VirgoMan69
@VirgoMan69
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Why?
Have I screwed up completely?
Why?
Posted by VirgoMan69Because you asked if you were LOLPosted by dontgetmewrongWhy?
You're such a asshole.click to expand
But lets be hinest you let your thoughts get the best of you thoughts that had no merit.
Posted by VirgoMan69lol
I have a funny/asshole charm about me.
One last thing, I know some of you might say "she has a boyfriend" but that is none of my concern, not to mention I am not looking for a relationship at this time.
Posted by dontgetmewronghmm
So what are your intentions?...friendship? Lol.
Some of you virgo dudes conduct this fantasy relationships in your minds..
Posted by dontgetmewrongHmm because I dont like to be lead on as a person? Thats my analysis, but of course you just want to see me as the asshole.
Good..maybe now you can analyze why you should stay away from her...
I am willing to hear out other peoples arguments and not just blurt out statements like you do.
The user who posted this message has hidden it.BOOOOOOOO
Posted by VirgoMan69How is her boyfriend supposed to feel? Oh right, you can't be bothered to give a shit.
WTF.
How am I supposed to feel?
Always amazes me when people go for cheaters. It's obvious she's the type that would sidestep in a relation but you probably have it worked out in your head that it won't happen to you.
You said you're not looking for a relationship here so it's not like your heart is set on a taken woman and you are conflicted. You're just looking for easy poon. Go find single poon since this isn't about feelings at all.
*relationship.
Posted by DamnataI do like her a lot, love does not always have to be about having a relationship, if she truly cared about her man then she wouldnt be doing all these things with me, if she was a girl I really didnt give a crap about then I would have been made the move on her, Im not acting like I am don juan over her but I get attention from various girls, I dont just bang a bunch of girls for the fun of it, hell it takes me a while to even get close to a girl and really like her in that way, I have a lot of female friends that I talk to and have never made a move, obviously I like this girl more than just a friend.Posted by VirgoMan69How is her boyfriend supposed to feel? Oh right, you can't be bothered to give a shit.
WTF.
How am I supposed to feel?
Always amazes me when people go for cheaters. It's obvious she's the type that would sidestep in a relation but you probably have it worked out in your head that it won't happen to you.
You said you're not looking for a relationship here so it's not like your heart is set on a taken woman and you are conflicted. You're just looking for easy poon. Go find single poon since this isn't about feelings at all.click to expand
As for her boyfriend why should I care? Like I said if she cared why would she act the way she does with me then? I respect when a girl just tells me straight up "sorry I cant" rather than play like this, you think I have never hit on a girl only for them to tell me they are in a relationship? Of course and I respect it and move on, guess what though? They dont keep on making sexual innuendos with me and go out for drinks and stuff like that etc.
Posted by kalinYou were in her situation? So you told a guy that you liked him but cant be with him because you have a boyfriend? Did you go out for drinks with him and hold his hand and cuddle with him? Did you text him late at night (or morning technically), what kind of impression is a man supposed to get from that?
I hope she won't be lured back in by you. I was in her situation a few times. Hated it.
Of thats just my girl bff! We cuddle all the time!
Posted by dontgetmewrongThank you! Now we are getting somewhere, so what is it I want you ask? I like this girl a lot and I want to be with her in an intimate way, do I have a full blown relationship right now? No.
I call it as I see it..not making excuses to my screwed up behavior like you do. But of course, you see it as blurting bc it's not sensitive enough to your liking ... (whatever)..you're fucked up and so is she.
Do I want to fuck her just because she looks good? No, I genuinely like her as a person and friend, she makes me feel good when I am around her, why do some people act as if the only way people can have sex is if they are in a relationship? Why would I screw her up emotionally after we have sex, because then she would want to take it to that next level?
I give you respect for saying we are both fucked up and not just pointing the finger at me, goes both ways.
No one is saying the chick is a saint in this topic. At all. She is the one cheating on her partner.
Yet you're no saint either and your angle of playing it like you are being lead on and seduced...please.
Spare me the Virgo justification. You know you're hitting on a taken woman, no matter how she responds to you.
Yet you're no saint either and your angle of playing it like you are being lead on and seduced...please.
Spare me the Virgo justification. You know you're hitting on a taken woman, no matter how she responds to you.
Posted by VirgoMan69Cool, walk your talk then. You can do that with or without a background noise of sexual innuendos. 😉. If you walked your talk, everything after "I have a boyfriend" should fall on deaf ears for an honorable person.
you think I have never hit on a girl only for them to tell me they are in a relationship? Of course and I respect it and move on
It's hilarious to bring up respect and "why should I care about her boyfriend?" in the same topic.
The fantasy you have worked around this chick is just in place to appease your conscience. You're probably aware of that but just bears repeating. Who knows, you might get some self respect at some point to not go for taken chicks. Then again Virgoan self esteem is an existential pit of despair so maybe that's all there is to you.
The fantasy you have worked around this chick is just in place to appease your conscience. You're probably aware of that but just bears repeating. Who knows, you might get some self respect at some point to not go for taken chicks. Then again Virgoan self esteem is an existential pit of despair so maybe that's all there is to you.
I understand and I'll take that hit, call me a scumbag or whatever you want, we are both wrong then, her for "cheating" and me for continuing on.
Why dont I move on like I have before? Because those other girls it was just a physical attraction, they have a boyfriend? Cool move on, this girl though? Like I said I dont just find her pretty, I like her a lot, they way she talks, the way she walks, the way I feel when we are together and laugh, I really do like her, I dont know any other way to put it.
If it makes me a scumbag to pursue a girl who is reciprocating even if she has someone then I guess I am, but at least I am honest,
Why dont I move on like I have before? Because those other girls it was just a physical attraction, they have a boyfriend? Cool move on, this girl though? Like I said I dont just find her pretty, I like her a lot, they way she talks, the way she walks, the way I feel when we are together and laugh, I really do like her, I dont know any other way to put it.
If it makes me a scumbag to pursue a girl who is reciprocating even if she has someone then I guess I am, but at least I am honest,
Posted by DamnataI would also like to point out that I didnt "go for this taken chick" in the sense of me knowing she had a boyfriend but I said fuck it, I dont care!
It's hilarious to bring up respect and "why should I care about her boyfriend?" in the same topic.
The fantasy you have worked around this chick is just in place to appease your conscience. You're probably aware of that but just bears repeating. Who knows, you might get some self respect at some point to not go for taken chicks. Then again Virgoan self esteem is an existential pit of despair so maybe that's all there is to you.
We became friends and would hang out a lot but really just as friends, after some point I did start to feel for her but never expressed that to her, if anything she was the one grabbing me, texting me and hugging me all the time, she would even get annoyed if I didnt text back, so anyway moving forward with all these little signs I couldnt help myself any longer I had to let her know how I felt, she says that things are complicated but continued to do these things.
Sure no problem and that is why I distanced myself, why did I talk to her again? I guess I feel too much for her and I missed her, what can I say, just being honest here.
I admit I took it a bit far as far as the distance goes but I felt played with.
OP, you asked if you're the asshole and people told you so. Why not chill first and know why before you defend yourself?
Ok so you're shy but that usually doesn't always make you right with your actions. Why bother asking if you never intended to want the responses you appear to fish for?
Ok so you're shy but that usually doesn't always make you right with your actions. Why bother asking if you never intended to want the responses you appear to fish for?
Virgoman69,
You continued to make plans, knowing that you had a romantic interest in a woman in a pre-existing relationship. You played the 'friendship' role, drew her in, and when you received the 'green light,'...you moved forward. You were waiting for this moment. Methodically planning behind the scenes, while pretending otherwise.
You're practical, there is nothing delusional about you. You're not being played. It's your own insecurities talking. She's not that innocent, and neither are you.
The least you could do, is give her time and space to move from her current relationship before she prematurely dives into another one.
Patience Virgo, get it together!
You continued to make plans, knowing that you had a romantic interest in a woman in a pre-existing relationship. You played the 'friendship' role, drew her in, and when you received the 'green light,'...you moved forward. You were waiting for this moment. Methodically planning behind the scenes, while pretending otherwise.
You're practical, there is nothing delusional about you. You're not being played. It's your own insecurities talking. She's not that innocent, and neither are you.
The least you could do, is give her time and space to move from her current relationship before she prematurely dives into another one.
Patience Virgo, get it together!
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