Is He Interested or What

"There have been a lot of hard body Latinas into yours truly, but it is because them and the INS wasn't seeing eye to eye."

hahahahahah!!!!

don't tell my boyfriend but i love you.

dessandj,

don't take this the wrong way, but no one here is going to be able to tell you if he is definitely interested in you or not. you have a much better chance of ascertaining it yourself.

hmm well i have been in an interracial relationship before and it was more complicated than i ever thought it would be. if branh is right, i wouldn't be surprised. i don't think he's saying they can't work...just a greater chance that they will fail. i don't think that is rubbish...it's pretty logical in my eyes.

"I think it only works because the majority group is entitled to have whomever they want"

what? hahaha...

dessandj,

By nature, the male Virgo will feel that he isn't good enough for anybody because of the whole 'perfection' factor they struggle with on a daily basis .. so, it's not surprising to me that he would say, "messing up our love/hate relationship he loves me I hate him". One thing I do know about when a Virgo is into you .. he will act goofy like this, be silly the way this man is with you. They aren't very forward with initiating a relationship, and so it will be up to you to push forward.

If he's treating you differently than other women, such as being silly in a fond way, then that is a clear indication that he does want to try and relate to you on a more personal level .. he just doesn't know how to go about it, so will seem aloof at times.

Going by what you said .. I would say, "yes", he is attracted to you. A person never knows when they meet a new person, whether their heart will talk to yours. So often, people put so many conditions on loving hearts that prevent us from having the opportunity to move our souls .. who you are on the inside, is who you are, as with him.

If you approach this relationship, or any other, with outside conditions, then you might be robbing yourself and his of being with someone who could bring you joy.

Go for it .. enjoy every moment, for as long as it lasts.

Thank everyone for their comments P Angel I found you very helpful the problem is that now he seems as though he isn't into me anymore so then I pull away and he acts as though I am hurting his feelings.I know that he has a problem with dating on the job,but I know that he wants to go out with me and I can't believe that he would deny himself some thing that he wants to do because of something so silly.If I ask him outright about his feelings for me I know that I would never get a straight answer. I am changing jobs in the next two weeks and I dont want to wonder anymore. Iguess I am trying to find out a little more about the habits of a shy virgo male that is possibly in (like).

We're people, Scopiogoat .. we're all just people. There isn't anything anybody could say to make me believe different. Statistics only matter when people are put in categories .. there's only one category .. it's human.

What are you doing in here, girl?

You're in Hawaii .. get out of here, go play 🙂

I understand the risk of dating in the workplace we have a couple there that are engaged and have been dating for 2 years. There are no rules where I live as far as no on the job dating but making out at work is totally unaceptable.I believe I mentioned in my last post that I was changing jobs in the next week or so and am hoping that will allow him to relax a little.I really have feeling for this man and I want to have the chance to get to know him away from work and I know he has feelings for me. I realize I cant make him do anything that he doesn't want to, but he is just as guilty of flirting and makes excuses to be around me.

i've always been a nintendo person, but hearing about all the crap sony's going through with their newest console and the psp still kinda depresses me. it's weird.

haha redrovertoo, no i hadn't seen it. i didn't know you were aware of the cancer, maybe we've talked about it before and if so i apologize but i don't remember it. yes i'm still seeing him. it has been a little rough lately.

as for being torn between two lovers 😛 i was never really torn. i had to end it with the other guy before i could really even explore the possibility of this one though. and the other guy and got along so well and understood each other so perfectly that i miss him sometimes, not in a romantic way, but just because i hate the way it went after i broke up with him. i kind of wanted to stay friends but he didn't so...

what do you mean by my work? what i post?

ahh so you were (are?) involved with a cancer too. sorry to hear that. 😛

and thanks.

"It is true in the USA as well at least from my experience. I'm a US citizen and I'm a minority. Btw, bran, there are more than blacks and whites in the States."

Black and white are the only two colors that MATTER! Sorry, but that's just the way it is.