Help me to understand more about make virgos

This man can be so confusing. Does not give compliments. I hear virgos like control. I mean I know things seem to be on his "terms". But funny not controlling in the bed room. Well maybe that's his form of control. I've asked what do u like? Answer I don't know. What do u mean u don't know. It's like he has no clue what he wants. Hard worker. Are virgos just selfish, boring. Are they lovers? Are they just stand offish. Do they express their feelings?

I hear they are say it how it is. Do they just not appreciate the Capricorn way?

I'm a Capricorn

Well in my mind it's a challenge! Apparently I like challenges otherwise I would have walked away from many things. I guess I need to know how or how now to respond on certain things

What do you mean about picky?

I don’t find Virgo men to be particularly complicated. Understand what was said about picky tho. The Virgo men I know are particular and have grown accustomed to things being a certain way. The only way to change their minds is to show them a more successful way. Even then, you can lead the horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.

Thank you for your responses. It appears they just don't open up as easy. Not really into change bc it's their comfort zone. Well maybe my boy toy will eventually come around. There is hope. Haha.