I thought I'd tell a story, if not for my own appeal then to shed some love on this sign. so many here seem frustrated lately.
when I first met virgo he was quiet and asked lots of questions. personal questions, like how many partners. what positions. like he was putting me on file. I found it amusing, and answered honestly. afterwords, I decided it was his turn and asked him lots of questions, and received lots of silence. it's frustrating, being a water sign, to understand his behavior. in our relationship we don't hug and hold hands a lot. he works very hard. he often works more than he plays, and I think that is something those of you struggling with virgos need to understand. if I were to ask him, why don't you express your feelings with me? his answer would be simple: because I don't think it needs expression. how I feel should be understood, so what is the point in telling you? a virgo will take care of you, guide you, and make sure you bring a jacket when it's cold. if they love you, it is the same. they DO things-- not for you, but for your benefit. a virgo will not wash your car for you, he'll expect you to do it yourself. but he will make sure you have plenty of soap and a hose, and proper clothes on.
when we were friends, I told virgo I wanted a bunny. "wouldn't it be sweet to have a bunny, virgo!" he looked at me strange, and said yeah, yeah it would be great. a few weeks passed and we grew close quite quickly. he soon asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. after several months he said, "hop in the car!" and we drove out a few hours to a small house along the highway. inside, a woman held a shoebox with seven baby bunnies; her rabbit had had a litter.
me (typical pisces): can we have two? him: no, no we cannot have two. pick one.
in the car I said, "rabbits can live up to 10 years??_ that's quite awhile, virgo." but he didn't say much. a few hours passed, and we debated a name. that evening he didn't turn to me but rather said softly to the air, "I hope you're ready for 10 years with me," and I smiled. "I'm not sharing custody," he said, "so we're staying together whether you like it or not!"
there is a discreet sensitivity in virgo that even I at times have failed to acknowledge. when experienced however, it is easy to understand. virgos are kind, and express love in an honest way. I see no solution in hatred. when you stop expecting so much and start appreciating what it given to you, love comes easily.
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when I first met virgo he was quiet and asked lots of questions.
personal questions, like how many partners. what positions. like he was putting me on file.
I found it amusing, and answered honestly. afterwords, I decided it was his turn and asked him lots of questions, and received lots of silence. it's frustrating, being a water sign, to understand his behavior. in our relationship we don't hug and hold hands a lot. he works very hard. he often works more than he plays, and I think that is something those of you struggling with virgos need to understand. if I were to ask him, why don't you express your feelings with me? his answer would be simple: because I don't think it needs expression. how I feel should be understood, so what is the point in telling you? a virgo will take care of you, guide you, and make sure you bring a jacket when it's cold. if they love you, it is the same. they DO things-- not for you, but for your benefit. a virgo will not wash your car for you, he'll expect you to do it yourself. but he will make sure you have plenty of soap and a hose, and proper clothes on.
when we were friends, I told virgo I wanted a bunny. "wouldn't it be sweet to have a bunny, virgo!"
he looked at me strange, and said yeah, yeah it would be great.
a few weeks passed and we grew close quite quickly. he soon asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. after several months he said, "hop in the car!" and we drove out a few hours to a small house along the highway. inside, a woman held a shoebox with seven baby bunnies; her rabbit had had a litter.
me (typical pisces): can we have two?
him: no, no we cannot have two. pick one.
in the car I said, "rabbits can live up to 10 years??_ that's quite awhile, virgo." but he didn't say much. a few hours passed, and we debated a name. that evening he didn't turn to me but rather said softly to the air, "I hope you're ready for 10 years with me," and I smiled. "I'm not sharing custody," he said, "so we're staying together whether you like it or not!"
there is a discreet sensitivity in virgo that even I at times have failed to acknowledge. when experienced however, it is easy to understand. virgos are kind, and express love in an honest way. I see no solution in hatred. when you stop expecting so much and start appreciating what it given to you, love comes easily.