Virgo's & Faithful?

Popularities and being under the spot lights that's all!!, this has nothing to do with Virgoness or faithfulness....!!

Jesus?!

yeah virgos are generally faithful...being faithful TO THEM is the challenge..they're great at giving you every other reason not to be.

LOL......cancerLA

lol yeah, that's what I told my virguy.

We were talking about his past girlfriends and I was complimenting him
these are some little snippets from conversations that we've had...

Me: No one should ever leave you. I know I wouldn't..

virguy: They just never stay around....

Me: *cough cough* "That's cause you make it so damn miserable to the point that they want to leave"

Me: why did they leave you?

virguy: that's none of your business.....

Virguy: (sad tone) I guess I just wasn't cruel, cold-hearted or evil enough...

Me😢giggles) Sweetie, that only works with me.

* 🙂

Here's some snippets from a recent con on the phone..I was half-asleep..

Me: if you need any help with your school work all you have to do is ask, you know that, right?

Virguy: Thank you, (my name), I really appreciate that. Thank you..Now can I go back to insulting YOU?!!

Me: *gasp* I gues...

(he interrupts)...

Virguy:.......*ignores me with loud, random singing*

Virguy: Gotta get going...

Me: Night

Virguy: Oh and, (my name), I love you....Now go away shoo shoo!!

Me: *laughs*

*we hang up*

Basing it on sun sign alone is too general. It also depends on the person's moral beliefs. I know Virgos that cheat. I know a Virgo guy who is emotionally faithful to his girlfriend. He believes she's his soulmate but she isn't sexual enough for him and doesn't fulfill his sexual needs. He has been with her for many years and never been faithful. He cheats with different girls every week while she's home taking care of his children (they don't live together).

The other Virgo I know has been faithful to 98% of the girls he's been in a relationship with.

If someone kept calling me 'my name' on the phone .. that'd be enough for me. I don't take that butter from ANYONE

lol wow, aren't you smart...

o_O I'm not telling you my name. Man, ya'll are not even clever.

Well as for me, I am very faithful

I too have plenty of friends of the opposite sex...I call them, they call me, etc...but we are just friends- nothing more.
Some of my best friends are males...

~I will admit I am a bit of a flirt, but that is it, it does not ever go past that.~

I have never cheated and will never intend to.

"Do most of you believe that Virgo's are faithful? Do you ever question them?"

Sweathearts, from my perspective, I think CapAngel leans towards my belief when she described a different meaning of the word "faithful". Certianly, it doesn't hold the same for every person .. to be emotionally faithful to a woman IS actually fulfilling her needs, whether the physical part is there, or not.

In this day and age, I think women have become confused as to what they actually need and want .. meaning, because MEN view faithfulness as a physical action and women want to keep thier man .. they erroneously believe that they are suppose to measure faithfulness by this physical action, as well .. when the fact of the matter is, women are emotionally based, and it's within this area of her that needs to be feel secured, not the groin area .. that's just an added benefit.

So, yeah .. I believe the male Virgo is faithful as far as remaining true to his woman's REAL needs .. it's the woman who is confused. It's like this, if a woman suspected her man of going out, she's not gonna ask if he fucked someone else, she's gonna ask, "Do you love her" .. she's thinking emotionally here, not physically.

So, in lieu of this .. with what started this thread .. your friend isn't thinking that by her Virgo having female friends that he might be cheating .. she's thinking that he's gonna love someone else .. that is where the paranoia comes from when females think that their man isn't being faithful .. so, since the woman is emotionally based and cheating to her DOES mean the intimacy (love) part of the relationship, then by him flirting .. that is showing loving attention, not physical.

If a man looked at a woman's ass and said, "Damn, I'd like to bend her over"
His woman would likely shake her head, cringe, and think .. he's such as ass.
However, not be worried that he's being unfaithful, eventhough it suggests the act is in his mind.

Whereas, if this same man went up to one of his female friends and said, "You look really nice tonight," and smiled .. his woman would flip the fuck out because it suggests a loving kind of attention, eventhough no sexual intentions were indicated.

So in essence .. when women, such as your friend, fear that her man is being unfaithful, what she's really fearing is that he might "love" another by him giving another woman friendly attention .. this is the woman's confusion, not something the man is acdoing to evoke her fear of loss.

To answer your questions ..

yes .. I believe the male Virgo is faithful to his woman.

And no .. I don't question him when the only thing he's doing is being friendly because that doesn't indicate unfaithfulness.

I hope so too, for your friends sake .. it's not often we find someone who is perfect for us .. so, if it's present in this union, then that is a blessing.

Maybe being stubborn and getting through this rough patch, will set the tone for a better relationship further down the road, you know .. so they can look back and think, "If we can get through (that) and still love each other, then we can face anything".

She's also fortunate to have a friend like you, who concerns herself enough about her well-being to seek insight into her situation .. real friends are hard to come by too. 🙂