The Virgo pay-off.

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by LibraLove on Friday, November 26, 2010 and has 16 replies.

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@LibraLove
15 YearsLibra

You guys are not easy to crack, but once someone works hard enough to split that shell, you reveal yourselves to be very sweet. And only become sweeter with time!

My boyfriend is not at all the type to lay on the sweeping compliments, (when we first started dating, I couldn't even get a simple 'you look nice' from this guy), so this text that he sent left me a little flabbergasted:
"Again, sorry to gush, but you are a really rad person to hangout with as a friend, plus amazing and passionate as a girlfriend. I'm looking forward to opening myself up further to you and am very glad to have met you!"

I've noticed that the more time we spend with one another, the more complimentary he becomes.

You lot aren't really ones for big romantic gestures, but you illustrate a practical kind of affection that's severely underrated.

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@LibraLove
15 YearsLibra

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Seriously, Im not anything like your boyfriend AT ALL. He seems so calculated and slow 😛 on the other hand I have way too much fire in my chart, I dont have the patience wait so long before opening up.

Your Venus and Mars are in Leo! Of course you aren't going to be slow and calculated haha.

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@dreams2ashes
15 Years

hahaha i love hearing about your bf's calculated and deliberately worded texts!

Doesn't it make you laugh or smile every time you see a friend be such a typical Virgo? I always laugh to myself because of my friend's typical virgo-ness and he never knows why I'm laughing.

I miss my virgo 😢

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@sikkario
16 Years

Sweet enough but a true Virgo would be Quixotically poetic and put you on a pedestal.
Aquarius and Virgo men have a way in their natures of walking the line between super romantically and wierdly cheesy in their expression of love to women.
I know, I text girls poems and shyt.

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@LibraLove
15 YearsLibra

haha aw, thanks guy!

He says sweet things to me to my face as well, but it was nice to have a little unexpected praise like that.

"Sweet enough but a true Virgo would be Quixotically poetic and put you on a pedestal."
Hmm, I don't know about that. He did place me on a pedestal; something that caused him to retreat at first because he was uncertain about how to approach me.
Honestly though, in my experience with Virgos, none have been "Quixotically poetic." If anything, they've been quite the opposite.
*shrug*

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@sikkario
16 Years

He's probably just not comfortable enough with himself yet.
Most older Virgos are pretty reticent and when it comes out, it's thought out like something from an academic poetry class.

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@LibraLove
15 YearsLibra

Thanks Beloved!

For those of you who get a kick out of my bf's very, uhm...let's say "calculated" texts, here's another:
"Hi! I just want to say that if you don't hear from me very much this up coming week, pllleeeeeeaaassseee don't think anything of it. I'm just going to focus on school. Just know that throughout my studying I'll usually think of you as a distraction!"

Followed immediately by:
"Wait I just re-read my text...thinking of you as a distraction was meant in a GOOD way, as in you are hot and I wish I was making out with you instead of studying!"

A Virgo actually explaining why he might be distant? Preposterous!

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@LibraLove
15 YearsLibra

Why thank you, virg_goki, he is pretty cute.
And he's such a nerd, that sometimes I just look at him and get this sudden urge to give him wedgies.
And I do! Also give him a noogie or too. I'm a bully, but I can't help it, he's just the perfect dork!

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@LibraLove
15 YearsLibra

Ha! That one was a classic.
He's sent some equally premeditated texts not about kissing, which makes them all the more funny, but less appropriate to post...

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@SomeRandomVirgo
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by LibraLove
Why thank you, virg_goki, he is pretty cute.
And he's such a nerd, that sometimes I just look at him and get this sudden urge to give him wedgies.
And I do! Also give him a noogie or too. I'm a bully, but I can't help it, he's just the perfect dork!

I involuntarily said "Awwww" upon reading that