I met this Virgo a month ago (I am a Taurus) I met him at a party, and I approached him first with conversation, and we were just having conversation, and he asked for my number and everything. I asked him to give me a ride home, and he even said yes, but since then we been talking everyday, after 3 days of knowing me, he wanted to see me again so we went to grab a bite, then one night he was drunk texting me, and telling me how he got out of a one year relationship 3 months ago, and he really likes me but wants to take it slow, I was worried he might still have feelings for his ex. Fast forward to last week, I felt like he was distant, and I kept trying to get him to hang out, cause I felt he didn't care about me, and he's always busy either at work or with friends, and I felt like he didn't like me anymore, I went out somewhere last week and he asked me why I didn't invite him, even though I always try to get him to hang out but he's always busy. I told him don't text me till you can show you care, so he didn't text me for 2 days, and I missed him so I texted him, and asked why he's not texting me and he said I'm respecting your wishes. Well last night I was stranded with my friend and I called him at 2am to pick me up, he was at a party but came as soon as I called. He dropped me off home, and I forgot to kiss him, so he texted and asked why I didn't give him a poper goodnight. I don't get it AT ALL he runs hot and cold, is he interested in me or?
Is This Virgo Interested?
he wants booty but is trying to be a gentleman about it.

Posted by bloodflood
he wants booty but is trying to be a gentleman about it.
+1
Sounds like a Leo guy I met. He told me he wasn't looking for anything serious at the moment, sometimes we spend whole evening texting each other, sometimes I don't hear from him for a week. After some honest conversation he said he would want to sleep with me but would never actually date me. It sucks but at least I can appreciate his honesty and knowing where I stand with him.

Posted by taurusgossipgirl
I met this Virgo a month ago (I am a Taurus) I met him at a party, and I approached him first with conversation, and we were just having conversation, and he asked for my number and everything. I asked him to give me a ride home, and he even said yes, but since then we been talking everyday, after 3 days of knowing me, he wanted to see me again so we went to grab a bite, then one night he was drunk texting me, and telling me how he got out of a one year relationship 3 months ago, and he really likes me but wants to take it slow, I was worried he might still have feelings for his ex. Fast forward to last week, I felt like he was distant, and I kept trying to get him to hang out, cause I felt he didn't care about me, and he's always busy either at work or with friends, and I felt like he didn't like me anymore, I went out somewhere last week and he asked me why I didn't invite him, even though I always try to get him to hang out but he's always busy. I told him don't text me till you can show you care, so he didn't text me for 2 days, and I missed him so I texted him, and asked why he's not texting me and he said I'm respecting your wishes. Well last night I was stranded with my friend and I called him at 2am to pick me up, he was at a party but came as soon as I called. He dropped me off home, and I forgot to kiss him, so he texted and asked why I didn't give him a poper goodnight. I don't get it AT ALL he runs hot and cold, is he interested in me or?
WTF? Did you forget the part where he says it's been only 3 months since his breakup and... HE "WANTS TO TAKE IT SLOW"? Instead you text stalk him, get paranoid and are about to blow (if you haven't already) it with him. Jesus...calm the fuck down and grow up.

I bet she has a Leo moon...
Posted by bloodflood
he wants booty but is trying to be a gentleman about it.
He has never mentioned sex

Posted by taurusgossipgirl
.... I kept trying to get him to hang out, cause I felt he didn't care about me ...
I told him don't text me till you can show you care, so he didn't text me for 2 days, and I missed him so I texted him, and asked why he's not texting me and he said I'm respecting your wishes.
wow

It doesn't matter if he's never mentioned sex, it doesn't matter what he does or says.
What matters is how you carry yourself because you are the only person you are able to control.
And you look desperate as fuck ... my advise would be to stop, and do a self check
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