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VIRGO Bliss: Marriage!
That word is NOT in my vocabulary
Posted by VirgoHero
That word is NOT in my vocabulary
lmao
does not compute word marriage system reboot lmfao
Posted by FUMRedFairy_talesOK... just say yes and get married! The rest comes naturally. Why do you torture yourselves, you guys??
Marriage... darn... is not so BAD!!!
That's what she said.
Virgos + Marriage = —?
I guess you have to prove yourself worthy, if you want us to commit. Marriage commitment is probably the hardest thing a Virguy or any man can do in his life. 🙂
Posted by VirgoHero
That word is NOT in my vocabulary
Damn, maybe I should stick with the VirGuy!!!! Loking better and better!!! LMAO!
Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by VirgoHero
That word is NOT in my vocabulary
Damn, maybe I should stick with the VirGuy!!!! Loking better and better!!! LMAO!
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aww why did you hide your comment? 😛
Alright Fumes...
Its 3am. I've been studying my ass off so I'm broken, beat, exhausted, and in my current state of weakness, I'll address your topic more seriously...
Speaking for myself, as a Virgo male, I'm VERY comfortable and VERY happy being single. Now don't read this the wrong way. I'm also VERY comfortable and VERY happy if I'm in a relationship with someone I'm really into. Inherently, being comfortable in either state allows me the freedom and confidence to be selective of whom I chose to give my time to and when I do so.
Now take this to a WHOLE new freaking level called marriage
If I'm absolutely comfortable NOT being married, this allows me the freedom so that if and when I do get married, its 100% . Its for life. Its... "until death do us part.
I want to love someone so much that when she dies, I'll never remarry because I'll mourn her death the rest of my life. (I promise you, we're not as robotic as we may appear lol)
If its not with someone that's going to be 100% , why bother? Especially if one is more than happy being single.
"If its not with someone that's going to be 100% , why bother?"
Very true.
VirgoHero -- the hidden message is nothing of substance. I was just being the overly happy, silly Fumi.
Thank you very much for taking your time in between your studies for responding me on how you see marriage. I do believe VIRGOS have psychic abilities or perhaps they are so sensitive that they catch the tiniest feeling of the other person, but it surprises me still every time, when VIRGO understands what the actual question is when it is not even worded that way.
It is nice to see that regardless of generational differences, there are still those who value tradional standards. I understand what you mean when you say that you are happy being by yourself and would only enter marriage when you cannot do without Her or would not want anyone else even after Her leaving. I guess there is nothing that can be preset for making you want someone so badly, when your body can't signal you that message.
I am observing the same in LEO man. He seems very sure. Says no one made him feel this way. He knew right from the moment he saw me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Therefore, I believe in his sincerity. BUT.., STILL..., HENCE... Can't keep myself from thinking..
*We will see..
NOW I know better that this past Virgo Man who was so flaky on me, must have gone through some tormenting to himself as well. I was Not the one for him...
Fumi seems to have figured LIFE & LOVE 😛
I thank you all for posting 😄
One other thing I like to add. I think over the years I just became cynical about marriage.
Posted by FUMRedFairy_talesOne other thing I like to add. I think over the years I just became cynical about marriage.
YOU CYNICAL!?!? NEVER!!!! 😛 😛 😛 😛
LOL... Rumiiii....
Love you too, hun 😄
.... Beary Much!!! ...
CLEARLY you two need to kiss now...
Posted by VirgoHero
Alright Fumes... Its 3am. I've been studying my ass off so I'm broken, beat, exhausted, and in my current state of weakness, I'll address your topic more seriously... Speaking for myself, as a Virgo male, I'm VERY comfortable and VERY happy being single. Now don't read this the wrong way. I'm also VERY comfortable and VERY happy if I'm in a relationship with someone I'm really into. Inherently, being comfortable in either state allows me the freedom and confidence to be selective of whom I chose to give my time to and when I do so. Now take this to a WHOLE new freaking level called marriage If I'm absolutely comfortable NOT being married, this allows me the freedom so that if and when I do get married, its 100% . Its for life. Its... "until death do us part. I want to love someone so much that when she dies, I'll never remarry because I'll mourn her death the rest of my life. (I promise you, we're not as robotic as we may appear lol) If its not with someone that's going to be 100% , why bother? Especially if one is more than happy being single.
I 200% agree lol but im young so im stay single as long as i can unless sum one breath taking cums along than maybe—
Posted by VirgoHero
Alright Fumes... Its 3am. I've been studying my ass off so I'm broken, beat, exhausted, and in my current state of weakness, I'll address your topic more seriously... Speaking for myself, as a Virgo male, I'm VERY comfortable and VERY happy being single. Now don't read this the wrong way. I'm also VERY comfortable and VERY happy if I'm in a relationship with someone I'm really into. Inherently, being comfortable in either state allows me the freedom and confidence to be selective of whom I chose to give my time to and when I do so. Now take this to a WHOLE new freaking level called marriage If I'm absolutely comfortable NOT being married, this allows me the freedom so that if and when I do get married, its 100% . Its for life. Its... "until death do us part. I want to love someone so much that when she dies, I'll never remarry because I'll mourn her death the rest of my life. (I promise you, we're not as robotic as we may appear lol) If its not with someone that's going to be 100% , why bother? Especially if one is more than happy being single.
I 200% agree lol but im young so im stay single as long as i can unless sum one breath taking cums along than maybe—
Marriage is overrated and is such a pain to legally undo the do's. Living on the same street would be ideal. LOL
FUMRedFairy_tales
Marriage means slavery, do you know any slave Virgo..??
Shaks; you are idealist, too young to understand the concept! Wait and see the truth??_! 10-15 years from now.!
oh come on Q, dont give me that cliched crap of "Im older than you so I know better" just because things didnt work out for you and you
The fact is I am older than you, like I said it before I don't know any better I just know more, what has been said comes from the personal experiences nothing more and nothing less.
Things are very much working on my favour and I don't have any problem with my personal life, nothing unusual or unpredictable anyway!
Listen carefully, I don't usually gives information away in this kind of stupid web sites, but be careful about your love life marriage is slavery.
I know of many beautful people got married then 10-15 years later get separated because of they felt grew up in their relationship..
Tell me what marriage is..?
And then, when I was 26 I was wild and out to exploring the world, expolring the whole African continent inch by inch living with the unknown culture dancing with them, eating with them, sleeping with them, exploring with them??_ every minutes??_
You can not compare your life wih me..!
Mr. Qbone
My ex Virgo husband would disagree that life with me has been slavery for him. In fact, he told a close friend of ours that him and I have different level of understanding of each other. We gave each other space and freedom.
... to a point when I broke completely free..
However, I do agree with you that 10-15 years of togetherness may grow us apart from our mates. I haven't figured the formula yet how it is that some couples can be together for life and still love each other so much that even when one of them dies, the other follows in a short period of time.
I don't know the percentage of such couples, but they must have figured out some kind of formula.
Much love and respect to you.
Shaks --
I am happy for you that you believe in marriage. I also believe that one usually gets more in return compared to being all by yourself. Yes it does require compromising at times, but one does grow into that over time. I wouldn't call it slavery though.. usually compromising is done voluntarily, because you love that person, His/her happiness becomes your happiness as well.
The formula is very simple my dear!
The face, the appearance will fade in time, the only thing remains is the thought and way of thinking, hold on to it and you'll be as fresh as the very first time.
How may times do I have to tell?
To say it simple??_!
What you've got in your mind..?
Do you kindly remember the 1001 night's story..??
It wasn't about her beauty, but her brain and the way of thinking!
His/her happiness becomes your happiness as well.
His/her/happiness, has nothing to do with my happiness, marriage is slavery! Will I be happy in a marriage when I don't feel happy..?
A life full of compromising?
Wait till you get older shak
Then we talk??_!
Of course not I??ll be dead by the time when you are grown up??_
But wait till you get OLD enough to get the conclusions??_. all i ask....! from friend to friend..
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OK... just say yes and get married! The rest comes naturally. Why do you torture yourselves, you guys??
Marriage... darn... is not so BAD!!!