@xeykikedema
14 Years
With secrete Virgo .. would it work?
You have not stopped to think about how you may have been making him unhappy.
Instead you focused your attention on being a monster--the bad guy--wondering what the hell is wrong with him rather than to improve and aim for happiness.
You do not love him. Leave him alone.
Yea it was wrong but what a resentful prick.
You should dump his stupid ass.
you went looking for dirt and you got dirty. i dumped the last prick who decided to invade my privacy. im surprised he didnt give you an earful. shit, you probably are a monster. you need to go talk to the man in the mirror. i cant believe that he feels guilty and is feeling bad.
you should excuse yourself out of the relationship since hes too chickenshit to leave you. obviously he isnt used to or comfortable with telling you how he really feels about the relationship or you as noted by his journal entries.
he's scared of you thats why he's taking the passive aggressive approach. ida burned your clothes and stolen your dog.
Posted by killuminati26
@sag89 Actually he sounds like a nice guy, who prays to God, considerate and he should be appreciated. You on the other hand....typical sag 🙂
This dude does sound like a good man. You should've apologized to him, and asked him to give you a chance to make things right. You were dead wrong.
Posted by DMV
you went looking for dirt and you got dirty. i dumped the last prick who decided to invade my privacy. im surprised he didnt give you an earful. shit, you probably are a monster. you need to go talk to the man in the mirror. i cant believe that he feels guilty and is feeling bad.you should excuse yourself out of the relationship since hes too chickenshit to leave you. obviously he isnt used to or comfortable with telling you how he really feels about the relationship or you as noted by his journal entries.
+1
That's the problem. He let her bulldoze him too much. Now she has no respect for him. Smh.
Send him this vid for me. This is what he needs to do lol!
You do not love him. Leave him alone.
That's a little strong, lol
Posted by DMV
he's scared of you thats why he's taking the passive aggressive approach. ida burned your clothes and stolen your dog.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Stolen you dog bwhahahahhaha
Posted by Mebs
Send him this vid for me. This is what he needs to do lol!
Oh Mebs you do make me laugh! These vids really hit the nail on the head every time, LOL! You darn good at this shiz girl! HA
Posted by DMV
you went looking for dirt and you got dirty. i dumped the last prick who decided to invade my privacy. im surprised he didnt give you an earful. shit, you probably are a monster. you need to go talk to the man in the mirror. i cant believe that he feels guilty and is feeling bad.you should excuse yourself out of the relationship since hes too chickenshit to leave you. obviously he isnt used to or comfortable with telling you how he really feels about the relationship or you as noted by his journal entries.
+1
That's the problem. He let her bulldoze him too much. Now she has no respect for him. Smh.
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Okay guys you deserve to hear the updates,
2 days ago, he approached me and opened a discussion, He Told me that he can't explain his dairy and everything written there is what he felt at that time. He gave me a good example that a relationship is like an impulse response, there are some ups and downs in the start and then it stabilize. He also brought my attention that the last note about me in the diary was written before 6 months and the second last about me was written before 1 year and half. Then, he explained me that I am knocking a closed chapters and I have to open my mind beyond my self ego. The main reason for keeping those secretes in dairy was fearing that i may react quickly and the relationship may not work.
Finally, he made himself clear for being selfish in a sense that he always want to keep the relationship even when I didn't show interest. And then he asked me a key question "Let me hear right now what your views are and lets end this situation this way or the other way for good". He was very convincing and I really appreciate his courage to come and clear up things. Now we are back in a promise that he will tell me what ever he feel and I will be more patient in controlling my emotions. Thanks you all for your input
Posted by killuminati26
@sag89 Actually he sounds like a nice guy, who prays to God, considerate and he should be appreciated. You on the other hand....typical sag 🙂
Oh yea he's a great guy being so PA and all. He sounds awesome....
Honestly he sounds like you can treat him anyway you want in he'll just take it. Never trust people like that. That is what their point is. They try to look all nice but really they are building up resentment behind your back and who knows what else.
If he didn't have the balls to tell you the first time how he felt about you or what was bothering him what makes you think he'll ever really tell you anything?
Don't confuse "niceness" with a doormat.
Fucking lying douchebag TROLL.
http://www.dxpnet.com/users/userMessages.asp?ipaddress=% D7% 3Bw% B1% A9% E7d% 5C% A6% 26q% BF% B0>IP LINK
this ip address: xxx.xxx.xxx.— has posted 3 messages.
Topic Forum User name Date
With secrete Virgo .. would it work? Sagittarius xeykikedema 4/26/2012 3:50:19 PM
Virgos who do you think is the best match for us? Virgo kedemu 4/26/2012 12:15:34 PM
Virgo(M)-Sagi(W) what a panic Virgo kedemu 4/25/2012 8:35:03 PM
kedmu posted THIS TOPIC as the wronged male Virgo whose Sag girlfriend read his "diary" and broke up with him, and he's desperate to get her back. "He" has now hidden the OP in that thread.. because "he" has now made an account called xeykikedema claiming to be the "she" (the Sag gf who read the diary)
WTF is this shit? You people think you can just come here and fake, pretend, and LIE your way into getting the answers you want?
Hey, FUCK YOU.
Hahaha, BUSTed! 😄
Anybody else notice that it's always Virgo's that get caught giving themselves advice? Always.
nice detective work there.
*shrug* I saw the original "Virgo" post days ago, remembered it when I saw the "Sag" one.
Also note:
Topic Forum User name Date
With secrete Virgo .. would it work? Sagittarius xeykikedema 4/29/2012 1:20:43 PM
With secrete Virgo .. would it work? Sagittarius kedemu 4/29/2012 1:15:04 PM
*points upward a few posts*
Three days later, forgot who he/she was pretending to be .. logged in (different IP from the original) as kedemu to post this RIVETING "Thanks, but it all worked out" update.. in xeykikedema's thread.. WHOOOPS, dumbass.. quick, hide the post! And 5 minutes later, repost the update as xeykikedema.
Don't care if the real poster is the snooping Sag or the martyr Virgo... MORONS.
Fuck you AGAIN.
Damn. *smh*
Crazy damn people.
Heh.
Virgo juice....ewwwww
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Hey
I have a virgo boyfriend( i am sagittarius) and we have been dating for 2 and half years. We have seen ups and downs but usually he is calm and smiles frequently. Regarding communication we have no problem at all. Recently I broke the rule by reading his dairy without his permission. I was not intending to read but when i saw it in his room i can't help it.
Most of the notes are about our relationship. It is reflected there that I made him unhappy most of the time. In one hand he is stuck with me on the other hand he don't want to hurt me. In all his notes he mentions God to help him to love me more. The diary is not regularly written. The last note is shocking, He suspect me of cheating on him and don't know what to do. It is 6 months after the last note is written and our relationship is very normal, there is no sign of dissatisfaction on him.
ANyway, I can't help it and I told him I have read his diary and I am pissed of him that he thinks I am a monster. I also left his proposal ring and don't know what to do now. In the last sms after this incident he mentioned that he understands my situation and is feeling very bad, and added he deserve to suffer the sorrow.
What to do ? How to continue with this virgo ... please help