@sikkario
16 Years
Virgo Is NOT That Judgemental...
Dude??_
Every single human specimen on this globe actually are judgmental by nature and in case of being Virgo? We are on extreme side!
If you —love or hate?? or if you —like or dislike?? something, then you are —judgemental??.
Even if you live like a Robot or Android, you have your —codes?? pre-installed when you were born/created..
Then again??_
If you —judge?? means you —care??, only —careless?? people wont judge because they —don't simply —care??..!
Ease up on yourself dude...
It is not very caring of us if our judging inflicts unnecessary pain.
I don't think Virgos get a bad rep for being judgemental .. I'm not sure why you feel so insecure about something that isn't even that obvious.
The Virgo bad rep comes from others things you guys do ...
You are right on track with everything. I do not judge people, for that's not why I am here. I accept people for who they are. I do call people out on their crap when needed. Most people do take it the wrong way, but that is not my intention. I do not intentionally go around hurting people and it honestly hurts my feelings when people take it that way. My boyfriend is a Libra. He has something (both good and bad) to say about everyone. Of course, he doesn't show it in public, but when it is just him and I, he becomes the biggest gossip queen I have ever seen.
Oh! and I must add, when you do cross that line of trust, that is when my bad side comes out. You will face my Virgo wrath, and I do not have an issue cutting people from my life if needed. If you want a second chance, you better have some good reason why you broke that trust in the first place. If you respect that line, I am a very sweet person.
All I have to say is that Virgos can be either your best friend or can make your life a living hell.
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Posted by sikkario
Virgo gets a bad rep, cuz they are good at it when they do it, and often their analysis will call someone on their bullshit before anyone else has realized it. Otherwise, Virgo does not base his ego on belittling others, and once developed feels very bad for doing so.
This.
I have met alot of judgemental Virgos and I can be very judgemental myself but it's never about my ego. Never. That's beneath me, really.
I get off on helping people, not hurting them but often the delivery/timing is off so now I'm learning to wait until my help is solicited and temper what I say with a warmer tone and more openess about my own life so that they recognize that I am just like them, and only wish to see them do better versus someone who is just trying to look down on them as if I am some holier than thou.
We are blunt and almost always right in our judgements/assessments, with an articulate tongue (even if others consider it tactless) coupled with our down to earth common sense which I think can be a devastating combination for others. So devastating that we can sometimes find ourselves ostracized or putting people off but luckily for us, we normally don't give a damn.
On the flip, some days I just can't hold my tongue 'cause there are those who just need to be told straight, or deserve to get cussed the hell out.
On the flip, some days I just can't hold my tongue 'cause there are those who just need to be told straight, or deserve to get cussed the hell out.
Yeah, and I bet you're soooooo cute when you are riled up!
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ps.
What's with the black rose, dudette?click to expand
*chuckles*
Nah, don't think it's much of a cute look at all. My eyes are popp'n outta my sockets, saliva's flying everywhere, and my hair is whirling 'round my face. Sometimes my head even does a 360 on my shoulders. 😛
The rose is just well, beautiful. The Black because it symbolizes new beginnings and rebirth.
The most popular, red, doesn't do anything for me. Never has.
*chuckles*
Nah, don't think it's much of a cute look at all. My eyes are popp'n outta my sockets, saliva's flying everywhere, and my hair is whirling 'round my face. Sometimes my head even does a 360 on my shoulders. 😛
Um, you know that dinner date we had, ummmm, look, ummm, somethin's come up, ahhh, well, my grandma needs me to take her to latin dance class, then I need to drop grandad off at the denture clinic, look, sorry, lets catch up another time....maybe.
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LOL, Oh come on. Don't be like that. They're just innocent, spontaneous moments of cray cray. 😄 Besides, we all have them. *Grabs MM by the arm and drags him away* Muahahahahahaha
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Just living my life, I remember a time when I was extremely judgemental and sometimes close-minded.
My teens were the peak of this.
However, after a certain point, I stopped, and it seemed like many other people did...it's called maturity.
You learn its not about other people but about you, you learn that your shortcomings are just as bad as others.
I've got four good Virgo friends, and I am a Virgo as well.
I never hear the gossip, or shit-talking 'judgementalism' in my Virgos that I usually hear from Scorps and Sags.
Obviously Virgos are more judgemental than say a Leo, Aries or an Aqua (when they are not on an arrogance kick.)
But overall, I would not place us as the most judgemental sign. I think when Virgos get into judgement, they are simply better and more cutting at it, which gives them the bad reputation.
Otherwise, I find Virgos to be accepting, egalitarian, and generally, non-judgemental.
The Virgo razorblade comes out when you 1) break their trust, 2) maliciously attack them; then you will see feel the cold metal of their tongue dig deep into you.
Otherwise however, I'd place, 1) Sag/Cap 2) Cap 3) Sag 4) Scorp 5) Libra, as all signs that are more 'judgemental' than the average Virgo. Sag/Cap being blunt/tactless, and close minded, Cap being prudent and so by the book that everyone is off-base, Sag is just generally an asshole, seems to me if they get started on a hate fest, they will keep it going for 30 minutes till their brain turns back on, Scorp is cruel and demeaning to those thing that don't match their perfect view of the world, Libra judges people all the time on the stupidest most unnecessary criteria, they just often don't say it.
Virgo gets a bad rep, cuz they are good at it when they do it, and often their analysis will call someone on their bullshit before anyone else has realized it. Otherwise, Virgo does not base his ego on belittling others, and once developed feels very bad for doing so.