Virgo male - Gemini female

Hi Virgos!

Not new here, but its been a while...

but what are your thoughts on gemini-virgo relationships?

Met a virgo and he gives me butterflies, BUT the hot and cold thing is starting, lol

not too bad but I noticed it...what are your thoughts?

LOL...yeah we are notorious flirts I can't front...but I gave him no reason to get all flaky..

like for example he was suppose to pick me up at 10:30 the other night. He called and said he was going to be 15 mins late..ok no problem...next thing you know its 11:30. so I text him and told him don't even bother because its getting late aand I have to go to work in the A.M. - no response and no show. The next day didn't here from him at all. Then the day after he calls me on my break and asks me if i want him to bring me lunch like nothing ever happened. But when we 1st met which was like only 2 wks ago he was so considerate and sweet but now i don't know...

I should know becuz I'm a gem and I have my flaky moments but *shrugs*

wow...ok so Virgos are like super sensitive?

But he didn't even bother to call me or text me back after...I even text and said "I'm not mad at you...just text back so I know you straight" and no response...

Oh and I forgot to mention that when he offered to bring me lunch, I told him thats ok because it would have been to late and my break would have been over

Posted by OneSexyGem
wow...ok so Virgos are like super sensitive?

Yes.
He might have been trying very hard to go against antagonistic circumstances, might have been 2 minutes away before you "shot him down". You just never know what crap can pop up.

But he didn't even bother to call me or text me back after...I even text and said "I'm not mad at you...just text back so I know you straight" and no response...

He was probably angry you blew him off.
I personally can't handle rejection.

Oh and I forgot to mention that when he offered to bring me lunch, I told him thats ok because it would have been to late and my break would have been over -was that a bad thing?

It's just like the text you sent, blowing him off. Rejecting him.

I'm a gemini but I'm super duper sensitive when it comes to my feelings...its my weakness

by the way my venus is in cancer...just wanted to put dat out dere, lol

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The Venus is most likely responsible.

Posted by 25thDecan
He's probably on a "she's probably not into me like I'm into her" wavelength.

I'm going through this same thing with a June 4th Gem girl.

I'm very attracted to her but I doubt she is to me.

She is practically worshipped on her Facebook, which I do not indulge in.

I just message her on BBM and danced with her, flirting when she came to dance class. She never flirted back.

The only odd thing is that she accuses me of being cold with her on BBM. To which a gigantic "?" pops above my head.

LOLOLOLOL...just got off the phone with him...

He apologized...lol he said he's been busy, about to start a new job and he was doing some running around and he wants to look cute when he sees me tomorrow *shrugs*

I guess we will see...but I swear I won't get dressed until he's outside, lol

Posted by 25thDecan
Hyep@Cajun
Um Onesexygem...he called u beautiful...complimented you....made overtures to you...did you do thev sane? Or did u just eat it up? Reciprocity goes a LONG way with any guy. Many women don't know that. For them...its always being treated and being shocked at breakups and infidelity...

Hmmm...I've told him how I love spending time with him, and how I think he would make the perfect boyfriend and how I love cuddling with him and talking to him...if that counts

Hey guys! Quick update....

So we hung out a for a little while at his house...lol, while I was there it was like he couldn't sit still, and he was acting kinda shy and distant asking me if he can sit next to me...

But prior to that I was the one who had to contact him first and pretty much make the first move...

But he held me while we watched a movie last night :-)

But today no contact from him 😢

I'm startin to think he's just not that into me

I know I know I think too much!

So what should I do? Stop being the initiater and wait for him to...idk...get himself together?

But should I fall back from contacting him first in the meantime or continue to make the first move? I don't want to come off as being too pushy or too clingy...

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
who cares if you come across a certain way?, you cant stop being you and behaving something else than the way you are would be about the worst thing you can do.

@one: Listen to the Virgo guys on this board. If you want to call/text him. Do it. Do not wait for him. Send him a funny, sweet message that will make him think of you. Let him know you are still interested and want to see him. Then when you do go out, this is your chance to redeem yourself. Treat him like he is the only man for you. I hope it works out for you.

Okay I just texted him "Hey sweetie" and no response yet...but I'm being patient

But this is the last time I will be the "initiator"

ya'll know I'm a gemini...I don't have patience for the bullsh*t!

@One: I know how hard it is to be patient..we Sags are known for impatience! I think in the beginning of any relationship, both are wary of being hurt, rejected, etc. I am learning myself (recently divorced) how dating goes and nothing is easy...lol. But you being a little more aggressive at this stage doesnt matter. What do you have to lose? Its either gonna happen or not. I think he will come back around.

Posted by 25thDecan
Wow..does he have a job/jobs? Sleep? Busy? Like YOU he could have priorities...

Lol...we DON'T have patience..that's the problem!!

He does have a job...he's the supervisor at a landscaping company...

In his defense, when we met he wasn't workin because he was in a bad car accident, but I think he may have started back work again...but I'm not sure cuz there's lack of communication...

He didn't even text me back today 😢

What ever happened to men being "the man"? Lol

Soooooooooooo update....

Me and Virguy spent Thanksgiving together :-)

I brought him a plate of food because he doesn't really have family up here...poor baby

Thanksgiving morning I sent out a mass e-mail to everyone in my phone saying "Happy Thanksgiving" and he texts back "u too boo" and "can I have you for desert" lol, so I text back "you can have me for lunch and dinner if you want" and he texts back "lol"

Later on that day he kept asking me when am I coming over, blah blah blah...fast foward

we had some mind-blowing sex...mmmmmmm, and I kinda snapped at him because after we finished he asked me was I ready to go home after, but I felt bad because he did ask me if I was staying the night but I couldn't because I had to go to work the next day, lol...

then he "you know what? I get so looooooooooonley!!! I can't let just anybody hold meeeeeee!!!" (singing Janet Jackson
song).

He's fun and he makes me laugh...I'm gonna try my best to keep the relationship light and airy...just like us air signs like it...

sorry for the damn typos

his birth chart:

Sun Virgo 14.45
Moon Leo 0.52
Mercury Libra 9.57
Venus Cancer 29.40
Mars Aries 10.32 R
Jupiter Gemini 5.38
Saturn Sagittarius 25.59
Uranus Sagittarius 27.02
Neptune Capricorn 7.28 R
Pluto Scorpio 10.27
Lilith Virgo 12.53
Asc node Pisces 14.03

Can anyone explain his personality to me? Just curious 😉