Virgo man oral sex update .. I forgot my username login info btw

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Virgonique29 on Thursday, July 7, 2016 and has 45 replies.

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10 Years

Ok so I came in a while ago regarding my virgo guy sept 19th wanting oral sex. I'm also a virgo August 29th. Long story short the guy I fell inlove with and gave my virginity to wanted oral sex from me. However like I stated before I didn't feel comfortable giving him oral sex because I didnt feel like he was completely here for me. We've dating almost two years. We broke up on Father's Day because of the me again not feeling comfortable giving him oral. Ok so longer story short I was doing some lurking and came across an Instagram account with his name in her bio. I discovered the entire time we were in a relationship he was in one with her aswell. She had several off guard pictures with him in the background sleeping. He also gave her a ring. She put up a conversation with them she had messages with her texting him back to back with him not responding which she joked about it in her caption. He responded back one day to her saying "love u" , I'm not sure if there's a difference,but he always text me saying "I love you" . Any way filled with emotion I sent him a shit load of text messages scolding him about his lies this entire time. He wasn't replying so I call a few hours later. He didn't pick up so I kept calling back to back and he blocked my number... What are your thoughts he's 28 and I'm 21 btw .. The girl is 20

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11 Years

Posted by Virgonique29
Ok so I came in a while ago regarding my virgo guy sept 19th wanting oral sex. I'm also a virgo August 29th. Long story short the guy I fell inlove with and gave my virginity to wanted oral sex from me. However like I stated before I didn't feel comfortable giving him oral sex because I didnt feel like he was completely here for me. We've dating almost two years. We broke up on Father's Day because of the me again not feeling comfortable giving him oral. Ok so longer story short I was doing some lurking and came across an Instagram account with his name in her bio. I discovered the entire time we were in a relationship he was in one with her aswell. She had several off guard pictures with him in the background sleeping. He also gave her a ring. She put up a conversation with them she had messages with her texting him back to back with him not responding which she joked about it in her caption. He responded back one day to her saying "love u" , I'm not sure if there's a difference,but he always text me saying "I love you" . Any way filled with emotion I sent him a shit load of text messages scolding him about his lies this entire time. He wasn't replying so I call a few hours later. He didn't pick up so I kept calling back to back and he blocked my number... What are your thoughts he's 28 and I'm 21 btw .. The girl is 20

I just have to be straight with you... he doesn't give a fuck about you. He was in a completely different relationship with someone else, tried to hide, tell you both that he loves you........... if he can't accept your boundary, and will disrespect you enough to say you're in a relationship, all the while he's in a relationship with someone else?.............. and he blocked your # when you tried to confront him?

He's a coward. I'd say really try to focus on yourself and move on hun.

He's a TWENTY EIGHT year old man and he's using you young ladies... I'd assume for sex obviously.

Find someone better.

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10 Years

Posted by Arielle83
Like I said in your other thread, he's 28 and you're young and naive. He's got control and he's using it to dominate and play two youngins.

He's a manipulator.

Definitely I agree , do you think it's a bad idea to go confront him at his home

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10 Years

Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by Arielle83
Like I said in your other thread, he's 28 and you're young and naive. He's got control and he's using it to dominate and play two youngins.

He's a manipulator.

Definitely I agree , do you think it's a bad idea to go confront him at his home

No because you won't get what you want and he'll probably keep trying to play you.

Just disappear on him.

Hehehe

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Do you think he'll try and contact me eventually tho

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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by Arielle83
Like I said in your other thread, he's 28 and you're young and naive. He's got control and he's using it to dominate and play two youngins.

He's a manipulator.

Definitely I agree , do you think it's a bad idea to go confront him at his home

No because you won't get what you want and he'll probably keep trying to play you.

Just disappear on him.

Hehehe

Do you think he'll try and contact me eventually tho

You really don't want him to because he'll just lie like he has cuz he's a liar.

You only want him to contact you cuz your ego is pissed off and u want him to crawl back with forgiveness.

But he's a cheater!

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Wow you're really spot on. It's definitely my ego the girl he's with not even being cocky is below me literally (sucking his dick)

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Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Virgonique29
Posted by Arielle83
Like I said in your other thread, he's 28 and you're young and naive. He's got control and he's using it to dominate and play two youngins.

He's a manipulator.

Definitely I agree , do you think it's a bad idea to go confront him at his home

No because you won't get what you want and he'll probably keep trying to play you.

Just disappear on him.

Hehehe

Do you think he'll try and contact me eventually tho

You really don't want him to because he'll just lie like he has cuz he's a liar.

You only want him to contact you cuz your ego is pissed off and u want him to crawl back with forgiveness.

But he's a cheater!

Wow you're really spot on. It's definitely my ego the girl he's with not even being cocky is below me literally (sucking his dick)

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Cocky

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Posted by Virgonique29
Is ok to go to his house and confront him ?

People are so fucking retarded, it just amazes me ....

So, rather than lift your head and walk away with integrity .. you want to perpetuate more drama. You want to go in for a fight.

Your actions speak very loud here ....

Apparently, you are clueless as to what has worth .. to you, obviously you think that he's worth you fighting for him. Obviously, you want to win him over away from another bitch.

You're so fucking small, it's ridiculous. You're not worth anything, to any man, if this is how you carry yourself. No wonder he gave you ultimatums about blow jobs. I remember your other thread, and he told you that he wasnt' sticking around if you didn't give him head. And you kept standing there, like a puppet.

and now once again ..... you're so pathetic that you're still fucking standing there, now ready to go fight for him, as if he has honor.

You're a dumb muther fuker, and in lieu of you being so stupid ... you will deserve all the grief you get

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Obviously, you're not bright enough to realize what is in your best interest .... so, yeah, go confront him.

Make a scene, make a complete fool out of yourself .... you'll never know, because you don't possess any common sense. And since you are this small, you'll probably enjoy making yourself look stupid.

So, go over there to his house .. bring someone to video tape you, so you can post it on fb so that all the people who know you can get a good laugh.

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Maybe you'll get lucky and he'll hit you, afterall, you are the one wanting to go fight with him.

Jesus. She was completely frozen from the shock.

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This is what happens when you are angry and confront a dude ... he could flip and fuck you up. It's the risk you take .... or, imo, the high road is the one to take.

she can't just run off half cocked, ready to confront a guy who you've already pissed off for 8 months by not reciprocating sexual affection.

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10 Years

Posted by busyeyes88
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Detachment isn't always a bad thing. Especially from ugly things like this unnecessary drama you want to prolong. The more you dwell on it, the more toxic the whole situation will get. If you move on now, you would have more time to find someone else. Anger is short lived after all(if anger is indeed the motivation behind all this).

And most importantly learn to give a head if you do move on, because your chances of having a healthy sexual relationship are hilariously low right now.

That is all of course if you aren't a Leo moon. Then it's ok.

Wtf has "Leo moon" got to do with it?!!!

I'm kidding in a serious thread

Leo moon is known for loving drama

Drama and oral sex v no drama and no oral sex... Ok you do the maths!!

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Love it!!!! I've calmed down a bit but I can go crazy dramatic in seconds.

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Posted by Virgonique29
Ok so I came in a while ago regarding my virgo guy sept 19th wanting oral sex. I'm also a virgo August 29th. Long story short the guy I fell inlove with and gave my virginity to wanted oral sex from me. However like I stated before I didn't feel comfortable giving him oral sex because I didnt feel like he was completely here for me. We've dating almost two years. We broke up on Father's Day because of the me again not feeling comfortable giving him oral. Ok so longer story short I was doing some lurking and came across an Instagram account with his name in her bio. I discovered the entire time we were in a relationship he was in one with her aswell. She had several off guard pictures with him in the background sleeping. He also gave her a ring. She put up a conversation with them she had messages with her texting him back to back with him not responding which she joked about it in her caption. He responded back one day to her saying "love u" , I'm not sure if there's a difference,but he always text me saying "I love you" . Any way filled with emotion I sent him a shit load of text messages scolding him about his lies this entire time. He wasn't replying so I call a few hours later. He didn't pick up so I kept calling back to back and he blocked my number... What are your thoughts he's 28 and I'm 21 btw .. The girl is 20

You have 2 options:

Block his shit and move on.

Block his shit, send the other victim a picture of you two, and move on.

None of your options include interacting with this man ever again as he is BENEATH you. Shame on the rest of you fuckers for being all like "Well he older, he ran game, you are silly for thinking otherwise" or "IF you wont suck his dick, this is what happens".

Your ex has a rotten soul, trying to squeeze a semblance of remorse out of him is an effort in futility. Take some time for yourself, meet some new people, keep yourself open to love, as not all men are assholes, not even ones who desire oral.

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Posted by P-Angel
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he is BENEATH you.

What the hell kind of bullshit is this?

you're classifying people, in commenting who is better than who?

You further just attack his character based off of comments made by a bitter ex?

wow

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Yeah, a man who would rather side chick than sac the fuck up and be like, this just isn't working for me and LEAVE, is beneath her.

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he is BENEATH you.

What the hell kind of bullshit is this?

you're classifying people, in commenting who is better than who?

You further just attack his character based off of comments made by a bitter ex?

wow

Yeah, a man who would rather side chick than sac the fuck up and be like, this just isn't working for me and LEAVE, is beneath her.

Why would he be beneath her when she is the one feeling upset at the end of the day? Not trying to be an ass but u get what i mean?

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When you cheat on your partner, you create a new sub-set of circumstances that lead to unnecessary mental and emotional injury. You damage their ego, self-worth, violate their trust, blah blah you get the drill. So no, I don't think he's worth a whole lot compared to her issue of just not wanting to suck.him.off.

Unless you want to equate not having your knob polished as damaging to a man's inner self 😕.

So no, I don't what you mean.

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Why diddnt you give him oral sex? that may be why..

Da fuck ??

What?

Just becasue she had sex with him doesn't mean that she is comfortable giving head.. she obviously doesn't have much experience and he is much older. There are tons of reasons why she may not want to give him that.. And he isn't entitled to it.

1. She didn't feel comfortable clearly

2. She felt that something was off in the relationship (and she was right)

It's just sad that people are like well if ya gave him head maybe he wouldn't have another girlfriend.. Just so sad 😢

I would have thought it easier to give head than sex... Just saying!!! To me that's putting the cart before the horse?!

She is likely insecure about it.. She was a virgin.. Likely afraid she will do it wrong or not good enough.. idk.

Maybe. Dunno. I see blowies as more intimate than sex tho. For the most part. I mean, a guy can bend you over or turn you around so that he's hittin all the right spots, but your junk's basically the only things touching. A proper knob job's work. Your mouth's all over his bits and then he cums in there and you swallow. It ain't runnin right back down your leg. It's all in there. Just chillin. Hangin out. But maybe I'm the weird one. *shrugs*

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Right, this kinda sums it up.

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Posted by Gennie
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he is BENEATH you.

What the hell kind of bullshit is this?

you're classifying people, in commenting who is better than who?

You further just attack his character based off of comments made by a bitter ex?

wow

Yeah, a man who would rather side chick than sac the fuck up and be like, this just isn't working for me and LEAVE, is beneath her.

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A woman who will stay with a guy who gives her a sexual ultimatum deserves a guy just the way he is. A man like him is exactly what she deserves, because she places herself on his level.

The fact that you don't know that .. says a lot about you.

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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Gennie
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Gennie

he is BENEATH you.

What the hell kind of bullshit is this?

you're classifying people, in commenting who is better than who?

You further just attack his character based off of comments made by a bitter ex?

wow

Yeah, a man who would rather side chick than sac the fuck up and be like, this just isn't working for me and LEAVE, is beneath her.

A woman who will stay with a guy who gives her a sexual ultimatum deserves a guy just the way he is. A man like him is exactly what she deserves, because she places herself on his level.

The fact that you don't know that .. says a lot about you.

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Actually she was ready to bail when he laid down the ultimatum. But with this being her first sexual relationship she asked for advice to make sure the way she was leaning was the correct one and that she wasn't over-reacting.

My "character assassination", didn't occur until he pulled this. From her other thread, I was with the other ladies to at least attempt it once.