My relationship

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Yes, my conceitedness or insecurity and virgo flares are rising, so i want to discuss my relationship since most of you are in assumption or completely unknown.

My lady moved into my home, and we reorganized several rooms in the house to make herself feel at home, but i jokingly told her to keep her hands away from my music room or else her hands would end up in the trash can. (Nobody touches that room besides the master room keeper)

The only major complaints she has is the fact i listen to music to sleep, and I am constantly pulling pranks on her.

She got me back yesterday by kicking my nuts for putting a dummy head with long hair on the bed while she was sleeping and when she turned over to hug \"me\" she jumped out of the bed when she noticed a dummy lying next to her.

...Beyond the superficial level, things are going by crazily (planning a Christmas party for her friends, my friends and the friends we have together), and we are going to Vegas to celebrate my pals birthday on the 6th of December.

She likes the night life...and i love the shit people do during the night life BUAHAHAHHAHA!
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Funny part is that she gets pissed off when I am being a joker but misses the humor when I do calm down to meet her needs...
She usually catches me when i am fiddling around on my guitar, or when i decide to walk around the house due to my need of locomotion whenever i ruminate.

Communication is great, and there hasn\'t been much conflict besides the occasional sparks that occur, but they are never fought just managed correctly...at least i think.

Going great.
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Posted by pigeonpie
Sounds awesome.πŸ™‚
Lady understands and respects 'man cave' (even that by itself deserves kudos, as sooner or later women try to turn said rooms into shoe/wardrobe/junk rooms)



Scary, she does have a lot of heels, and clothes...Hopefully, she doesn't conquer my room 😒

Plus your missus enjoys waking up to the occasional practical joke Sorti πŸ™‚
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Meh, she gets pissed off. I know it is wrong, but i think it is funny.

She can punch me all she wants, I still laugh. Cool gal man, but she does have her moments on strangeness, but I'm never bothered....

Her on the other hand...bothered by all.

*Just to let you know she monitors the crap i say to everyone on here because i use to spend too much time on dxp haha*
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Hey Sorti, sounds like things are going pretty well for you πŸ™‚

Thought I might share my own POV from experience ofcourse, maybe it might help with the issue you're having, I don't know but I hope so....My first bf used to be the prankster sort as well, and I can tell you from experience that at the beginning it's funny, but it wears very thin if you do it too often or if the pranks are really mean ones. Ofcourse, people that weren't around him very often thought he was hilarious and would egg him on to do some of the most ridiculous things, but because I was around that all the time it just wasn't funny to me anymore, and I would end up walking away... Find the right balance and you can still satisfy that streak in you, and you'll still have her laughing and enjoying your wicked sense of humor πŸ™‚

"Funny part is that she gets pissed off when I am being a joker but misses the humor when I do calm down to meet her needs..."
That's women for ya πŸ˜‰ gotta keep you men on your toes!! Hahaha...

All the best!!!
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Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

The only major complaints she has is the fact i listen to music to sleep, and I am constantly pulling pranks on her.



Sounds like you might have become dependent on the music to sleep. I was very careful about that when I used to use music to fall asleep.

She got me back yesterday by kicking my nuts for putting a dummy head with long hair on the bed while she was sleeping and when she turned over to hug \"me\" she jumped out of the bed when she noticed a dummy lying next to her.
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*in a brash manly tone* YOU ARE THE MAN!!!

*high fives*

Is this the same fishie you were telling us about marrying maaaan?
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Theladysagittarius - She is a pisces...unfortunately 😒
I\'m getting ready for the days she takes my money and my music...hahaha.

Oddball- Yeah, I think I may be a bit harsh, but I am probably not as brutal as other males when they prank their girlfriends...

Just to oddball, VVV
(I was hoping she didn\'t say what i knew she was going to say when we got more involved and that was \"I am insecure,\" and after she said that, i just want her to snap out of those negative thought because feeling insecure doesn\'t get you anywhere...
She told me this during one of our more intimate conversations when she was talking about herself and how she compares herself to others, and the belief that you need to empathize for everyone (biased women perspective) just puts too much tension on yourself and leaves you feeling this way...so i do my best to keep her jolly whenever she falls into this self-absorbed behavior, but i have my moments too, so i\'ll be honest I don\'t care for the comments people tell me, and if i find out that somebody said something stupid about me; I make fun of the comment. People don\'t bother me or phase me, only I bother me and phase me!)


Yeah, Cajun (CANJUN), the same TUNA-salad. She hasn\'t broke my heart yet =D
If she does, i\'ll call you man, and we\'ll work out πŸ˜‰

One thing i can tell you caj is that her moods hardly change (which is rare for a pisces)...