Does he like me?

This is something I try to ignore and not think about because of the obvious complications. But i have an ex who is a virgo and while we were seeing each other I met his friend who is also a virgo. I introduced him to my friend and they seemed to hit it off, they are still good friends. But she doesnt like him romantically and she says that he keeps telling her directly that he likes her and how good they would be together. Everytime I hang out with them I get this vibe that he may be interested in me. At first I thought he was just friendly because he likes my best friend and I am his friend's "ex", but then there is a tension, and of course i put that down to the fact that his friend and i ended on "bad" terms. Whenever we are out all together--the 3 of us--me, him and my best friend--the vibe i get is so strange because when you're just friends with someone everything flows it's all cool. With me, he's unsure whether he should dance with me and he dances with his other female friends. I get the vibe that he's always "looking out for me". When i am out with them people he knows always come to him asking him to introduce them to me which he does, n by his whole vibe and body language it sends a vibe as to who he "approves" of. Last night i was to meet my best friend at a party, she was supposed to be coming with him. So i hung out with them for a while but i was between them and my other friends. When i first came over to them, he was like wow you look hot! so i smiled politely and said thanks. Then he said it again, so i was like ok thanks, so do you. a little later on i went to find my friend and i saw that she wasnt with him so i was hanging there for a while cuz he told me she would be right back. Then some good songs started playing and he kept brushing my leg, at first i thought i was mistaken and that it was an accident but he did it again and then started dancing with me. When my friend came back, he looked all guilty and reacted that way. In my mind i was like, why is he behaving like that, cuz he dances with other girls infront of her all the time. so why is he acting all nervous and whatever. Anyway my friend n i went to the bathroom and when we came back he was looking at usi guess to see whther anything was wrong. After a while, one of his "friends" asked to be introduced to me, he was kinda cute and i was attracted to him. So he introduced us and i was talking to this guy for a bit. Then when we were gonna leave, the guy came back over ...

and was asking for my num blah blah blah, he just came up in the middle of the convo and hailed his friend saying bye and then motioned to me that we were leaving. So i just said ok and walked off. But it was strange because it seemed like he disapproved of me forming any alliance with that guy that he said was his "friend". so i always think he 's "looking out for me". I have him on bb, and he always seem to be holding himself back, or trying to appear to be aloof. I dont get it, maybe its because he likes my friend and out of respect for her he tries not to "cross" any lines between us. I dont like him romantically, i think he's so sweet and a great person to be with, i enjoy his company. But everytime i am my friendly self, he makes it all weird and i feel like i'm doing something wrong.

I'll take a portion of paragraphs please with a diet coke.

Doesn't matter if he likes you .. what should matter is that he is the boyfriend of your friend.

Here you put so much excitment in whether he likes you that you ramble on incoherently .. when he is the boyfriend of your friend ... and if you were indeed her friend, then you would remove yourself from anything that even resembles mutual feelings with this man, and back the fuck off.

Posted by P-Angel
Doesn't matter if he likes you .. what should matter is that he is the boyfriend of your friend.

Here you put so much excitment in whether he likes you that you ramble on incoherently .. when he is the boyfriend of your friend ... and if you were indeed her friend, then you would remove yourself from anything that even resembles mutual feelings with this man, and back the fuck off.

From what I got from her story, I don't think he IS the boyfriend of her friend. She said that her friend didn't like him romantically and that he simply said "We would be good together."

Thanks Candeh, that is true I explicitly said he is the friend of my ex and seems to like my friend and she does not like him.

Thanks 25TH Decan for your input, dont worry about being blunt I dont mind. I think you are right on all accounts, but for him i beleve that he does not want to make any sort of move because he is loyal to his friend and i am his ex,,that would be weird. Also he may probably feel like i do not like him--which i am not sure i do, as you said it is probably sexual tension. This guy is 26 years old so i think he would be old enough to know what he wants. I'm saying, i get the vibe there's some interest there from his side, but i can never be too sure if he's just being nice or if it's because he likes me. I find it a little strange that he's always be telling me that i'm hot or whatever, because it's my experience that if a guy doesnt like me, he doesn't even notice if i'm looking good or whatever.

On The Contrary .. you weren't explicit at all .. you were babbling.


Gemini

ive gathered that he wants to sleep with u romantic interest? not enough info to go on

Val, i just want to know if this is typical behavior if a virgo man likes me, or if he's simply being a friendly person.