I'm Perplexed about a Virgo...

Hi all!! So I met a virgo guy online, I'm a pisces. We seemingly hit it off, via chat/texting and the occasional call. We met, in a public place while I was with my friend. Long story short, we hung out all night till 2 am, my friend was acquainted with him so there was a slight level of comfort and we parted ways with general pleasantries. We talk occasionally afterwards and I kinda let it be what it is, if we speak we speak, if we don't, we don't.

He invited me out, and I said yes, only to find out that he was bringing his two friends with him. I don't make a big deal of it, and just arrange plans to hang out. When we get to the outing he seems lukewarm and his and I really end up enjoying the outing as we talk and laugh. His attitude was one like he could have been there with anyone, but he was still trying to engage me and at times showed he paid close attention to things about me that I mentioned in passing. And some of his actions made one of his friends say to me, "Just work with him, his intentions are good."

I'm kinda confused, is this normal? I'm still really letting it be what it is, cause at the end of forcing something is completely idiotic. I just wonder is he testing me or is he even interested?

I'm not sure what type of pisces women you encoubter, but I'll pass on that plan. I'm just trying to assess whether I continue to entertain him, nothing more.

Lot of perplexed beings round this forum.

I don't understand your "is this normal?" question. You brought up a friend, next time he brought up his friends.

I want to know the exact area of your brain where the thought of "is he testing me?" formed.

@busyeyes88: Thanks, I will definitely just keep a watch on his actions.

@Damnata: Your attempt at pretentious pseudo-intellectual internet snark is lost on me, so your answer is completely irrelevant bordering the asinine. Thank you.

@Virgoflirt: No not really, but thank you for your assessment and I've put them in file 13. Thank you, also.

@Virgoflirt: No not really, but thank you for your assessment and I've put them in file 13. Thank you, also.

What's asinine in saying that he brought his friends because you brought yours? I wasn't saying he was into you or not into you, just that he mirrored your behavior. I asked about the "is he testing me?" part because nothing in what you posted would sum up that question so maybe details were going amiss.

But if your way to counter something that wasn't an attack but an answer to a question you ASKED on the VIRGO board is to show off a crippling inferiority complex..keep it up. Not Virgo material, but I'm sure you know all the answers and rejoice in playing games.

@Damnata: Oh, ok.

I read this yesterday and never responded. Your wording gave me the impression that you are the person playing games and testing here. So, I never responded because I didn't feel like dealing with another deluded Pisces female, who plays victim.

Then I come back and find out, by observing your responses to people who commented to you ... that you're an asshole.

So now the answer is crystal clear ..... Virgo men aren't really interested in women like you, but, he probably thinks that since you're so dumb that your panties might fall down to the ground if he plays his cards right.

and he's probably right ... you've already proven in here that you haven't the slightest ability at sound reasoning when reading people.

@singsasong41: thank you.

@P-Angel: I get you troll these boards with your supposed razor sharp wit and no-holds-barred responses, but they only indicate your intelligence is marginal, at best. If people address me rudEly and obtusely for no reason other than to be cute and tongue in cheek, your words like theirs hold no merit. She was rude and received a rude response, end of story.

Please save your Internet bravado for someone else, as I stated earlier, those kindt of things are lost on me. Assume as you will about my intellect or reasoning ability, from this point I couldn't care less about yours. Have a great day.

*grabs popcorn*