seems to be very intense and external....like you've lost control of your entire body.
so, yeah, it's a bit different. kudos to you for taking the time to figure out how to make her squirt. some women get shy....so you had to of make her extremely comfortable to get her to that point. real talk.
Honestly, I have yet to reach orgasm through just vaginal alone. I mean, I know most women can't do it, but I was a little disappointed knowing I was one of them lol. Gaaaaah fucking gspot.
But I agree with your description of the clitoral orgasm. Those can send me into spasms if really strong.
That's not derailing, I was clarifying so I could answer the question 😄
Squirting: Yay!
Whooooooooooooooooooot! Some orgasms are more intense than others, some are little booms. Some are earthquakes, typhoons. Out of body experiences. The most intense are a combination of deep thrusting, clitoral stimulation and other. Or when brought right up to the edge, and backed down again, frustrating as all hells because you want to take someone by the hair and say "LOOK YOU!" However.
^5! Body rocking.
Posted by ellessque
"Or when brought right up to the edge, and backed down again"o.m.g....those are the effin best.
During those moments, I just want to shake him and say "Ahhhh you jerk!" but then he just goes back at it again. Arrrrgggghhhhh.
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I'm sure I am not the only one who has thought these things and set rules themselves.
If you're footy is sweaty or smells bad, don't expect me to go tastin' your jammies!
If you lick my lollipop, you better wash the sugar out ya mouth, b'fore ya kiss me!
If you had a long day at work and smell fresh, go take a bath 'fore ya come hug me!
Chocolate dispensers are for chocolate dispensing, not licking!
Yellow water goes in the bathroom, not on me!
kthnxbai 🙂