Hey everyone, I reallly want your help and advice with this... like I've been in love with a virgo guy for over 3 months, we treat each other nice and so friendly despite I am a student and he is a doctor. He works at the same college I'm attending.. but I am questioning if he feel the same way about me. I'm confused, like do I have to make the first move?? Please helpp meee 🙂
I need advice!!!

Posted by oxSunQueenxoPerhaps infatuationPosted by wisebloodIs she actually in love with him, though?
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/click to expand

Posted by nancykjuVirgos won't put their jobs at risk for some pussy. Graduate, get a job at the college, and then you can get some of that doctor peen.
Hey everyone, I reallly want your help and advice with this... like I've been in love with a virgo guy for over 3 months, we treat each other nice and so friendly despite I am a student and he is a doctor. He works at the same college I'm attending.. but I am questioning if he feel the same way about me. I'm confused, like do I have to make the first move?? Please helpp meee 🙂

How well do you know him tho? Very possible he has a wife and kids, gf, fiance. Most people don't talk about their personal lives at work.
He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.
He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.
Posted by oxSunQueenxoLike, he treats me different than the other girls. He gives me priority, we chat and see eachother almost on a daily basis. He's an amazing person too (for me) we talk for hours. Am left with 2 yeas to graduate and am 22 now. I truely in love with him. Now we've been knowing eachother for almost a year.Posted by wisebloodIs she actually in love with him, though?
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/click to expand
Posted by oxSunQueenxoHe's single, I made sure if this before jumping into liking him. He doesn't have anyone rn in his life.Posted by LadyNeptuneOr a bf*
How well do you know him tho? Very possible he has a wife and kids, gf, fiance. Most people don't talk about their personal lives at work.
He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.click to expand
Posted by TotiThanks lol.
Good luck😃!
Posted by TotiI have noticed this (his cold - hot attitudes). Thats why I came here for advice, cuz he has the tendency to escape if I faced him with my feelings.
Virgos are confusing and have a tendency to disappear and reappear, to push and pull, to be hot and cold. Be yourself and don't fake anything. Be subtle. If you are too direct with a virgo, he will escape. I can't tell you if he feels something about you, that's something you should know. Virgos require lots of patience.
Posted by oxSunQueenxoThrough the long discussions with him, search, profiles... twas long project lol..Posted by nancykjuHow are you sure?Posted by oxSunQueenxoHe's single, I made sure if this before jumping into liking him. He doesn't have anyone rn in his life.Posted by LadyNeptuneOr a bf*
How well do you know him tho? Very possible he has a wife and kids, gf, fiance. Most people don't talk about their personal lives at work.
He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.click to expand
Am not gonno put my feelings at risk and find at the end he's married or have a gf, thats why I looked into this before any other moves
Posted by wisebloodThis is what makes the situation more complicated, if it truely compromising his job I won't even bother taking the move, but lately I knew two teachers at my college got married to students (he knows this too). What makes me think of making the move, is just to make everything clear for me and him. Probably he knows I'm in love with him because of some gestures I showed. Thu am not sure.
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/
Posted by LadyNeptuneAm afraid this not gonna work lol. I myself won't put his job at risk. Am pretty cautious about this.Posted by nancykjuVirgos won't put their jobs at risk for some pussy. Graduate, get a job at the college, and then you can get some of that doctor peen.
Hey everyone, I reallly want your help and advice with this... like I've been in love with a virgo guy for over 3 months, we treat each other nice and so friendly despite I am a student and he is a doctor. He works at the same college I'm attending.. but I am questioning if he feel the same way about me. I'm confused, like do I have to make the first move?? Please helpp meee 🙂click to expand
Posted by sierra_I'm an Aquarius.
what's your sun sign?
Posted by wisebloodThanks alot wiseblood! Btw, the other cases made their relationship public after marriage, before graduation tho... things were smooth.Posted by nancykjuMaybe your school doesn't have a policy for students dating staff.. However that is a common thing. Maybe the other cases didn't make their relationship public until the student graduated? Either way, in a situation like this, leave it up to him to make the first move.Posted by wisebloodThis is what makes the situation more complicated, if it truely compromising his job I won't even bother taking the move, but lately I knew two teachers at my college got married to students (he knows this too). What makes me think of making the move, is just to make everything clear for me and him. Probably he knows I'm in love with him because of some gestures I showed. Thu am not sure.
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/click to expand
Posted by CvurkooTurkey
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?
Posted by Cvurkoogerçekten mi!Posted by nancykjukomsuPosted by CvurkooTurkey
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?
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Sounds like for some reason he doesn't make a move. You are a student and younger as I guess so you are possibly afraid of him, his position and potential rejection if you have misunderstood things. He on the other hand maybe is interested in you or maybe just flirts you. Three months are a good amount of time. I don't suggest making a move. You could actually ask him if he likes you for example or something to get to know what he's is feeling straightforward.Or keep up the waiting that doesn't really sound like going anywhere. Pretty much this.
Posted by CvurkooLol.. no worries, if u don't mind me asking where are u from?Posted by nancykjuYeah but I'm your northern neighbor. 😄 i don't speak Turkish reallyPosted by Cvurkoogerçekten mi!Posted by nancykjukomsuPosted by CvurkooTurkey
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?
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Posted by CvurkooOh nice!Posted by nancykjuBulgariaPosted by CvurkooLol.. no worries, if u don't mind me asking where are u from?Posted by nancykjuYeah but I'm your northern neighbor. 😄 i don't speak Turkish reallyPosted by Cvurkoogerçekten mi!Posted by nancykjukomsuPosted by CvurkooTurkey
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?
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