How do Virgo men try to win girls back

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After a break up how will you guys try to win your girl back if that is what you want.. Especially if your Virgo sign is emotionaly detached & rarely shoe emotion.. How much effort will you guys put into it?& what means will you do? What will be your strategy? & if you guys are the type which is self confident & full of pride that refuses to lower him self for any cause and for anyone.. Also the silent type which is not fond of arguments & emotional break downs..
The reason why I need to find out is that i broke up with my Virgo " disaster fianc?" what i did is that I informed him it's over & that I will be dropping his stuff to his home & pick up mine.. During This he seemed careless, didn't reach to pick his stuff from the car until they accidently fell of the hood & broke into pieces & he got down on his knees & picked up the shattered glass then told me that I can walk away now.. On the way home he called me asking if I had anymore stuff to pick up in a cocky tone, told him no need but he mention a couple of items but I replied that I don't want them & he replied that he doesn't want them either & has no use for them.. I tried to explain that if he wants to give anything back let it be tonight coz I didn't want to have to see him again but he hung up fast saying his dad is calling him.. When I reached home he called again & asked me how come his stuff fell on the ground & broke & I told him that he saw with his own eyes that they fell of the hood without me touching anything.. He replied that his family are asking him about what happened, I asked him to the stuff? He replied no to me & you.. I told him to ask him self that not me, he told me what now? Is that it? I replied yes & I wish you a happy life & told him to take care.. I thought that was it & I was convinced I made the right choice because in the last days he didn't show me he is into the marriage thing & that I will be giving him exactly what he needs.. His behavior & his attitude were pushing me to break it off.. Minutes later he sends me A text saying " if I want you what should I do, I swear to god I want you what should I do can you give me a chance please don't turn me down everybody makes mistakes not only me give me a chance" .. I didn't know what to make of it.. While I was there he didn't left a finger to stop me what did he want now after I made peace with the whole thing after a week of pure hell, I Waited for minutes while I was in shock and confusion..
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I called him & told him what was that? What is on his mind but he rarely spoke & ran away coz I told him after what u did from where did that come from?.. He told me he will call back & after almost an hour & a half I called him but he didn't answer then he called.. Told him its still early to call, why don't u take more time but he said there was a rally out side in the neighborhood with the guys & riot police were there & it was true.. So then he was free to talk but he was mainly quiet & let me do the talking, I asked him about his behavior, I spilled my heart out, I kept asking him if he does love me why was he doing all of that he will give me excuses & smart his way out of it.. I asked him how will he make it work if I gave him a chance, how will he convince me & my family coz they hate him.. Ii asked him if he will do these bad things to me again. He replies "of course not" but in a cocky tone.. Which was killing me coz he is not making the effort anyways.. I asked him to be honest, why does he want? He replied " i want you" I asked him why does he want me & he said " because I love you" but I wasn't convinced he wasn't realy trying in my opinion he is cocky he will not lower him self even to me & tell me that in a way that will realy convince me.. I told him to go sleep & that we will talk to tomorrow & meanwhile he should realy think about what he wants he replie that there is no need for him to think.. Told him that there is a need for that but he didn't seem to want to hang up & wanted my answer if am taking him back right at the moment... But I insisted on tomorrow.. That was it the next day he didn't call me.
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Wall O' Text , man.

Well if a Virgo man wants you back, wich is rare it usually means you meant a whole lot to him. I mean, more than you could possibly even care for, if you dumped him, but lets pretend you did care...

There a certain people in our lives that inspire us. And the only woman I have ever wanted back (or thought I did) was a woman who inspired me to be better and to have hope.

What did i try to get her back....everything. Nothing worked.

She was the last one. The others after her, i just let walk away----I didnt utter a sound.



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The problem is that you emotionally suffocate. If a person goes back to read your history, it becomes obvious that you ramble on and on to him (not just us in here with your constant WOT).

If he is five minutes late ... you begin to attack it with out pours of emotions.


It was only a matter of time before he bailed ... to be honest, no person would handle that long.
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Posted by P-Angel
The problem is that you emotionally suffocate. If a person goes back to read your history, it becomes obvious that you ramble on and on to him (not just us in here with your constant WOT).

If he is five minutes late ... you begin to attack it with out pours of emotions.


It was only a matter of time before he bailed ... to be honest, no person would handle that long.



No honey My feeling was right he is just another player that happens to be a virgo, he is unsure of what he wants?? he wants to settle down but in the same time he doesn't want to stop sleeping around with other girls, I found out the hard way & after it was too late.
Am not over emotional, am just a normal girl with intuition & in my heart I sensed there was something the minute his true colors showed. In the beginning he made an effort to hide his dirt but now his neglect shows he doesn't even care.
Am a victim of a very bad man, I know by now he cheated on me several times 🙂 he is just sick.. That's all I can say, am disgusted but relieved that god saved me from him
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how would he try and win you back? By YOU falling for the same crap you already have with him. You need to walk away and be done. Period. If you really honesty want him back and he you, then you set some pretty high standards and boundaries with him, and you take no crap.

'Well if a Virgo man wants you back, wich is rare it usually means you meant a whole lot to him.' THAT. Mine had to win me back.(not from cheating, etc but from his own demons) And to this day, no matter how much I love him, I love me more, and I will let him walk if he ever crosses certain lines again.
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In the beginning he made an effort to hide his dirt but now his neglect shows he doesn't even care.
Am a victim of a very bad man, I know by now he cheated on me several times 🙂 he is just sick.. That's all I can say, am disgusted but relieved that god saved me from him



You're not a victim. You made your choices.

You seek drama, that's why you want him "to care"..so you could keep living in your delusion. It would entitle you to create more scenarios and spew more bullshit on the virgo board. Simply put, you attract whatever energy you put forth. This should tell you a thing or too about yourself.
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Posted by Damnata

In the beginning he made an effort to hide his dirt but now his neglect shows he doesn't even care.
Am a victim of a very bad man, I know by now he cheated on me several times 🙂 he is just sick.. That's all I can say, am disgusted but relieved that god saved me from him



You're not a victim. You made your choices.

You seek drama, that's why you want him "to care"..so you could keep living in your delusion. It would entitle you to create more scenarios and spew more bullshit on the virgo board. Simply put, you attract whatever energy you put forth. This should tell you a thing or too about yourself.
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Couldn't agree more with this.

Libras have a way with playing the victim card. Stop with the pity party and move on!