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Need the virgo advice: Hot n Cold, to boiling...
PS i did read the comments from my last post 🙂 big thanks and much love to Virgovixxen! I guess at the time me and this virgirl were at a very comfortable spot, then with the travels included I didn't have the time to check back in! I apologize for that!
Well when I really analyze the situation there IS that side of her which I dislike. I had the notion that perhaps she is conflicted and unsure of what she really wanted. She did bring it up last night and answered we probably would've been really good friends if none of it ever happened.
When I do spend time with her alone she seems really genuine. At other times she would really just insult me as if to get an anger response out of me and when she does get that response it's back to being sweet.
Me being me I really value the friendship and I'd go great lengths to secure that after she told me she just needed time. I can always tell in her face when she's upset, as if she's told me the wrong thing I when distance myself away.
I'll give her the time for sure but I'm curious to see if other Virgos here can make sense of this behavior.
When I do spend time with her alone she seems really genuine. At other times she would really just insult me as if to get an anger response out of me and when she does get that response it's back to being sweet.
Me being me I really value the friendship and I'd go great lengths to secure that after she told me she just needed time. I can always tell in her face when she's upset, as if she's told me the wrong thing I when distance myself away.
I'll give her the time for sure but I'm curious to see if other Virgos here can make sense of this behavior.
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rude? totally, I apologized for it later and she seem to have accepted the apology. It wasn't til she called me up in tears telling me that thanks to me her ex now calls her a liar because I had drunkenly told someone about everything. There were two people there at the time, they both backed me up.
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