PiscesLeoAquarius
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Does this virgo like me or not?
You were not rejected. And I'm pretty sure he does indeed like you. You just need to understand a couple of things. We have a HUGE work ethic. You probably couldn't have said or done anything to get him to go out with you while you were working underneath him. And you said he's going out of his way to help you; I believe that's a sign. We won't help someone we don't like. Roll with it.
Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
You were not rejected. And I'm pretty sure he does indeed like you. You just need to understand a couple of things. We have a HUGE work ethic. You probably couldn't have said or done anything to get him to go out with you while you were working underneath him. And you said he's going out of his way to help you; I believe that's a sign. We won't help someone we don't like. Roll with it.
Really?? You now what's funny, a Virgo guy friend of mine said the same thing, he said I wasn't actually rejected. I just felt that if he liked me enough, he would have told me so, or said that I should wait till I left the office.
I had just gotten out of a bad situation with a Kenyan guy who I spoke about in another thread, so I was a bit sad and didn't want to pursue this new guy unless he really liked me.
You know what's also funny - when I asked him out, he said "this is a very busy time at the office, we really need to just focus on work right now and to me, someone telling me we need to focus on work was a rejection. Funny.
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
You know what's also funny - when I asked him out, he said "this is a very busy time at the office, we really need to just focus on work right now and to me, someone telling me we need to focus on work was a rejection. Funny.
My virguy friend is totally like that. He really puts a lot into his work, even when he knows it's not going to get him anywhere careerwhise. He just has his own ideas about what needs to be done, how & when. It would be easy to take this as a rejection from most other people, but if all the other positive signs are there (emailing, texting, helping you out) then I'd just go with the flow about work stuff.
He sounds interested, but maybe hesitant to ask you out. My virguy friend seems like a fairly confident well-spoken guy, but he floored me in a response to a picture I sent him. He said 'I always wondered where your tattoo was, but was too shy to ask'. WTF?! A middle-aged man, friends for years, too shy to ask about my tattoo. I had no idea how far the virgo reserve can go in certain areas, but that was an eye-opener. Now I never assume silence = disinterest. There are tons of little things he likes to know but would never ask.
So jump in there and ask him to meet you for coffee. It's a great way to safely test the waters 😉
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
You know what's also funny - when I asked him out, he said "this is a very busy time at the office, we really need to just focus on work right now and to me, someone telling me we need to focus on work was a rejection. Funny.
LOL... he definitely interested... being aloof, nervous, showing he's doing the right thing at the right time - perfectionist, are quite an obvious signs...
Virgo don't give a damn (get connected) if they're not interested... they wouldn't bother to explain themselves why they're doing this and that... giving off that 'who cares' attitude..
i suggest you to pick the right timing when asking him out..
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