virgo sending mix messages

I posted something about my virgo in the cancer forum just tto get their perspective on how to control my emotions. But my virgo keeps sending me mix messages. One day hes sending kissy faces and the next hes treating me like im pne of his dudes.. Its weird. I already told him that i liked him and i was told by other cancerians to fall back and let him take control. But i feel like if i dnt then nothing happens. In the pass two months i prolly seen him 4 times and all times i have asked him. He always says yes but sometimes hes close grabbing me other times hes walking 2 feet away from me. If i dnt text him i wont hear from him for a week. Its kind of bugging me. Weve been talking off and all since last november. I dnt mind taking it slow at all but i dnt know where i stand with him. Are we friends? Are we fwb? (we have had sex a couple times). He kind of beats around the bush when i ask him if hes really interested. Im the kinda person that likes to be direct. If hes not interested then let me drop my feelings so i can move on to the next. I dnt want to feel like we're wasting each others time. Like last night he got of work. I met him for a bite and drinks. Had a good conversation. Went to the movies. This time he didnt hold my hand like usual. Didnt even lean towards me like he usually do. After that he was suppose to come over my place but decided to go home. Gave me a half ass hug and nudge my chin like i was a kid.. I literally went "wt the hell" to myself. He did text me to see if i got home okay but my phone died and i didnt reply till this morning. Conversation ended at that. I know a lot about personality regarding our signs. Im cancer july 14th hes virgo sept 4th.. But im wondering if anyone has an insight to this or similar situation... I can be patient if i know where i stand but i cant get it out of him.

Our situation is kinda the same I understand how your feeling he's September 6th I'm Gemini june9th

I feel one min everything is cool then sometimes hot/cold it's very confusing however our relationship is a lil different two weeks ago he sent me Facebook request putting us as in a relationship then he said babe we r now Facebook official I was surprise n happy

When we hang out he holds my hands kisses me in public open the car door for me he doesn't give me compliments but couple weeks ago he said I look beautiful it was nice to hear when we are together spending time together we have a great time but once we are apart he goes home or I go it becomes different

Doesn't text me like he used to
If I text he takes awhile to respond sometimes
N he just seem distant n detached sometimes I don't know it's all confusing
So I have decided to chill stop worrying myself n let him come to me give him his space trust me it's hard but I have to try something else I will go crazy I love to chat maybe it be text or phone or in person I'm a Gemini we love to talk n to me when the relationship is so new if two months why is space needed we should be wanting to always see each other or talk to each other but that's me everyone I guess is different

I'm sorry this guy is making u feel like this it stinks n I thought mine was so not good I don't know I think u should talk to him n find out certain things asks questions n decide I had to decide to just take a step back give him a lil space n hopefully he comes back

I feel like thats all i do is give him space and give him the ipportunity to text or come see me. Before last night it was 3 weeks since i saw him. I do want to ask questions but texting im not gonna get anything from him. I need to be face to face. I would have done it last night if he came over but he went home.

I hate that these virgo men take forever to analyze everything. Maybe start feeling something in the heart sometimes! Lol

@agib2015, It's simple, this Virgo dosen't see you more than just a friend. Virgos don't require so much space. You are the one who's running this relationship. My virgo bro has a gf who's also a virgo. He takes care of her, send her gifts and calls her everyday and his gf dosen't have to ask for his attention.
Collect the hint and move on. When he is making it clear in his actions that he is not into you then why you wanna hear it from him?
We virgos care about other's feelings, so we avoid being straightforward sometimes, so that others don't get hurt. Especially when people have expectations from us.

Posted by Kim01
Our situation is kinda the same I understand how your feeling he's September 6th I'm Gemini june9th

I feel one min everything is cool then sometimes hot/cold it's very confusing however our relationship is a lil different two weeks ago he sent me Facebook request putting us as in a relationship then he said babe we r now Facebook official I was surprise n happy

When we hang out he holds my hands kisses me in public open the car door for me he doesn't give me compliments but couple weeks ago he said I look beautiful it was nice to hear when we are together spending time together we have a great time but once we are apart he goes home or I go it becomes different

Doesn't text me like he used to
If I text he takes awhile to respond sometimes
N he just seem distant n detached sometimes I don't know it's all confusing
So I have decided to chill stop worrying myself n let him come to me give him his space trust me it's hard but I have to try something else I will go crazy I love to chat maybe it be text or phone or in person I'm a Gemini we love to talk n to me when the relationship is so new if two months why is space needed we should be wanting to always see each other or talk to each other but that's me everyone I guess is different

I'm sorry this guy is making u feel like this it stinks n I thought mine was so not good I don't know I think u should talk to him n find out certain things asks questions n decide I had to decide to just take a step back give him a lil space n hopefully he comes back

Your situation isn't the same at all but if you actually believe it is..then it will probably become.

Posted by agib2015
... then let me drop my feelings so i can move on to the next

Do you need permission from him to do that? I don't get this whole mindset at al. You're not happy, you move on. It's not up to anyone's approval.

More than enough time since November for him to clarify his position. He didn't therefore this is a fwb.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by agib2015

... then let me drop my feelings so i can move on to the next

Do you need permission from him to do that? I don't get this whole mindset at al. You're not happy, you move on. It's not up to anyone's approval.

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I don't get the mindset either, never have. Been preaching it in dxp since 2007.

It doesn't matter though, women just absolutely REFUSE to acknowledge that men aren't female.

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Posted by Damnata

Posted by agib2015

... then let me drop my feelings so i can move on to the next

Do you need permission from him to do that? I don't get this whole mindset at al. You're not happy, you move on. It's not up to anyone's approval.

I don't get the mindset either, never have. Been preaching it in dxp since 2007.

It doesn't matter though, women just absolutely REFUSE to acknowledge that men aren't female.

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Im not asking for permission to drop anything. If i feel things are not worth it then im gone like u never see me. But like i said im getting mix signals. He texted me last night around 10pm asking if i wanted to come to his house saturday for a bbq.. After i said sure. He replied "good you finally get to meet my mom and sister". Its things like that. How could he be so stand offish the last time we hung out. Barely talk to me for a couple days. Then text me something like that??

I'm a cancer woman who was seeing a Virgo man for a couple of months. He's a very heavy drinker so of course I was drinking more. At first he wanted me to meet all his friends. It ended up to be 4 different bars that he went to is his life. And nothing else we did together. I became emotional at times while drinking being a cancer I guess.. after a comment he had made to me about looking at him like his mother that really bothered me . I left after he said to me there's that look after an evening of drinking. I called the next day to apologize for being angry and leaving that we should be friends not lovers. He became defensive and hung up. This has bothered me. Is been over a week now I text to say I wish I weren't so emotional ect... His reply was in short he hopes I'm happy someday. My reply was I am happy I can't drink every day. I'm sad to lose him should I leave him alone? I feel if I say anything else he will be more angry. Help!

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I'm a cancer woman who was seeing a Virgo man for a couple of months. He's a very heavy drinker so of course I was drinking more. At first he wanted me to meet all his friends. It ended up to be 4 different bars that he went to is his life. And nothing else we did together. I became emotional at times while drinking being a cancer I guess.. after a comment he had made to me about looking at him like his mother that really bothered me . I left after he said to me there's that look after an evening of drinking. I called the next day to apologize for being angry and leaving that we should be friends not lovers. He became defensive and hung up. This has bothered me. Is been over a week now I text to say I wish I weren't so emotional ect... His reply was in short he hopes I'm happy someday. My reply was I am happy I can't drink every day. I'm sad to lose him should I leave him alone? I feel if I say anything else he will be more angry. Help!

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So i just dropped virgo a text this morning saying i wouldn't ne able to go to his bbq because i have extensive training over the weekend for my new job. He snapped at me! He was basically like "i havent heard from you in days and now u drop this?!" i dont even know what to say or do anymore.. I dnt get him—!!!