Need help from a Virgo man please!

Hi there!

I would love some help from a Virgo male in re: to my interest in one. I have been taking with a Virgo male for about a week, and email conversations were amazing. We have so much in common and he seemed VERY interested in me, even taking a night off from work to set up a date two days earlier than planned. We met last night, and he is great. Conversation flowed and we laughed, joked, and our date, which was supposed to be a "meeting" for one drink ended up being 5 hours long!

Here's the thing, I have never dated a Virgo (I'm a Scorpio female), and he seemed somewhat cold and was not affectionate at all. That said, he did give me a tight squeeze when we left and asked that I text him when I got home. I did, told him how great of a time I had and thanked him for being such a gentleman. He responded back with a thank you as well. I was hoping for "how bout another date"..but got a goddnight instead.

I guess my question is, from a Virgo male standpoint, how do I know if he's into me?

Thanks!

Its been only a week..chill lol

Hes not going to be affectionate to someone hes getting to know..unless he just wants to get in your panties, which doesnt seem like it by what you've written. Just relax...hes analyzing everything that played out on the date...either he will ask you out again or he wont.

Dont be a Scorpio about it lol

Lol LostinmyMind11! You're so right "Don't be a scorpio about it". Love it!

Guess I'll wait to see what pans out and if he contacts me (something pretty hard for a scorp to do)...but from what I hear, good things come to those who wait for Virgos!

Thanks!

Posted by SassyScorpio76
Lol LostinmyMind11! You're so right "Don't be a scorpio about it". Love it!

Guess I'll wait to see what pans out and if he contacts me (something pretty hard for a scorp to do)...but from what I hear, good things come to those who wait for Virgos!

Thanks!

Hahaha

you're welcome 🙂

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Its been only a week..chill lol

Hes not going to be affectionate to someone hes getting to know..unless he just wants to get in your panties, which doesnt seem like it by what you've written. Just relax...hes analyzing everything that played out on the date...either he will ask you out again or he wont.

Dont be a Scorpio about it lol

My thought exactly. I was just about to say, "Relax!" Slow and steady wins the race. Don't make him feel rushed, you will scare him.

He probably wanted to be forward and be affectionate with you but was afraid that it would be too forward.

He is being very respectful of you and you should take notice of it. If he is being very deliberate in his approach it probably means he wants more from you.

When you think Virgo Males don't think Golden Retrievers think Snow Leopards. Shy and reclusive. When he invites you into his world I promise you, you will be the center of it.

Soooooooo, basically stay calm, cool and collected? 😉

Thanks everyone! Sometimes it's hard for a Scorpio not to read into things...especially when we are "in like" with someone. Lol!

I swear this is my wife! (joking) 😉

You're fine. Just relax, and if a couple days go by without hearing from him, just send him a text, and ask how his day is going.

VirgoMerlot...so funny you say that b/c I sent you an email earlier (I saw a post you had responded to)! And good idea...patience is the key (or so I hear). 😉

RomancingA; it would be my pleasure! 😉

Posted by SassyScorpio76
VirgoMerlot...so funny you say that b/c I sent you an email earlier (I saw a post you had responded to)! And good idea...patience is the key (or so I hear). 😉

Holy crap! That's funny...What's even funnier is that I have about 5 other messages too that I didn't notice until now. lol

Posted by SassyScorpio76
Hi there!

I would love some help from a Virgo male in re: to my interest in one. I have been taking with a Virgo male for about a week, and email conversations were amazing. We have so much in common and he seemed VERY interested in me, even taking a night off from work to set up a date two days earlier than planned. We met last night, and he is great. Conversation flowed and we laughed, joked, and our date, which was supposed to be a "meeting" for one drink ended up being 5 hours long!

Here's the thing, I have never dated a Virgo (I'm a Scorpio female), and he seemed somewhat cold and was not affectionate at all. That said, he did give me a tight squeeze when we left and asked that I text him when I got home. I did, told him how great of a time I had and thanked him for being such a gentleman. He responded back with a thank you as well. I was hoping for "how bout another date"..but got a goddnight instead.

I guess my question is, from a Virgo male standpoint, how do I know if he's into me?

Thanks!

1 week and 1 date. Yah..ya need to chill BIG TIME. Do not haunt the guy, do not text him to death. Let him be the man, let him reach out to you. He's clear you are interested, don't blow it by smothering him with that fact. These guys are intelligent, they go very slowly, if you are not the patient type, then this guy is not for you. SLLLLOOOOOWWWW got it?

Gotcha! I def don't want to rush things with this guy (which is what usually happens when I meet someone), but it's usually them doing the rushing and I don't have to worry about whether they'll call/text, etc...So, this was awkward for me to not have any indication (obvious indication, anyways), that he was interested that night, especially after such a great connection through email. I'll be cool about it...it might be a nice change for once!

Thanks everyone for the comments. Like I said, never have dated a Virgo, so it's all a little new. 🙂

UPDATE: Ok, so it's been a full three days and NOTHING! I know, I know...."not three whole days"! 😉

I have commented on a couple of his FB posts (and only b/c they related to things we talked about on our date). That said, he has acknowledged those by "liking" them, but I have not gotten a text or phone call from him. As any Scorpio knows (or anyone who knows a Scorp well), playing the waiting game is pretty darn tough for us! Lol! I am giving up hope that he'll contact me and am still trying to stay strong and not contact him re: seeing him again. Whew. I guess if I didn't feel such a connection, this wouldn't be so hard.

From a Virgo's viewpoint, do I stay the course and wait or be a typical Scorpio and contact him? I have done a bit of research since my first post, and it appears that sometimes the Virgo needs reassurance that there is interest before he'll make another move. Note-I did not mention in my text that night, nor since, that I would like to see him again (thought it was pretty obvious though). So conflicted...

🙂