Posted by scorpio24
it's annoying cause he honestly thinks its ME thats doing it bad, but i know for a fact that it is not ME it's him.. im gonna try change the way he kisses and hopefully he listens.
Posted by Nemesis
if i nit-picked about my relationship as much as you do - i would beg my boyfriend to break up with me.
concluding from this thread and the others you made regarding your virgo - if you wanna see obssessed you might want to look in the mirror.
i don't understand the other girls who are actually even patting your back and saying "well done" "way to go".
Posted by harry99Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24
it's annoying cause he honestly thinks its ME thats doing it bad, but i know for a fact that it is not ME it's him.. im gonna try change the way he kisses and hopefully he listens.
Just a thought...but maybe it is you. How can you know for a fact? cause someone told you to spare your feelings? he might not be a bad kisser at all to someone else...I think hes just not your style .
Wow do Virgos all go to some kind of "how to sound like a broken record" class
Trust us LIMM it's him and nothing you say will change that k k
IT'S NOT ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE REST OF THE WHOLE DAMNED WORLD, MOST OF THE TIMES IT'S JUST YOOOOOUUUUUUUUU
I know it's pointless but at least I feel better knowing I tried.
Ok onto the OP um this is a big problem people have with Virgos and like Dafna said as per above and below
Virgos are blind to their own flaws or (at least pretend to be). Idk what you can do but uh I'd say to go with CC's advice and each away
May the force be with you
Posted by Dafna79
How do you teach them?? You say something or you just teach them while kissing them... Virgos have a very high opinion of themselves so I don't see my "hey dude you are a horrible kisser, come over here I teach you..." going very well lolclick to expand
Posted by Jackstobo
Neither of you are bad kissers. You just have different beliefs about how to kiss. I go crazy kissing women that kiss hard, explore with their tongue, and bite, nibble, or suck on my lip. To me, that is a good kisser. Luckily for me, my virgal kisses the way I like. Maybe try and compromise. Communication is so important. Acknowledge that you are both good kissers, but sometimes you can kiss your way and sometimes you can kiss his way.
Posted by scorpio24
okay its probably not as bad as i made it seam... its OKAY its just not GREAT. but apart from that our love life is good
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Nemesis
if i nit-picked about my relationship as much as you do - i would beg my boyfriend to break up with me.
concluding from this thread and the others you made regarding your virgo - if you wanna see obssessed you might want to look in the mirror.
i don't understand the other girls who are actually even patting your back and saying "well done" "way to go".
I've thought this for some time now.
This tearing a relationship apart with exhausting obssession seems to be an inherent Scorpion trait .... for this reason, one would run away crying from me because the moment they pulled this obssession shit, I'd hurt their feelings.click to expand
Posted by memyself
from all your posts you seem restless, not sure about your feelings for your virgo. does he want to breakup with you, is he obsessed with you, does he like your dressing style , is he not a good kisser. what is it about the virgo that you really like or love. what is it that makes you want to be with him? if you can answer that you will know what you want. i believe chemistry and physical compatibility are very important, but is there anything about him that makes you want to make it work with him? it could be you are right and also maybe you do not feel mutual love and are in the relationship just for the sake being in a relationship. what is that special thing that you two share?
Posted by scorpio24
There are soooo many things i like about him, i love his work ethic, how well put together he is, i'm extremely attracted to everything about him, his voice is so attractive to me, how he carries himself, how he is with other people, his independence, how USEFUL. he's just so MANLY to me i cant get enough of it. Hoenstly, MOST of the guys i am friends with or know who are around the same age are just all over the place.. which i think makes me respect my virgo's good qualities even more. he can be super generous too and i LOVE it when he's affectionate out of the blue.
I know i am probably coming across like a pshyco/needy girl, but honestly, i have NEVER been like this EVER with anyone else. i have had 2 other long term relationships with guys and a few flings here and there but i got bored/wasnt interested in ANY of them and could easily walk away.. but with this guy, wow. i dont know how to describe it, it's not ALL about physical attraction but i feel like there is SOMETHING there which i cant quite pin point...
sometimes i do feel as though we might not be that compatible cause i'm alot more loving/affectionate/want to give him the world.. where he shows emotions differently i guess.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Lol I'm the same way, hella obsessed and mad critical... maybe a tad bit much cause I'm getting it thrown in my face. I called him selfish, now he's like I have to focus on me, I have to be selfish. I have to live myself first before I can love anyone else. Oh go suck it already.
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