DyTryin: Virguys and Cheating

Hey I am wondering, when Virgos are in committed relationships, what makes them stray?
And specifically DyTryin? Did you ever cheat on your Libra
first wife?

Mocha

Cmon, I really want to know, I mean, I keep hearing that the Libra
Virgo prognosis is not the best in the world, and I wonder
is cheating a piece of the puzzle for the demise.

My Virguy and I are doing well, I have Mars in Virgo
and we both have Venus in Scorpio; so I think we'll
fare better than average, but I get so worried about this
cheating issue...

For me personally, cheating is the worst and I'm deathly
afraid of it happening to me...

Mocha

This will go unanswered. And I don't even need to explain why.

For me, it was a Scorpio trying to control me. Tell me what to do, who to talk to, where not to go.

As for Virgo Libra, the Libra is the more likely party to "go astray".

Posted by mochacaremel
Cmon, I really want to know, I mean, I keep hearing that the Libra
Virgo prognosis is not the best in the world, and I wonder
is cheating a piece of the puzzle for the demise.

My Virguy and I are doing well, I have Mars in Virgo
and we both have Venus in Scorpio; so I think we'll
fare better than average, but I get so worried about this
cheating issue...

For me personally, cheating is the worst and I'm deathly
afraid of it happening to me...

Mocha

Must not be the most substantial relationship if you have to ponder this. That or you're letting past occurances affect the way you see your present partner, which isn't fair to either of you. You will know when you're with someone who isn't going to cheat on you, who is fully devoted to you without a doubt in your mind. My sun sign is virgo, I've been on both sides of the fence, phony balogna flings and swings and til death do us part committed soul entanglements (well, only my current relationship and yeah I could never see myself with a Libra). You will have those superficial ships that are mostly about sex and image and ego, where you say things to perpetuate motion, but you don't always mean what you say. You mainly just want to keep the ball rolling because you're not completely sure where things are headed, but you don't want to lose somthing that feels good... Those kind of relationships DO allow for the hazard of infidelity. It's like trying to build a house out of mud, the whole time you're telling yourself the mud is brick or wood, then you still wonder if it's going to cave in on you eventually. My gal is a scoprio and we're both about devotion. I would put my balls in a tank full of pirahnas before laying a sexual hand on another woman (though yes I am a human guy and I still find other women attractive; it's not about denial, it's about discipline), and I whole-heartedly know she would NEVER EVER fuck around. We pay full attention to the most minute details of our amazing relationship; if anything is repressed or out of wack we make sure it surfaces immediately to be dealt with through communication and uderstanding. Who knows, I may not spend the rest of my life with her, anything can happen between now and the grave, but I would cordially end things first before breaking her heart. Breaking her heart would just completely shatter mine, no exception.

Thank you to all who replied. Its my own insecurity which I blame on
my Cancer moon...I'll sort through it though. He is such an awesome man...

Mocha

@theonly764hero, your reply rocked my world. Thankyouverymuch for that thoughtful
response. Quick query: are you saying you can't see yourself with a Libra because you've
been with one and it didn't work out? Or are you saying it based on logical
astrological knowledge of Libra?

I don't take offense b/c I'm fortunate to have Cancer and Scorpio
placements that make me more emotionally intelligent, loyal and empathetic.

Mocha

Posted by mochacaremel
Thank you to all who replied. Its my own insecurity which I blame on
my Cancer moon...I'll sort through it though. He is such an awesome man...

Mocha

Bingo

😄

Heheheheee, it's like some Earth sign secret hand motion. LOL Spirit fingers.

Posted by mochacaremel
@theonly764hero, your reply rocked my world. Thankyouverymuch for that thoughtful
response. Quick query: are you saying you can't see yourself with a Libra because you've
been with one and it didn't work out? Or are you saying it based on logical
astrological knowledge of Libra?

I don't take offense b/c I'm fortunate to have Cancer and Scorpio
placements that make me more emotionally intelligent, loyal and empathetic.

Mocha

Don't mean to offend, some of my best friends are Libras and I love that they are so eccentric and cultural, but personally, I just couldn't see things working out in the long-term with Libras because at the very core I find that there are almost always disturbances and disharmonies based on the logical astrological knowledge and my personal exp. I think my stepmother ruined my image of Libras for me early on, but I'm sure she is a Saturnian Libra. The Venus Libras are admirable, but getting too closed has always turned disasterous. That's just the small handful that I've come across though. One time I met this guy who was a Libra who impressed the socks off of me, real stand-up fellow, and Libras usually are... until I get to know them realllll well, at least for me :/ probebly just the bad luck of the draw.

@VenusianBull and DyTryin

You both answered my question despite having your own public/private love fest here,
because if it's that *obvious* then Dy didn't cheat. I always hear him talking about his
Libran ex of 20 years and how Libras and Virgos don't work, yet...20 years and an *awesome*
Scorpio daughter isn't a bad run or a bad deal. But whatevs.

Mocha

I didn't believe it needed answering if you understand Dy's moral compass mocha. It was not meant to offend you. I found the question to be moot quite frankly because every person behaves differently.

I think I clearly stated why I created this thread Dy. I've never read whether or not infidelity played a role, I doubted it, yet
intended to inquire.

Venusian, thanks for not attempting to offend; however, your comment appeared pompous, as though
there is a such thing as a "stupid" question.

At any rate, I gleaned much from this thread, thank you to all: a veritable
tree of knowledge.

Mocha

And yours mocha, went on the defensive when it was unnecessary. My words of wisdom are, do not seek a problem where there is none. If you doubt the man, then confront the situation. If you do not, then of what good would it do if another man cheated? Irregardless of sign, what knowledge do you hope to glean from it? If you had read closely and paid attention to every thread in which the Libra was mentioned, or even just sounded out the man himself, the question need not have been asked. Then you mentioned the 'love fest'. Why, because he and I understand one another? Even words on a page I am well aware he is a married man. It shimmers along every word he speaks on of the woman. There is a line that is not crossed with me, and that is definitely one of them. No matter how much I flirt, or not. My choice really. Pompous you may think me, and that is your opinion, so keep it if you like, or discard it at your leisure. And that, is your choice.

Lol, now you want to answer the query Venusian? You're comical.
Defensive? I'll take that. It's a natural response to an offense.

I don't get how you don't see how rude your statement was, no matter
how much you want to kiss Dy's azz. Lol

Meanwhile, your eventual answer above went unread by me. Too little, too late.
If you start out being a prick, at least stay consistent. And ppl say Libras are wishy-washy.

Mocha

That's right mocha. Tis what I live for you know. I lie awake at night and think of multiple ways of how can I kiss Dy's ass. You caught me red handed I'm afraid. Well done.

LMAO I know Bells, but I cannot quit smooching the mans ass. It's so round, so firm...so fully packed. 😄

Posted by venusianbull
LMAO I know Bells, but I cannot quit smooching the mans ass. It's so round, so firm...so fully packed. 😄

LMFAO! I almost spit grapefruit pulp all over my keyboard laughing at that "so fully packed!" LMAO!

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!

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Posted by cancersunleomoon123
The last virgo i was with for a year on/off cheated on his gf from what i heard because she was supposedly a major bitch. THat,and i think boredom.

yeah,those virgos are quite the sweethearts,aren't they? ha,not really. they just put on a better facade than the other signs. i much prefer imperfection and genuine.

Actually, my virgo friend is a sweetheart and genuine and will admit to many imperfections and none of it is a facade. As with anyone, I think that while astrological signs can give you a basic guideline, but their upbringing, the things that have influenced them, as well as inherited traits will color those guidelines for a very unique individual. Perhaps it becomes our responsibility when trying to find a mate, to really assess what it is that we want in an individual and look at what or who we generally choose. In my younger years, I found that I would have the same issues over and over again in various relationships and discovered that I was basically picking the same type of relationship over and over again. There were traits and characteristics that I was picking up on in these men and I was picking them out again and again. I found when I began going outside of my comfort zone, going out with guys that I wouldn't normally date, that I began to break the pattern I had established for myself. I also figured out what the traits were that I had been subconsciously choosing and knew those were traits that I needed to avoid because they were toxic to me. Self awareness is a good thing. It's much easier to point a finger at someone else and say they are the problem, when we sometimes have to look in ourself to discover the deeper problem.

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Right. It's nature and nurture. Someone's zodiac sign would fall under the category of the former but there is still the upbringing, experiences and everything else to consider.