What would you feel and do?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by yuechan on Thursday, August 19, 2010 and has 18 replies.

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@Candeh15
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

What beergo said. I walk away like nothing ever happened. I shrug it off, I don't look back, I act like what happened had never been. But inside, I'll look over everything. I'll analyze it until I tire myself out. On the outside, I'll be as calm as ever, but on the inside, I'll be a mess until I finally find it possible to move on. That's when I REALLY don't care.

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@Candeh15
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Also, usually before I am fully aware that the person has given up on me, I've already started to move on, make my escape. I believe that most virgos can sense this before it ever really takes place, so we start to mirror the actions of our partner and slowly pull away.

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@Pisces2202
16 Years500+ PostsPisces

@ Candeh: I spoke about that with a collegue today, she's a cancer with virgo bf, and I'm a Pisces with virgo bf, so we have a lot in common. She said the exact same thing. If a virgo sense that they're going to be hurt, they walk away before it happens or will hurt you first.

@Beergo: you virgo's aren't that difficult after all 😛

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@Beergo85
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Pisces2202
@ Candeh: I spoke about that with a collegue today, she's a cancer with virgo bf, and I'm a Pisces with virgo bf, so we have a lot in common. She said the exact same thing. If a virgo sense that they're going to be hurt, they walk away before it happens or will hurt you first.

@Beergo: you virgo's aren't that difficult after all 😛

Yup. We are predictable as can be.....Unless we play the Hot&Cold mind trick on you then u are screwed. 😛

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@CLCNY30
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by virg_goki
thats y we virgos dun give ourselves up easily. especially when we surrender and those dirtbags just drop us cus we aren't a mystery anymore.. why do we virgins have to be so complicated to get who we want?

I love this.

You can't win, I'm telling you.

You're damned if you do and if you don't.

That's why you just gotta be yourself from day one--that way it stops the bs'ers right in their tracks; a "what you see is what you get, so if it ain't what you want, gtfoh" type attitude.

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@Candeh15
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Sometimes fixing it only perpetuates whatever the problem is. Some people just give up, and there isn't much we can do. I've tried, but when I really feel like someone just isn't in it anymore, there is no reason for me to stick around. Go figure I'm kind of in this situation right now... I think. o.O

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@Fabricgirl
15 Years

Let me get this straight....

Virgos can appear cool and aloof, but they really care inside.
However, if the rest of us step back, and wait to see if you are really interested,
we appear cool and aloof, and you sense we are leaving, and you run like hell.

I think I'll just dig my heart out now, and lay it down on the ground to be stomped on.....
Just kidding.
I'm hopelessly drawn to a virgo.