@PBScorp
8 Years
Confused about Virgo man ... pls help:(
well sorry....seems like many are yet confused by the virgo guy and his intentions... As i am a bit confused by the words you have written because I feel you are an intelligent woman acting like your not.
after all you were smart enough to get him to india. what say you in your confusion?
After all is said an done, he did not hop on a plane for the hell of it to Inidia my dear to see you.
You got him that far, so that shows me your smart enough to contrive an answer from his soul.
Posted by PBScorp
Hi I’m Scorpio women... so the situation is like - I met this Virgo man on a dating site... he hd gone through divorce n was looking to settle down again... n I hd been through really bad breakup and wanted to settle in serious relationship too... we both got along really well but it was distant relationship... he being in USA n me in India but we got to know each other through lot of calls n video calls n In 2 months he ws ready to get married to me but I was reluctant and wanted to meet few times n den b sure. I cudnt get my visa n due to our work commitments our meeting got postponed... meantime I got to know abt my serious illness n I cnnot concieve n he wanted kids so I decided to break up as it seemed impractical to me... he insisted to not to distant him from my life so we jus talked few times as compared to our daily conversations. Said he wanted to b friends see how things go when we meet. I ws like he jus used to our talking that’s all but recently after an year almost he gave me surprise and came to meet me. We spent day together n he jus hugged m while going. Before his day back again he came to see m and ws like really comfortable n said I’m really adorable as compared to our video calls. N ws moving aroun with me so comfortable . But since he hd gone back he is ignoring me. I asked him but he says all good. He doesn’t reply to my msgs nor calls. On askin will say nothing der n I’m thinking too much it’s jus work. I’m not understanding what is it? He doesn’t want to be with m but can’t say or it’s just me imagining... please advice
Posted by Jambalaya
After all is said an done, he did not hop on a plane for the hell of it to Inidia my dear to see you.You got him that far, so that shows me your smart enough to contrive an answer from his soul.
Then why is he behaving like that ( ignoring me ) after going back? He jus checks my msgs but doesn’t reply nor attend my calls... I tried video calling n he ws not looking into my eyes while talking... I cannot figure out whts it? Is it his perception of me was different and after meeting me it shattered and now he is regretting of coming all way down to me...
he also apologised for he kissed me .... I don’t know why so...
Posted by Jambalaya
After all is said an done, he did not hop on a plane for the hell of it to Inidia my dear to see you.You got him that far, so that shows me your smart enough to contrive an answer from his soul.
Then why is he behaving like that ( ignoring me ) after going back? He jus checks my msgs but doesn’t reply nor attend my calls... I tried video calling n he ws not looking into my eyes while talking... I cannot figure out whts it? Is it his perception of me was different and after meeting me it shattered and now he is regretting of coming all way down to me...
he also apologised for he kissed me .... I don’t know why so...
Mirror him do not call or text him
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Nothing of good will come of that. Heartache and pain but will though.
Posted by Jambalaya
After all is said an done, he did not hop on a plane for the hell of it to Inidia my dear to see you.You got him that far, so that shows me your smart enough to contrive an answer from his soul.
Then why is he behaving like that ( ignoring me ) after going back? He jus checks my msgs but doesn’t reply nor attend my calls... I tried video calling n he ws not looking into my eyes while talking... I cannot figure out whts it? Is it his perception of me was different and after meeting me it shattered and now he is regretting of coming all way down to me...
he also apologised for he kissed me .... I don’t know why so...
Mirror him do not call or text him
Nothing of good will come of that. Heartache and pain but will though.
You think
Virgos will find you if they want
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Yea, I will have to agree with that...they will find you if needed.
Mirroring them is like mocking them, so they turn aside. Instead, just speak with your tongue to them.
Posted by MiZLeo
Patience and ignoring them seems to be the key to their hearts.
How's that working for ya?
Posted by MiZLeo
Patience and ignoring them seems to be the key to their hearts.How's that working for ya?
Quite well actually. 🙂 Ask the 2 Virgo's chasing me down. Begging me for my time.
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They hard up? Or you all that?
Posted by MiZLeo
Patience and ignoring them seems to be the key to their hearts.How's that working for ya?
Quite well actually. 🙂 Ask the 2 Virgo's chasing me down. Begging me for my time.
They hard up? Or you all that?
Im a Leo, what do you think my answer is going to be.
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I know what it was not. 😉
Posted by Jambalaya
After all is said an done, he did not hop on a plane for the hell of it to Inidia my dear to see you.You got him that far, so that shows me your smart enough to contrive an answer from his soul.
Then why is he behaving like that ( ignoring me ) after going back? He jus checks my msgs but doesn’t reply nor attend my calls... I tried video calling n he ws not looking into my eyes while talking... I cannot figure out whts it? Is it his perception of me was different and after meeting me it shattered and now he is regretting of coming all way down to me...
he also apologised for he kissed me .... I don’t know why so...
Mirror him do not call or text him
Nothing of good will come of that. Heartache and pain but will though.
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he always mirrors me whether it’s texts or while talking and is always teasing me. I never saw this side of him ever (ignoring me )
Posted by PotHeadVirgo27
He probably just needs some time to think. Stop blowing him up if he's not replying and sooner than later you'll receive your answer although it may not come in the form you are expecting.
I don’t know have never seen him behaving that way. He is very talkative with me usually and constantly teasing me on some or other things. All I got his text is he is busy with work and will call back soon which he doesn’t so far. And it’s annoying me a lot. He apologised for kissing me 🙄 . Don’t really know what is in his head but it’s really annoying.
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Hi I’m Scorpio women... so the situation is like - I met this Virgo man on a dating site... he hd gone through divorce n was looking to settle down again... n I hd been through really bad breakup and wanted to settle in serious relationship too... we both got along really well but it was distant relationship... he being in USA n me in India but we got to know each other through lot of calls n video calls n In 2 months he ws ready to get married to me but I was reluctant and wanted to meet few times n den b sure. I cudnt get my visa n due to our work commitments our meeting got postponed... meantime I got to know abt my serious illness n I cnnot concieve n he wanted kids so I decided to break up as it seemed impractical to me... he insisted to not to distant him from my life so we jus talked few times as compared to our daily conversations. Said he wanted to b friends see how things go when we meet. I ws like he jus used to our talking that’s all but recently after an year almost he gave me surprise and came to meet me. We spent day together n he jus hugged m while going. Before his day back again he came to see m and ws like really comfortable n said I’m really adorable as compared to our video calls. N ws moving aroun with me so comfortable . But since he hd gone back he is ignoring me. I asked him but he says all good. He doesn’t reply to my msgs nor calls. On askin will say nothing der n I’m thinking too much it’s jus work. I’m not understanding what is it? He doesn’t want to be with m but can’t say or it’s just me imagining... please advice