Is This Odd-UPDATE

I posted a few weeks ago about a Virgo man I have been dating for 4 months. And a situation with his cousin's girlfriend always calling my guy and showing up at his house when the cousin is not there. When I brought it up (after he invited her out to New Years Eve dinner with us), he got very angry with me. No contact from him for a week.

Well, he finally did call and was acting kinda quiet. He said he didn't really feel like talking about the cousin and his girlfriend scenario. He said "I was just annoyed". I had already told him how I felt about it anyway so I didn't push. He began calling me every night again. One thing is he seems to be extra sensitive about everything I say now. Almost argumentative. I did go over his place yesterday. He was complaining about his cousin being an idiot. I knew he was upset, so I brought over a funny movie and pizza. I got him to relax a little and have some hot "us" time. He seemed introspective but calmer when I left.

**Note: The cousin's girlfriend continues to sleep over the house numerous times a week. This situation is not going to change as long as his cousin lives there. I have to accept that or move on I guess.

Any idea what is going on in his head? I am still hanging in there.

@Scorsaggie: Thanx and you are soo right, I am keeping positive and I also realize that this is our first "hurdle" as a couple. Everything was just peaches before this.

@Decan: I am there for him. He is not used to that. I am at his side whether he realizes it or not. And Lol at "Erotic Granny".

🙂

His Chart:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Virgo 23.30 Ascendant Scorpio 25.55
Moon Gemini 17.22 II Sagittarius 26.55
Mercury Virgo 11.38 R III Aquarius 2.56
Venus Scorpio 2.50 IV Pisces 9.31
Mars Virgo 25.09 V Aries 10.44
Jupiter Libra 8.04 VI Taurus 5.35
Saturn Sagittarius 8.42 VII Taurus 25.55
Uranus Leo 10.02 VIII Gemini 26.55
Neptune Scorpio 0.57 IX Leo 2.56
Pluto Virgo 0.54 Midheaven Virgo 9.31
Lilith Pisces 12.31 XI Libra 10.44
Asc node Scorpio 11.30 XII Scorpio 5.35

Posted by ellessque
does he have venus in libra? I have venus in libra and always end getting "stuck" taking care of someone who could potentially become moochers. Not boyfriends or friends..but ALWAYS family members. It's like a guilt trip we put ourselves thru.

then I become almost embarassed to have people over because it fricken consumes me at times. I'm a scorp..so their is a difference. But if he has that nagging feeling of having to take care of them....then, there you go. you are NOT going to change it until the cousin outstays his welcome and dude draws a line. it may take him awhile. I finally gave my kin folks a deadline and I'm sticking to it (this time).

damn libra placements.

His venus is in Scorpio

^^^Lol^^^