I am an Aries woman who is 25yrs old. I have been on and off with my Virgo for 10 years. We got pretty serious about 2 years ago and was dating pretty consistently. Out the blue he randomly gets flaky and tries to cut ties saying he doesn’t understand why I care so much and to stop loving him? So after hearing that so much I went on to date someone else and in the middle of my new relationship he pops up again. Yes I love him so I let him come to my house but this time I don’t let him stay the night. He immediately starts saying it’s someone else and I was honest in saying it was but we can still be friends. A month later he sends me a huge texts saying how I’m this toxic horrible person and we will never speak again! Well 3 months after that text I became pregnant and he calls me a week after I told the world and I told him I love him enough that I would still be willing to be with him. Instead he says he can’t be around me knowing I have someone else’s baby and he doesn’t really like me anyway! My daughter is now 5 months and I haven’t spoke to him since me being 6 months pregnant. Why did he not want to work this out? Is he really hurt and won’t say anything! I want to get in touch with him but I don’t know where his head space is. Ps he blocked me off all social media and changes his number
I NEED VIRGO MALE HELP!!
You've known this dude for 10 whole years and you STILL DON'T KNOW how he thinks? 🤔 You've wasted an entire decade on this dude and after the things he's fixed his mouth to say, you still want him in your life?
Why do you care if he's hurt?
Why do you care if he doesn't work it out?
Seems to me he's over you. You need to move on, if not for yourself, for the baby then!
No answers here will fix this.
This sounds like a toxic, cyclical mess you're determined to stay vested in 😒
Why do you care if he's hurt?
Why do you care if he doesn't work it out?
Seems to me he's over you. You need to move on, if not for yourself, for the baby then!
No answers here will fix this.
This sounds like a toxic, cyclical mess you're determined to stay vested in 😒

He's obviously very immature and you sound very nieve. Don't waist any more time on this dude. You have a baby now, focus on her and making her life better.

On and off for 10 years? Should have got pregnant and seal the deal.

What happened to your child's father?
And the Virgo might be feeling a certain type of way if you were able to get pregnant so fast with another mans baby and never with his.
You shouldn't try to work this out, he might mistreat your child by the way he is acting already.
You should just recognize you had a relationship and now it's time to move on.
On and off for 10 years and he's hurting, but there's not much you can do about it.
You did the "ultimate betrayal" of having another mans baby, when you had none by him in all that time.
Let him move on.
You deserve to be happy too.
And the Virgo might be feeling a certain type of way if you were able to get pregnant so fast with another mans baby and never with his.
You shouldn't try to work this out, he might mistreat your child by the way he is acting already.
You should just recognize you had a relationship and now it's time to move on.
On and off for 10 years and he's hurting, but there's not much you can do about it.
You did the "ultimate betrayal" of having another mans baby, when you had none by him in all that time.
Let him move on.
You deserve to be happy too.
I guess I just had an expectation of he should understand that he told us to go our separate ways and we shouldn’t be together, and I moved on and he’s acting surprised? I really love him and I just wanted to know like since we haven’t talked if someone the same sign could let me know if he’s hurt or just being an ass as always. Apparently he thought I would keep waiting for him to be ready and it didn’t happen. I just was hoping he’d come around and want to be happy. Also my child’s father is around he’s really a nice guy but my heart is somewhere else so we coparent happily.

Gurlllll..close that chapter and stop thinking you did something wrong. Block him back and move on.

Posted by Masonm
I guess I just had an expectation of he should understand that he told us to go our separate ways and we shouldn’t be together, and I moved on and he’s acting surprised? I really love him and I just wanted to know like since we haven’t talked if someone the same sign could let me know if he’s hurt or just being an ass as always. Apparently he thought I would keep waiting for him to be ready and it didn’t happen. I just was hoping he’d come around and want to be happy. Also my child’s father is around he’s really a nice guy but my heart is somewhere else so we coparent happily.
He is hurting, but he hurt you as well and you moved on. Don't fall back on this and think you did anything wrong. He lost out.
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