I want to do something nice for my Virguy

P-Angel and Isabel have really made think about my recent outburst with my virguy. I would like to do some thing nice for him to let him know that I care and appreciate him. Does anyone have any ideas/suggestions?

How stupid this board can get??_..??

GOD??_??_??_.!

Virgo, lol. That might not be a bad idea! Lol. It is acutally pretty funny.

Qbone, if you do not like the topic....dont respond. Pretty simple to me! Thanks for stopping by. 🙂

Posted by natural25
P-Angel and Isabel have really made think about my recent outburst with my virguy. I would like to do some thing nice for him to let him know that I care and appreciate him. Does anyone have any ideas/suggestions?

I don't understand people, seriously.


Don't you know that people are supposed to be treated according to how THEY want/need to be treated and NOT according to how you would want to be treated?

That addage of ..... treat others as you would want to be treated is selfish as hell because it is implying that you will only treat another according to yourself, eventhough they are a different person than you, and actually deserve to be treated according to how THEY would want/need to be treated.



My point to all this?


If you are going to be with a Virgo, then you are going to have to treat him as one, and not as if he is a Scorpio.

A Virgo will be appalled at a make up gift, if it comes in lieu of admission.

You want to reach him after you've been a bitch to him?

Then admit it .... "Honey, I was out of line, damn, I'm so sorry"


That's it. If you instead come up with some grand gesture to attempt to distract him from a Truth .. then the only thing you will accomplish is the foundation for another arguement.


Virgos are real .... why is this so hard to fathom for people?

P I have already apologized. I wanted to do something nice for him...not neccesarily a gift. Maybe just cook a nice dinner or give him a message to let him know he is appreciated. My intentions are not malicious...they are pure. I would like to see this man happy and I feel awful (looking at the situation in retrospect) that I contributed in any way to him not being happy. That's really it...

Then you don't need to do anything more ... if you go out of your way to do more than be sincerely sorry, then it looks like you're not sincere.


If you have already apologized .. the let it pass.

Posted by P-Angel
Then you don't need to do anything more ... if you go out of your way to do more than be sincerely sorry, then it looks like you're not sincere.


If you have already apologized .. the let it pass.

P, you're right.

I woke up and could not go back to sleep about an hr ago. I went onto facebook hoping that would make me sleepy agawin (kind of how when you can't sleep if you eatch tv u get sleepy again) I saw that he had posted something on his page about an hr before I got on stating that he was really upset about something. Then I began to wonder what was wrong and I remebered that I had called him around 9pm and had never received a phone call back, which is a little strange. I started to get a little worried...did he decide he is going to distance himself from me now. But then I realized how ridic and insecure I was being. He is obciously upset about something and if he were trying to distance himself from me he would not have called me numerous times throughout the day like he did. I am starting to realize where my habit to overthink things is really proving itself to be a detriment.

Sorry for all the typos. I'm typing from my pda.