Needy Virgo Man

Understanding the Needy Virgo Man and Relationship Dynamics

Virgo men can be caring but may also exhibit neediness due to insecurity. They value stability but often struggle with expressing their feelings clearly. Open communication and setting boundaries are key to managing their need for reassurance without feeling controlled. Recognizing their desire for security can help improve your relationship or determine if it’s worth pursuing.

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LadyLionness
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14 Years

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I have dated virgo men before. My last relationship lasted almost 10 years with one and he was very loving/affectionate, yet was very independent. Now this new virgo I am dating for about 2 months is a busy man, affectionate, but he seems very needy for attention. The other day we spent half the day together and he went home. I went out about my day and he texts me about 5 hours later saying that I didnt check on him all day. I was really turned off by his text. The next day, he asks me how many guys I have that still call/text me. I think, he has real feelings for me but has a problem expressing what it is that he really wants to say. Also, I am wondering, do virgo men feel better being single? I really was feeling this man, but that text may be a real sign of things to come. I dont like anyone trying to control me or accuse me of anything. While I am a very loving person, I can also snap back very quickly and I dont want a relationship like that with anyone. I guess he is insecure and I dont know how to make him feel more secure or if its even worth the effort.
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wgamador2
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Its unreal how insecure my gender is.

Why be with attractive women if you are a jealous man? Never understood that.
Maybe i was hurt in my past because i was so trusting--- but today i just dont give a fuck wether a girl stays with me or not (and i guess thats why she is still with me) my thing is just dont play games. I cant control who you are going to meet and destiny, what if im not the true love of your life ? So just be honest. Thats my policy
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pr_princess
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17 Years

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Posted by Peanutbutter
My Virguy asked me if I was gunna snoop thru his car... I said no, I'm not nosey and honestly I have high self esteem and am not worried about what he does when I'm not there w/ him lol.

Now that I'm reading this thread Idk whether this is a red flag or not.. like is he gunna to off n do sketchy stuff to try to get a reaction or jealousy out of me? :/



My Virgo guy actually said to me that he tests me. So saying things to get a reaction to see how faithful you are or what your habits are he will want to know in advance.

Any Virgo guy that can confirm why you test?