It's springing up Virgos!

It took a long time to push past the clutches of the one virguy only to be replaced by another one that acts just as weird. Really, I am over-analyzing behaviors trying to find the reason(s) for such intensely strong reactions when there shouldn't be. I do have a bf, i'm not trying to hook up with anyone, and I can't stop these things from happening. I am eternally fascinated by the human psyche and our behaviors. No funny business or hidden info. Ok, story...

The virgo in question is a member of one of my top 2 favorite local bands. I see them almost every time they play, and they played a pretty big gig with my bf's band before, so we are all friendly. One night I was out with my girly friend and he was at the same venue with a friend. We all hung out together, have fun, blah blah. Soon after he friends me on fb. Ok, cool. We msg'd a couple of times about projects. Ok, still cool. He plays another show, I bring bf, fun ensues, everything still alright. Next show happens and it gets weird here. I'm sitting at the bar with my bf next to me. Virgo comes rolling out of the green room, sees me, smiles big, immediately sees my bf, instant pissed off face and walks off in huff (my bf and him have only said "hi" to each other; no bad blood). Ignores me for rest of night. Meh, ok. Next show happens. In line, talking to virgo's drummer, virgo pushes himself between us, shoves money in drummer's face for beer, doesn't acknowledge my presence when he's practically standing on me. Weird. Later in the parking garage I see him. I approach, say "hey", and he looks panicky. He starts backing away, talking fast, making excuses to not stick around to talk, practically running away. Now... Wtf? I'm baffled. Came outta nowhere for real. He seems to all of a sudden exhibit jealous behaviors when he shouldn't, and didn't, before. I think he developed a crush, which is whatever, but it's the intensity that has me curious. Only with virgos and it is rare I connect with virgos at all. Whatcha think?

I'm not a virgo but on my end, I don't see why it matters. You have a man, focus on him. If the Virgo has a crush or a problem that is his problem not yours. I would just stay away from him esp if he habors those feelings for you, it's going to blow back on you and it will not be pretty. Esp if your dude finds out that he likes you and you're still hanging out with you. What's the point? You have other friends so why try to maintain this friendship?! I don't get it at all.

I say move on but I have a Taurus moon so if I was your man I would be looking at you sideways and cut you loose. Not trying to be mean but reading this has my alarm flashing red screaming potential cheater alert. *shrugs shouders* just saying.

*Esp if your dude finds out that he likes you and you're still hanging out with him

agreed. why do you need to confirm if this virgo likes you or not... or why he does? your post is confusing, because you claim you have a bf and not looking for anyone, and yet you so desperately need to know if someone else is interested? I have a boyfriend who is a virgo. I have lots of male friends, he has lots of male friends who through association are now my friends. I know these friends like me, and even if I didn't know they liked me and they did, I don't give a shit. my heart and eyes are for one person, so regardless if they act weird or shy because they like looking at me, I make it clear that it remains friends only. I think you should do the same.