@canerleo101
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Do Virgo Men Lie About Other Woman
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The only Virgo I've ever personally known (going on 10 years) used to be a huge liar, but he has since mended his ways. But, that's just one so I don't think that's much help lol
That depends on the person. Has he been honest with you? Is the question I want to know. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.....
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That depends on the person. Has he been honest with you? Is the question I want to know. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.....
I don't know if he has been honest or not. We were in a long distance relationship for the first seven months of our relationship i flew out to NY to see him twice. I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
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Posted by VirgoChyld
That depends on the person. Has he been honest with you? Is the question I want to know. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.....
I don't know if he has been honest or not. We were in a long distance relationship for the first seven months of our relationship i flew out to NY to see him twice. I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
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Ok, well go with your intuition then. And go from there is my best advice. I can say cause I don't know you situation
All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
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All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
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Posted by AVG
All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
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Why??
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All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
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Because I threatened to come to his house and start mess with him.
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All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Why??
Because I threatened to come to his house and start mess with him.
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Never,Never violent!! We will run for the hills...haha..🙂
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Well I was going to add to that, that he is the one with a criminal record not me, so I was very offended when he said that he was going to call the police on me.
Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
Woman*
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Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.
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Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.
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That's how we do,no matter how bad we use to be back in the day...we always turn into mother Teresa or father terry at some point!! Hahahahahahahaha..🙂
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Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.
That's how we do,no matter how bad we use to be back in the day...we always turn into mother Teresa or father terry at some point!! Hahahahahahahaha..🙂click to expand
I guess your right because of all of the men that I have ever dated he is the only one that I would consider having children with.
Tell ya what,I'll tell you a way too find out if he's got other women on the side. Ok, tell him you wanna have a open relationship,and that some dude at work has been trying to push up on you,and told you about open relationships and how there ain't no strings attached,and you kinda liked the way it sounded..and be serious about it no smiling..I know y'all cancer Leo's are silly so you might have to do it over the phone or texting...might work,might not..😉
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Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.
That's how we do,no matter how bad we use to be back in the day...we always turn into mother Teresa or father terry at some point!! Hahahahahahahaha..🙂
I guess your right because of all of the men that I have ever dated he is the only one that I would consider having children with.
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Really? We are the best dads..😉
Posted by AVG
Tell ya what,I'll tell you a way too find out if he's got other women on the side. Ok, tell him you wanna have a open relationship,and that some dude at work has been trying to push up on you,and told you about open relationships and how there ain't no strings attached,and you kinda liked the way it sounded..and be serious about it no smiling..I know y'all cancer Leo's are silly so you might have to do it over the phone or texting...might work,might not..😉
He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys. But whats funny is that in the beginning of our relationship he begged me not to go back to my Libra ex-boyfriend but once I started to have deep feelings for him everything changed. He now says he wants me to talk to other men, I'm so confused and mind you that he is the only person that I know in NY.
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Posted by AVG
Tell ya what,I'll tell you a way too find out if he's got other women on the side. Ok, tell him you wanna have a open relationship,and that some dude at work has been trying to push up on you,and told you about open relationships and how there ain't no strings attached,and you kinda liked the way it sounded..and be serious about it no smiling..I know y'all cancer Leo's are silly so you might have to do it over the phone or texting...might work,might not..😉
He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys. But whats funny is that in the beginning of our relationship he begged me not to go back to my Libra ex-boyfriend but once I started to have deep feelings for him everything changed. He now says he wants me to talk to other men, I'm so confused and mind you that he is the only person that I know in NY.
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Bluff n stuff..😉
Ok,if you been knew,why make this thread?
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Really? We are the best dads..😉
If I didn't believe in no sex before marriage I would definitely be trying to have a child with this man. Funny because if I wasn't a spiritual person I would be lying saying that i was on the pill just so he could get me pregnant. Which is crazy because i could never imagine doing anything like this ever before in life.
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Posted by AVG
Really? We are the best dads..😉
If I didn't believe in no sex before marriage I would definitely be trying to have a child with this man. Funny because if I wasn't a spiritual person I would be lying saying that i was on the pill just so he could get me pregnant. Which is crazy because i could never imagine doing anything like this ever before in life.
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My wife did..😉
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Posted by canerleo101
Posted by AVG
Really? We are the best dads..😉
If I didn't believe in no sex before marriage I would definitely be trying to have a child with this man. Funny because if I wasn't a spiritual person I would be lying saying that i was on the pill just so he could get me pregnant. Which is crazy because i could never imagine doing anything like this ever before in life.
My wife did..😉click to expand
But that ain't none of my business..🙂
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Ok,if you been knew,why make this thread?
When I asked him today if he was talking to any other women he said that I am still the only one who he is talking to. So basically he has no other female friends which in turn makes it to were I don't want to talk to any other men.
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Ok,if you been knew,why make this thread?
When I asked him today if he was talking to any other women he said that I am still the only one who he is talking to. So basically he has no other female friends which in turn makes it to were I don't want to talk to any other men.
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Well you can try my test or just trust him...🙂
Good luck..got a hot date..😉
He's not married. I've been to his house before.
Posted by canerleo101He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys.
Posted by canerleo101He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Posted by canerleo101I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
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Canerlo,
If he's working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I doubt there are other women he's talking to.
Honestly, my gut instinct tells me there is no one else.
He's just not that into YOU, really.
He's been telling you the truth.
You're just not listening.
He's not interested.
You're projecting on a faux relationship that doesn't exist.
Not attacking you...am I missing something here?
Question(s).
Why did you really move to NY?
I live in this city, and this quite an expensive city to live in.
He's the only person you know in NYC, who are you living with?
What is it exactly you think he's lying about?
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Posted by canerleo101He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys.
Posted by canerleo101He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Posted by canerleo101I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
Canerlo,
If he's working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I doubt there are other women he's talking to.
Honestly, my gut instinct tells me there is no one else.
He's just not that into YOU, really.He's been telling you the truth.
You're just not listening.
He's not interested.You're projecting on a faux relationship that doesn't exist.
Not attacking you...am I missing something here?
Question(s).
Why did you really move to NY?
I live in this city, and this quite an expensive city to live in.
He's the only person you know in NYC, who are you living with?click to expand
I think that you are right he is not that interested in me. But I moved here because this is the city were my daughter wanted to go to school, and my daughter and I live together.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
What is it exactly you think he's lying about?
I think that he is lying about having other women in his life because he doesn't want me to mirror his actions.
How old is your daughter?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys.
Posted by canerleo101He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Posted by canerleo101I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
Canerlo,
If he's working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I doubt there are other women he's talking to.
Honestly, my gut instinct tells me there is no one else.
He's just not that into YOU, really.He's been telling you the truth.
You're just not listening.
He's not interested.You're projecting on a faux relationship that doesn't exist.
Not attacking you...am I missing something here?
Question(s).
Why did you really move to NY?
I live in this city, and this quite an expensive city to live in.
He's the only person you know in NYC, who are you living with?click to expand
I guess I was a little confused because he keeps sending mixed signals being that he is the one who first said that he has feeling for me and on several occasiond he begged me to stop talking to my ex-boyfriend.
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How old is your daughter?
She's fifteen.
Posted by canerleo101I think that he is lying about having other women in his life because he doesn't want me to mirror his actions.
You wouldn't have to 'mirror' his actions, he has already set it in motion.
He told you verbatim he wants you to see other men.
No mystery here.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101I think that he is lying about having other women in his life because he doesn't want me to mirror his actions.
You wouldn't have to 'mirror' his actions, he has already set it in motion.
He told you verbatim he wants you to see other men.No mystery here.
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One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
How old is your daughter?
She's fifteen.
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When you first moved to NYC, who were you living with?
This obviously wasn't a job transfer.
In NYC, proof of income is required, and most brokers ask for three ways. (deposit, and first two months rent)...90 days is required to evict a tenant in NYC.
Your fifteen year old daughter (possibly 9th or 10th grade) wanted you to move to NYC to attend the public schools there? Is this correct?
Posted by canerleo101One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).
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Posted by canerleo101
Posted by TaurusBull1977
How old is your daughter?
She's fifteen.
When you first moved to NYC, who were you living with?
This obviously wasn't a job transfer.
In NYC, proof of income is required, and most brokers ask for three ways. (deposit, and first two months rent)...90 days is required to evict a tenant in NYC.
Your fifteen year old daughter (possibly 9th or 10th grade) wanted you to move to NYC to attend the public schools there? Is this correct?
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Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).
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He's been doing this behavior for a while now so I'm confused. But I guess I still deal with him because he is the only person that I know in NY.
And he's cool with the fact that I don't believe in sex before marriage so maybe that's why I still deal with him.
Posted by canerleo101Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
How did you show proof of income?
This wasn't a job transfer.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
How did you show proof of income?
This wasn't a job transfer.click to expand
I scanned and emailed my landlord my information.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).
He's been doing this behavior for a while now so I'm confused. But I guess I still deal with him because he is the only person that I know in NY.
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I wasn't referring to his behavior. My question was...
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
How did you show proof of income?
This wasn't a job transfer.click to expand
I know that this may sound crazy but I think that the reason why I still even deal with this guy is because he has already met my daughter and I don't get the pedophile feel from him that I get from a good amount of men, and this is the first person that I have let meet my daughter in many years.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by canerleo101One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).
He's been doing this behavior for a while now so I'm confused. But I guess I still deal with him because he is the only person that I know in NY.
I wasn't referring to his behavior. My question was...
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments.
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He told me that he didn't want me to talk to other guys and that he wanted me to basically wait for him.
Posted by canerleo101I scanned and emailed my landlord my information.
This wasn't a job transfer.
How did you show proof of income that you were currently working in NYC?
They ask for copies of recent paystubs.
Your paystubs from your last employer from the state that you were living in (with no job transfer) wouldn't have sufficed.
I'm curious.
Where are you from originally?
(unless you lived in NJ, CT) where the NJ transit and MetroNorth would have allowed you to commute to any of those states without making a grand move.
Posted by canerleo101He told me that he didn't want me to talk to other guys and that he wanted me to basically wait for him.
Was this after you moved to NYC?
Because if you're in his city, then you're no longer in a long distance relationship waiting on him.
Wait on him to do what?
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So I talked to my Virgo male friend who I have been arguing with all week, and today when a spoke with him, when the question was asked, about him having any other female friends that he talks to he says that he doesn't. So I always thought that Virgo men where honest until i read some of the post on this board. My question is when he tells me that he is not talking to any other woman besides me should I believe him or are most Virgo men liars.