so this virgo guy and i have been good friends since school and have gotten closer(as friends) recently (we are grad school graduates now).So its the three of us.He,me and our mutual friend(a guy). This virgo has suddenly changed over the past 2 yrs. Earlier he was all too studious and never befriended girls(i was the only one he would talk to).We didn't have any contact after school during college(we were in different college and i was in US) and then he graduated from college and went to US for grad school and he just changed.1 yr he was head over heels crazy about this girl from our school.She had become sexy during grad school and they both started talking and came close.She was already in a relationship and he knew that but he was desperate to get in a relationship with her.She suddenly just vanished and the rejection pricked him so bad that he became depressed. Then contacted me with a casual hey,ssup,been so long text and we got back in touch again and resumed our friendship after 4 yrs. We met when we were in town and he told me about how depressed he had become because she rejected him and he was asking me for help to make him understand what was exactly going and what did he possibly do to shoo her away.I also told him about my cancerian ex and how i was still in love a yr later. We jokingly called each other our rebound. Then he got interested in one of his female friends in grad school and started getting closer.He would ask me to interpret her signs and wanted me to help him ask her out. He asked her out and he was confident she would say yes but she rejected him. She was shocked he asked her out.She said she wanted to focus on her academics now. Again,he fell depressed.He would write me super long texts describing things and i would keep making him understand things on a practical note. He said he doesnt want to see her again.He would get angry if she would text him much like before and at the same time get angry if she wouldnt reply his texts for some reasonRecently,she has disappeared too. She doesn't reply to his calls or texts as much anymore.Also,he doesnt have a job yet.He has been facing rejections only and thats depressing him even more.Now one of our mutual best friends(a guy) casually told him that i had a teenie meenie crush on him during school for like few hrs or so. He became so happy and bombarded me with texts like "it feels so good to know some girl liked me back in school even for few hrs and when i looked so bad.I am so hot now *laugh emoticon* " and then he started teasing me "were you jealous when your ex crush was constantly talking about his crush? 😛 " and i was like "dude,wth!! Stop.Not funny anymore" and then he stopped and got back to normal.He has become desperate to get in a relationship with anyone he finds. Thats how it feels like to me and our mutual friend. Whenever he feels depressed he will call me to feel better and ask me to sing him soft kitty(from Big Bang theory) and that irritates me.
