Does she want me back *virgo girls answer please*

I'm a Scorpio and she's a Virgo obviously lol so we dated from November to January till she stopped talking to me for a full week and we broke up after that we never communicated with each other since fast forward to a week and a half ago and I seen her at her job and she told me she never meant to stop talking to me and missed me and she gave me back her number.she also said she was looking all over Facebook for me and she used to look for my car at school :/ somewhat like a stalker I guess lol she told me that the reason we stopped talking was because one of her family members passed away so I felt bad for her and I understood where she came from but I wish she would've told me and I could've helped her through it instead of not talking for a week. so I tried to plan to have a face to face talk with her and she said she would love that and she even picked the place.We never got a chance to talk face to face yet because she has been busy and so I'm still trying to have this talk with her face to face on what does she want us to be either friends or does she want to give our relationship another try but she hasn't had the time and PS I've been patient and I've been consistent so my question is does she want to still be in my life or is she playing mind games— Please help

Posted by Scorp56
and she told me she never meant to stop talking to me and missed me and she gave me back her number.she also said she was looking all over Facebook for me and she used to look for my car at school :/

She never meant to stop talking to you..yet she did..and since January she kept "never meaning to stop" while not saying a word. The part about Facebook and your car at school...even if it might be true, comes across a bit manipulative to me: "I actually stopped talking to you but I missed you and looked around for you all the time yet I ignored you for 5 months".

Posted by Scorp56
We never got a chance to talk face to face yet because she has been busy and so I'm still trying to have this talk with her face to face

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^I wouldn't put forth more energy. I'd take a step back and see if she contacts me about this meeting. It was her who went away, she should be the one bridging the gap now. I wouldn't discard her yet but I would be cautious in investing more into her.

Posted by virgorillaa
lots of people think its rude to suddenly stop talking to them, i think its rude too but i still do it (most my little fights with my friends are over this habit of mine, god)

Friends might understand it (mine do) but there is no excuse for shutting a partner out of our lives. Because a partner would be worried if you drop off the face of Earth so you're putting them in emotional turmoil without giving a fuck.

@sapphireMaiden yes I did within that week and after that week I tried to call and text her but she never responded back almost like she blocked my number smh so I thought she didn't wanna be with me anymore so I let it go like she did too

The reason she couldn't contact me was because she "got a new phone" :/ I call bs lol And thank you all its just hard to trying to have a honest talk since she's "so busy" but yes I barely believe the whole looking for me thing because she knew where I lived if she really wanted me that bad she would've came to my house but she said she was scared of how my family thought of her and it's almost like she's avoiding it idk why I just wanna know and if we don't talk anymore it's whatever

Lol thank you for the help and I already made my decision to not pursue anymore I already knew that she wasn't serious about it,a part of me thought I could be nice about it and therefore I'm not going to try and waste my energy on someone who continuously evades me lol I blame my super nice personality and positive spirit for trying to give her another chance

Posted by Scorp56

so I tried to plan to have a face to face talk with her and she said she would love that and she even picked the place.We never got a chance to talk face to face yet because she has been busy and so I'm still trying ....

and she knows that you will still try .... you chasing her, means she has to dodge you

You are appealing to her ego ... she evades you on purpose so she can feel special being chased.


There is no other explanation when a person presents themselves as sincere, and then ignores you while throwing crumbs of hope your way.

You're not going to change her. A Virgo rarely changes their colors. She'll be an attention player, probably for life.

The thing about it when we first started talking she wasn't like this she was the one who always wanted to do something even when she was busy she still found time to chill and stuff and as the months progressed she stopped even when I had the plans too hang she was busy too I guess because she became overwhelmed Idk but still I'm not going to try if she not going to try either so I guess we're at a stalemate lol

Posted by Scorp56
I blame my positive spirit

lmao.

i'm sorry but that coming from a scorpio is rich.

And @P-Angel I don't wanna change her she can stay like that her whole life lol it's no reason to try and chase someone my whole life when I can find someone else who won't lead me on _—

And don't believe all that dark Scorpio stuff some of us really are kind and nice I try to influence positivity no matter what lol

@Reincarnation It would be a different story if she actually texted back or called back but it's no point in continuing this chase if I'm getting no where it wasn't like this when we first started talking there was back and forth talking now it's one sided so why continue to chase lmao