after an argument.... just wondering
How long do Virguys stay mad?
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Posted by Sagtastic2
after an argument.... just wondering
Not that long because they are usually the one who started the argument in the first place. Lol.
Until their done punishing u or u give them good head :p
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Until their done punishing u or u give them good head :p
Definitely feel like I'm being punished....lol
In my defense, I was provoked (such manipulators lol) so I retaliated. Just never seen him the mad.
Posted by Scorsagian21Posted by CluelessCancer
Who cares, fuk em, you look gorgeous.
Lol...100% aree^^^click to expand
Thanks to the BOTH of you.
He know's it too!
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Until their done punishing u or u give them good head :p
Ha a little truth in that! I don't stay mad for long, I get bored and most of the time forget what we were arguing about, after being with a sag to be fair she was stubborn but usually she held out the olive branch before I did, lovely part of a sag personality
Posted by Stryker77Posted by KittenLaRouge
Until their done punishing u or u give them good head :p
Ha a little truth in that! I don't stay mad for long, I get bored and most of the time forget what we were arguing about, after being with a sag to be fair she was stubborn but usually she held out the olive branch before I did, lovely part of a sag personalityclick to expand
I extend an olive branch as well and apologized for my harsh words.
I wouldn't call it stubborn....it's PRIDE (typical fire sign traight)
@ KittenLaRouge That's the thing, I didn't give up the goods after he begged. Must have hurt his ego?
As long as it takes for people to get over their self
As long as it takes for people to realize we were right all along
Spinning the mirror on us..
As long as we're self centered
As long as we haven't figured out a different route to make our point.
We know we're in the wrong, but annoyingly for people it seems to happen more rarely than not. But if we are, it's just a matter of a)acknowledging it and b)finding a way to come to a compromise
We're all about compromise. It not about power or ego (though some seriously misguided Virgos will go there).
However, if you were wrong in a way that's against decency, common sense or anything else, we'll ice you out.
^^^Also if we don't care, bypass all that because we couldn't be bothered to give a damn. Pisces/Virgo axis..they swim, we ice people out.
As long as it takes for people to realize we were right all along
Spinning the mirror on us..
As long as we're self centered
As long as we haven't figured out a different route to make our point.
We know we're in the wrong, but annoyingly for people it seems to happen more rarely than not. But if we are, it's just a matter of a)acknowledging it and b)finding a way to come to a compromise
We're all about compromise. It not about power or ego (though some seriously misguided Virgos will go there).
However, if you were wrong in a way that's against decency, common sense or anything else, we'll ice you out.
^^^Also if we don't care, bypass all that because we couldn't be bothered to give a damn. Pisces/Virgo axis..they swim, we ice people out.
Posted by Sagtastic2
I extend an olive branch as well and apologized for my harsh words.
This means nothing without actions backing it up.
Posted by Sagtastic2
That's the thing, I didn't give up the goods after he begged. Must have hurt his ego?click to expand
Virgo begging = Virgo running game on you, because they see you as liable to give it up. There's no respect implied there. We really don't beg. If you see Virgos begging for anything, they're working an angle.
Also I think your fire self is exaggerating the begging here. I should know, my chart is mostly fire.
But if he literally begged, yeah...he's the one running the show.
But if he literally begged, yeah...he's the one running the show.
We can measure glaciers by the length of time it takes for us to get over it.
BUT
If you want to end it without much fuss just cuddle up to him and give a little snuggle and those glacier clocks will start to unwind.
BUT
If you want to end it without much fuss just cuddle up to him and give a little snuggle and those glacier clocks will start to unwind.
Posted by Damnata
As long as it takes for people to get over their self
As long as it takes for people to realize we were right all along
Spinning the mirror on us..
As long as we're self centered
As long as we haven't figured out a different route to make our point.
We know we're in the wrong, but annoyingly for people it seems to happen more rarely than not. But if we are, it's just a matter of a)acknowledging it and b)finding a way to come to a compromise
We're all about compromise. It not about power or ego (though some seriously misguided Virgos will go there).
However, if you were wrong in a way that's against decency, common sense or anything else, we'll ice you out.
^^^Also if we don't care, bypass all that because we couldn't be bothered to give a damn. Pisces/Virgo axis..they swim, we ice people out.
As long as it takes for people to get over their self
As long as it takes for people to realize we were right all along
Spinning the mirror on us..
As long as we're self centered
As long as we haven't figured out a different route to make our point.
We know we're in the wrong, but annoyingly for people it seems to happen more rarely than not. But if we are, it's just a matter of a)acknowledging it and b)finding a way to come to a compromise
We're all about compromise. It not about power or ego (though some seriously misguided Virgos will go there).
However, if you were wrong in a way that's against decency, common sense or anything else, we'll ice you out.
^^^Also if we don't care, bypass all that because we couldn't be bothered to give a damn. Pisces/Virgo axis..they swim, we ice people out.
Posted by Damnata
Also I think your fire self is exaggerating the begging here. I should know, my chart is mostly fire.
But if he literally begged, yeah...he's the one running the show.
No fluff, he literally was like "please! Kelly". I told him no and the next day he was a jerk to me....go figure.
He ain't running nothing over here honey. I just put a tight lid on the cookie jar and he used all his spades trying to open it. (even money! Smh)
Posted by miamivirgo
We can measure glaciers by the length of time it takes for us to get over it.
BUT
If you want to end it without much fuss just cuddle up to him and give a little snuggle and those glacier clocks will start to unwind.
I think I'll wait for his fit to be over. He always flips the script to try and teach me a lesson so I can "know how it feels" (damn scorpio rising)
Posted by Sagtastic2
No fluff, he literally was like "please! Kelly".
omg I died laughing when I read this
Posted by Sagtastic2Posted by Damnata
Also I think your fire self is exaggerating the begging here. I should know, my chart is mostly fire.
But if he literally begged, yeah...he's the one running the show.
No fluff, he literally was like "please! Kelly". I told him no and the next day he was a jerk to me....go figure.
He ain't running nothing over here honey. I just put a tight lid on the cookie jar and he used all his spades trying to open it. (even money! Smh)click to expand
You assume his goal is to fuck you. I think his goal is to mock you because he sees you as easy to get. I am not implying you are easy to get btw.
Point is, men can get sex everywhere. Entertainment they cannot get everywhere.
If this is the Virgo you previously talked about..he doesn't care. And it's you posting about him so..who cares more?
You should completely close the chapter. The drama will go on forever if you don't.
Posted by Sagtastic2Posted by miamivirgo
We can measure glaciers by the length of time it takes for us to get over it.
BUT
If you want to end it without much fuss just cuddle up to him and give a little snuggle and those glacier clocks will start to unwind.
I think I'll wait for his fit to be over. He always flips the script to try and teach me a lesson so I can "know how it feels" (damn scorpio rising)click to expand
It's interesting that you said this the Virgo guy that I am talking to said the same thing to me that he wanted me to "feel what he felt" those were his exact words.
Posted by Damnata
You assume his goal is to fuck you. I think his goal is to mock you because he sees you as easy to get. I am not implying you are easy to get btw.
Point is, men can get sex everywhere. Entertainment they cannot get everywhere.
If this is the Virgo you previously talked about..he doesn't care. And it's you posting about him so..who cares more?
You should completely close the chapter. The drama will go on forever if you don't.
I though that time is precious to Virgo men and if the don't care then they wouldn't waist their time. Am I wrong?
Posted by DamnataPosted by Sagtastic2Posted by Damnata
Also I think your fire self is exaggerating the begging here. I should know, my chart is mostly fire.
But if he literally begged, yeah...he's the one running the show.
No fluff, he literally was like "please! Kelly". I told him no and the next day he was a jerk to me....go figure.
He ain't running nothing over here honey. I just put a tight lid on the cookie jar and he used all his spades trying to open it. (even money! Smh)
You assume his goal is to fuck you. I think his goal is to mock you because he sees you as easy to get. I am not implying you are easy to get btw.
Point is, men can get sex everywhere. Entertainment they cannot get everywhere.
If this is the Virgo you previously talked about..he doesn't care. And it's you posting about him so..who cares more?
You should completely close the chapter. The drama will go on forever if you don't.click to expand
You're probably right about him thinking I'm easy. ( I am not offended) But excuse me for falling in love creating a soft spot for him. But I take full responsibility for allowing him to play on my emotions just to get a rise out of me. Guess he didn't think I would that far and cut him where it hurts.
Yep, it's the same one however, I analyze all human relationships. Close the chapter— I took that book back to Barnes and Noble and got a refund! LOL
Posted by canerleo101Posted by Damnata
You assume his goal is to fuck you. I think his goal is to mock you because he sees you as easy to get. I am not implying you are easy to get btw.
Point is, men can get sex everywhere. Entertainment they cannot get everywhere.
If this is the Virgo you previously talked about..he doesn't care. And it's you posting about him so..who cares more?
You should completely close the chapter. The drama will go on forever if you don't.
I though that time is precious to Virgo men and if the don't care then they wouldn't waist their time. Am I wrong?click to expand
Some people will get pleasure out of mind fucking others.
God damn it I want Barnes and Noble in my country also 😢
Posted by Sagtastic2
You're probably right about him thinking I'm easy. ( I am not offended) But excuse me for falling in love creating a soft spot for him. But I take full responsibility for allowing him to play on my emotions just to get a rise out of me. Guess he didn't think I would that far and cut him where it hurts.
Yep, it's the same one however, I analyze all human relationships. Close the chapter— I took that book back to Barnes and Noble and got a refund! LOL
If you dont' mind me asking how did he play on your emotions just to get a rise out of you I thought that was a Libra thing.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by Damnata
You assume his goal is to fuck you. I think his goal is to mock you because he sees you as easy to get. I am not implying you are easy to get btw.
Point is, men can get sex everywhere. Entertainment they cannot get everywhere.
If this is the Virgo you previously talked about..he doesn't care. And it's you posting about him so..who cares more?
You should completely close the chapter. The drama will go on forever if you don't.
I though that time is precious to Virgo men and if the don't care then they wouldn't waist their time. Am I wrong?click to expand
Sometimes they have an agenda like Damnata said, just to mock me. (pathetic I know right) One day we stayed on the phone, while he was at work, for three hours just so he could tell me how he didn't want to be in a relationship with me "because it didn't work" TF? Yada yada yada, I just want to catch up! He had no real reason, he just wanted to project his feelings of rejection on me to make himself feel better. It got to a point where I had to tell him to stop bringing that shit up because it is long over.
@canerleo101
Mind games and Control issues that's all. I wouldn't bother If I was you. You deserve someone who knows WTF they want.
Mind games and Control issues that's all. I wouldn't bother If I was you. You deserve someone who knows WTF they want.
Posted by Sagtastic2
Sometimes they have an agenda like Damnata said, just to mock me. (pathetic I know right) One day we stayed on the phone, while he was at work, for three hours just so he could tell me how he didn't want to be in a relationship with me "because it didn't work" TF? Yada yada yada, I just want to catch up! He had no real reason, he just wanted to project his feelings of rejection on me to make himself feel better. It got to a point where I had to tell him to stop bringing that shit up because it is long over.
That's interesting because the Virgo guy who I have been dealing with beggied me to stop talking to my ex, and several times in the beginning of our so called friendship. I told him that we should just be friends because I didn't think that he was ready to be in a serous relationship he kept telling me that he wanted to pursue a relationship with me. Then as soon as I allowed myself to trust him and have feeling for him he switch up. It's like this was his hidden agenda from the beginning to get me to be stuck on him.
Posted by DamnataPosted by canerleo101Posted by Damnata
You assume his goal is to fuck you. I think his goal is to mock you because he sees you as easy to get. I am not implying you are easy to get btw.
Point is, men can get sex everywhere. Entertainment they cannot get everywhere.
If this is the Virgo you previously talked about..he doesn't care. And it's you posting about him so..who cares more?
You should completely close the chapter. The drama will go on forever if you don't.
I though that time is precious to Virgo men and if the don't care then they wouldn't waist their time. Am I wrong?
Some people will get pleasure out of mind fucking others.click to expand
This is so freaking true!
Posted by virgoyumPosted by Sagtastic2
after an argument.... just wondering
Not very. We may think about it, or ruminate over it but the anger doesn't really stick. It's usually just passive aggressive behavior just to make a point as opposed to any real emotion behind it.click to expand
I thing your right, I have said on done some really disrespectful things to the Virgo guy that I am talking to but he never stays mad, he lets it go rather quickly.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
If you dont' mind me asking how did he play on your emotions just to get a rise out of you I thought that was a Libra thing.click to expand
Multiple ways! Hitting me with some sob story about his life (I'm super loyal and caring, my ass would be there in a second, smh) Setting up "scenarios" that could be interpreted negatively only to say "you're over-reacting" in attempts to make me think I'm crazy. Having his mother call me to fish for info because I wouldn't tell him a thing.....stuff like that.
Now libra in his chart, just that damn Scorpio ASC!
Posted by virgoyum
Yeah too obvious to beg lmao... If we're more aggressive we've decided we definitely want something to satisfy our own personal need.
I thing that this has to do with someones age also. @sagtastic2 How old is this guy.
25
Posted by Sagtastic2
@canerleo101
Mind games and Control issues that's all. I wouldn't bother If I was you. You deserve someone who knows WTF they want.
So is he talking to other women or is it just he and you.
Posted by Sagtastic2
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When you said that he has control issues, is it that he doesn't want you to have a life outside of him.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
@canerleo101
Mind games and Control issues that's all. I wouldn't bother If I was you. You deserve someone who knows WTF they want.
So is he talking to other women or is it just he and you.click to expand
That situation has long died, I'm talking January.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
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When you said that he has control issues, is it that he doesn't want you to have a life outside of him.click to expand
Kind of. I remember one conversation where I said we are two different people and he said "we are". Like he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that I am an individual.
Posted by Sagtastic2Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
@canerleo101
Mind games and Control issues that's all. I wouldn't bother If I was you. You deserve someone who knows WTF they want.
So is he talking to other women or is it just he and you.
That situation has long died, I'm talking January.click to expand
So are you talking to any other guys.
Posted by Sagtastic2
Sometimes they have an agenda like Damnata said, just to mock me. (pathetic I know right) One day we stayed on the phone, while he was at work, for three hours just so he could tell me how he didn't want to be in a relationship with me "because it didn't work" TF? Yada yada yada, I just want to catch up! He had no real reason, he just wanted to project his feelings of rejection on me to make himself feel better. It got to a point where I had to tell him to stop bringing that shit up because it is long over.
I can't believe that you still even talk to him. You are way to pretty. But I know how it is because I am and have been in similar situations.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Sagtastic2Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
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When you said that he has control issues, is it that he doesn't want you to have a life outside of him.
Kind of. I remember one conversation where I said we are two different people and he said "we are". Like he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that I am an individual.
He wants you to be available while he's anti committal, does his dirt, it's not that he doesn't see you as an individual, he wants you to be there for him for his emotional needs, while he fuks around. Very selfish entities, men are, especially Virgo men.click to expand
Wow, I guess you do know what you are talking about when you describe Virgo men, because this describes the one who I have been dealing with also.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Sagtastic2Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
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When you said that he has control issues, is it that he doesn't want you to have a life outside of him.
Kind of. I remember one conversation where I said we are two different people and he said "we are". Like he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that I am an individual.
He wants you to be available while he's anti committal, does his dirt, it's not that he doesn't see you as an individual, he wants you to be there for him for his emotional needs, while he fuks around. Very selfish entities, men are, especially Virgo men.
Wow, I guess you do know what you are talking about when you describe Virgo men, because this describes the one who I have been dealing with also.click to expand
I wouldn't generalize all Virgo men to be this way, it's just nor fair. She did however, describe and emotional immature little boy.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Sagtastic2Posted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
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When you said that he has control issues, is it that he doesn't want you to have a life outside of him.
Kind of. I remember one conversation where I said we are two different people and he said "we are". Like he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that I am an individual.
He wants you to be available while he's anti committal, does his dirt, it's not that he doesn't see you as an individual, he wants you to be there for him for his emotional needs, while he fuks around. Very selfish entities, men are, especially Virgo men.click to expand
You nailed it. That's my assessment of the situation as well and it also sounds like someone I know.
Posted by tiziani
Doesn't it seem like a nightmare combo to you though Sagtastic? You told me the one thing Sags need is emotional openness and honesty and well, I think anyone would be hard pressed to find a Virgo who's willing to initiate that process despite what Damnata claims.
I am one of those few Virgos.
But really people, there are awesome and awful Virgos out there. The second type will play games til the cows come home. The only way to win is not to play. Just do you, be happy, enjoy life.
There's already enough times in this life where it gets tough and hard. You don't need the extra confusion and grief.
Posted by tizianiPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by tiziani
Doesn't it seem like a nightmare combo to you though Sagtastic? You told me the one thing Sags need is emotional openness and honesty and well, I think anyone would be hard pressed to find a Virgo who's willing to initiate that process despite what Damnata claims.
Exactly. Same for Cancers. We seek openness and honesty. Why i think Sags and Cancers make great relationships...
From what I've seen, yeah they do actually... funnily enough. Cancer all about the home and Sag is anything but, yet these two make rock solid relationships.click to expand
I like Sag - Cancer matches 🙂
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by tiziani
Doesn't it seem like a nightmare combo to you though Sagtastic? You told me the one thing Sags need is emotional openness and honesty and well, I think anyone would be hard pressed to find a Virgo who's willing to initiate that process despite what Damnata claims.
Exactly. Same for Cancers. We seek openness and honesty. Why i think Sags and Cancers make great relationships...click to expand
I blame my damn Cancer ascendent! and you're right, you have to be able to "feel" your emotions first. I think some are to detached.
I don't know about water signs and Sags. Never dated a Cancer but the ones I know are to clingy and a homebody.
Just say your screwed, we don't forget anything. Just don't provoke him to remember and your good as golden
Posted by CluelessCancer
1) Sags allow Cancer moodiness, they basically IGNORE us when we say crazy things out of emotion, because they say crazy things, cause well they crazy.
2) Sags are homebodies, yes they are, Cancers go out more and do more then most SAGS i know...Cancers are more adventurous. Yet Sags love to play the i'm independent i'm out there card. NO you're not, but if you were, great, both can be out there, and both can be homebodies when needed.
3) SAGS love to Cook. Cancers love to EAT
4) Sag are warm genuine misunderstood people. Cancers are warm genuine misunderstood people.
now I see
Posted by Sagtastic2Posted by CluelessCancer
1) Sags allow Cancer moodiness, they basically IGNORE us when we say crazy things out of emotion, because they say crazy things, cause well they crazy.
2) Sags are homebodies, yes they are, Cancers go out more and do more then most SAGS i know...Cancers are more adventurous. Yet Sags love to play the i'm independent i'm out there card. NO you're not, but if you were, great, both can be out there, and both can be homebodies when needed.
3) SAGS love to Cook. Cancers love to EAT
4) Sag are warm genuine misunderstood people. Cancers are warm genuine misunderstood people.
now I seeclick to expand
cancers like eating sags for lunch
Posted by virgoyumPosted by tiziani
Doesn't it seem like a nightmare combo to you though Sagtastic? You told me the one thing Sags need is emotional openness and honesty and well, I think anyone would be hard pressed to find a Virgo who's willing to initiate that process despite what Damnata claims.
I would agree that you would be hard pressed to find a Virgo who's naturally open, but true mutable Virgos feed off energy so if you're a bubbly more outgoing personality, your nature may increase a Virgo's outgoing nature. Same with affection etc. For example, I have a Scorpio friend who just talks and talks and talks and expresses her feelings, which has made me comfortable overall in expressing my feelings.
So if you were constantly open and honest without trying to force communication from us, you'll be more successful in getting us to open up. Maybe not to the level you want intitally, but we'll likely get to some happy medium.click to expand
Hell this is so true, sagittarius has been in my life for 18 years and she has brought out my personality and I feed off her energy, its like an addiction!
Your back again after being called out with the last screen name who treated this Virgo (or is it a new one? lol) like shit and LYING.
You are a fucking troll...we all told you to stay away from Virgos because you are a complete failure with them. You don't have what it takes to have any man for that matter. So why are you trolling again? Bored?
You are a fucking troll...we all told you to stay away from Virgos because you are a complete failure with them. You don't have what it takes to have any man for that matter. So why are you trolling again? Bored?
Posted by virgoyumPosted by canerleo101Posted by Sagtastic2
Sometimes they have an agenda like Damnata said, just to mock me. (pathetic I know right) One day we stayed on the phone, while he was at work, for three hours just so he could tell me how he didn't want to be in a relationship with me "because it didn't work" TF? Yada yada yada, I just want to catch up! He had no real reason, he just wanted to project his feelings of rejection on me to make himself feel better. It got to a point where I had to tell him to stop bringing that shit up because it is long over.
That's interesting because the Virgo guy who I have been dealing with beggied me to stop talking to my ex, and several times in the beginning of our so called friendship. I told him that we should just be friends because I didn't think that he was ready to be in a serous relationship he kept telling me that he wanted to pursue a relationship with me. Then as soon as I allowed myself to trust him and have feeling for him he switch up. It's like this was his hidden agenda from the beginning to get me to be stuck on him.
Virgo men are really interesting creatures. I dated one but probably never again as I find them a lil ho hum for me. But one thing I will say for virgos in general the think about feelings more than they actually genuinely feel them. I think he may have wanted what he wanted at the time, which was to pursue a relationship with you, but then when they are finally gratified it's like did I really want this? Virgos overthink just as bad as Libras if not worse.click to expand
This guy told me flat out "I have felling for you and I really don't want you to go back to your ex" so now I'm confused wondering did he really have feelings for me or was he just saying this to get me to be totally stuck on him.
Posted by Sagtastic2Posted by Damnata
Also I think your fire self is exaggerating the begging here. I should know, my chart is mostly fire.
But if he literally begged, yeah...he's the one running the show.
No fluff, he literally was like "please! Kelly". I told him no and the next day he was a jerk to me....go figure.
He ain't running nothing over here honey. I just put a tight lid on the cookie jar and he used all his spades trying to open it. (even money! Smh)click to expand
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