What's the best way to become a less impatient/anxious person. I know Virgos are prone to worrying, but is there a way to just mellow myself out a bit? I'm terrible for being impatient and getting anxious about things. If you imagine being in that state of "not knowing" when a loved one is lying in a hospital bed and their life is hanging in the balance and you don't know if they're going to make it? Well I'm like that about all sorts of stupid things that are nowhere near as serious. I wouldn't quite go so far as to read the last chapter of a book to make sure everything turns out okay in the end before reading the book from the beginning, but I wish I could do that with other areas of my life... Particularly relationships. I'm 3.5 months into a new relationship and it's going nicely enough, but I just want to see the future to know it's going to work out long-term so that I can relax during the "not knowing" stage. I've resisted telling my GF that I feel like this 'cause she'll probably think I'm crazy, clingy, needy, etc. and run a mile, but inside I am so anxious. This is a good example. We've got off on a good footing, we get on well and I'm sure it will work out, but I'd just like to skip the months that it takes to find out for sure. Obviously I can't do this so can anyone recommend any techniques for becoming less impatient and just chilling out? I'm not the only one like this, am I?
