How to get back with a Virgo guy?

Any advice? Not responding, no texts. It's a long story. We've been friends, or I thought we've been, because he always liked me, despite having girlfriends..

This relationship was on and off, some ignoring, misunderstanding, but he would always come back open up to me and say that I know him well, and that I'm like his therapist..we helped each other at school, and there was a chemistry between us, I just didn't want to act on it, and always considered him as a true friend to talk to, share similar taste in music etc..

He started ignoring and I don't know how to knock and break his walls... complete silence

He is a dear friend, I didn't want to end up like this..

Do Virgos come back? How are they in general?

Thanks guys✌️

There is only so much on and off before we leave it off and move on.

Some take the abuse for ever some learn their lessons early.

Broken things stay broken because pieces were lost in the past.

Is it worth keeping the rest of the pieces or giving up?

I miss him..maybe I should stop waiting.

Posted by DeleterNerd
Is he seeing someone now?

I think no

I’m by no means an expert but what worked for me and my Virgo was advice I got here. Calmly reassure him in the most non emotional way that you want the relationship and are committed to seeing it thru. Leave it at that but reach out at least daily saying hope U r well good morning or good night etc. if he wants u he will respond. Maybe not immediately but he will. If he doesn’t and completely ghosts for more than a week...move on. Life is too short and they don’t seem to appreciate or want “weak” or clingy women.

You seem to take this ignoring way too personal if you really have only friend intentions in your mind.

Something isn't adding up here.

Posted by Damnata
You seem to take this ignoring way too personal if you really have only friend intentions in your mind.

Something isn't adding up here.

Well I think it would be nice if he said to my face whats are the reasons rather than ignoring, it's more civilized and polite! thanks

Posted by Melka

Posted by Damnata
You seem to take this ignoring way too personal if you really have only friend intentions in your mind.



Something isn't adding up here.

Well I think it would be nice if he said to my face whats are the reasons rather than ignoring, it's more civilized and polite! thanks click to expand

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What if his ignoring has nothing to do with you? Does he need to make something up and come to say it to your face because it's more civilized and polite even though then he'd be lying? Maybe he's in the throes of a new romance or is busy or etc etc and taking time to himself. If you were his partner or family I'd get it but as a friend you sound demanding here.