Virgo Men

I known this Virgo male four years now . We met in school. He started chasing me at the beginning of the year.... after I cussed him out nicely for jumping in my conversation. We became friends after.He apologize. Now four years later he will pop up and start chasing me again .Always trying to get to interact with him socially or inviting me to his shows were he modeling .I always turn him down . How ever I did invite him to a family dinner at my home with all 6 of my Brothers. To my surprise they all interacted well. We haven't to talked since in months.
As a libra woman I find him strange. My Dads a Virgo I know he's a nut case in very orderly .manner . We always texted . Then I just recently started get phone calls from him again .
He told me he was ready !
Asked ready for what Ice Cream. He just laughed ,I end the topic right there.
Is this guy just a starker or a nut case?

Really?

He wants to date you. That's why he keeps popping back up and inviting you places again. You shoot him down and he backs off. He waits, then tries again.

Why did you invite him to meet the whole family? Was it like a huge cookout with lots of people or did you invite HIM?

If all you want is a friendship,have you told him that? Sounds like mixed signals to me.

Im not into hurting peoples feeling . Mind games are for children .I've been up front with him . I invited him to dinner because he said he hadn't a home cooked meal in awhile . You look out for friends .

Posted by StormyBlue
Im not into hurting peoples feeling . Mind games are for children .I've been up front with him . I invited him to dinner because he said he hadn't a home cooked meal in awhile . You look out for friends .

Maybe you need to sit him down and talk then. If you've been up front with him, he don't seem to get it. Tell him you value his friendship but that is all you see it as. Part of me thought maybe he was just being friendly too, but his "I'm ready" comment says it is more. You don't know why he said that? No previous conversation talked about a relationship but saying he wasn't ready?

I mean, you are flat out calling his actions chasing...

You know his intent. Be real with him. Trying to be nice or let so.eine down easy is worse than just being honest.

Already been done . Looks like im moving to another city.

Posted by StormyBlue
Already been done . Looks like im moving to another city.

Sounds dramatic...must be a lot more going on than was let on. Unless he's like serenading you from the front yard or something...

Yes. I did call his actions chasing . If I knew his true intent I wouldn't be talking to you!
I am a genuine person . Me beging nice maybe my gift and curse . Its who I am and its alway been instilled in me to be a lady. Treat people respect wether I agreed or disagree . thank you your advice .

Posted by StormyBlue
Yes. I did call his actions chasing . If I knew his true intent I wouldn't be talking to you!
I am a genuine person . Me beging nice maybe my gift and curse . Its who I am and its alway been instilled in me to be a lady. Treat people respect wether I agreed or disagree . thank you your advice .

I get that. I've often thought my kindness is a gift and a curse as well. I just know I've inadvertently led people on before because of it. If you've leveled with him and he just ain't hearing you, then the niceness needs to be pulled in some. Maybe you were too nice when you said "no" and he heard "not yet"?

I'm not saying you should change who you are, if anything I think more people should be nice. I just know I have to watch that niceness because people confuse it with weakness, attraction, nice-guy syndrome...all kinds of stuff.

It was just a statement .what wrote is what it is in simple trims.

wtf.if yor not into him quit interacting forever.Case Closed