Neeed help virgos !

Posted by BlackMamba
Lol this was literally me and Virgo last week. He would run run run away from conversation... Saying he doesn't feel well... Got to go.

Keep pushing and he's going to go. Haven't heard from Virgo in three days. Virgo has never not communicated with me like this in 8 months... So he's probably gone forever. I haven't reached out.

It seems to me he's not feeling the relationship

What do u mean not feelin the relationship, does he wanna quit ? But then why cant he tell me straight? Why talking in riddles ? And what does this gentlemanly thing means ? Was he not one before ?

@yazlan @weeds ... Can you explain this ?

But he was soo lovey dovey, he sounded happy and he started gettin intimate himself, and then right after hangin up these texts... God i m totally confusedddd... I feel like cryinnn

Posted by leona
@yazlan @weeds ... Can you explain this ?

It isnt anything to think or over think
He just wants physical touch that it whats going to do it for the both... phone stuff.is out of virgos realm

At times there are standards and these standards get elevated...
Communication is necessary and if you tell him what you need he will always revert...
Phone is not good enough to express and could seem.. a poor form of expression.. and he now prefers a more physical approach... understandably so...
Nothing to get emotional about But I see why.

So youre suggesting that i shouldnt bring it up again... and let him deal with it alone .. I hope he doesnt apply this gentle man theory of his in real when i see him again ..and if it was that simple he couldve said it all.. why makin it complicated by sayin i m returnin to my real self when hes always been like that...

I m in Germany and hes in Turkey.. i should probably visit him next month after my exams...

@weeds - actually i cant explain how he talks like... i mean hea really quiet.. he doesnt say much on rhe ph.. its always me talkin like a chatter box.. gigglin crackin jokes and in return i only get a little forced giggle. And its hard to get him to talk to me about things .. this conversation is a proof thaghe only typed this much on text and i didnt call back again when he said rhe first line before hangin up that we shouldnt do the ph thing anymore .. and immediayely said goodnight... now imagine how would u make out of somethin thag is half said and left unexplained... so this time instead of draggin it on the ph i said goodnight and texted so icould get a little detailed reply. You should know how it is like to be a virgo. I wish u were a leo haha u would know its not easy to shrug it off like this

Errrr i hate typin on the ph ..lol hope my typing errors doesnt bother any of u.

Posted by BlackMamba
Don't cry. Dry your eye.

I like the fact that u can relate so much and exactly get what i m goin thru.. god blesss you 🙂

You have gotten far without relying on dxpnet don't start being dependent now..
Take small steps

Its not insecurities tho.. not even her Leo parts... its her venus cancer

Posted by BlackMamba

Posted by Weeds
Its not insecurities tho.. not even her Leo parts... its her venus cancer

Go listen to men are from Mars women are from Venus. This has nothing to do with her crab bits. Don't be hating on us.

I've never felt as unloved by another person I've felt by the Virgo.

And maybe that's why I stick around. He's a challenge to conquer

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Im sure your virgo has never met someone as non-communicative as you either..
Cancer/Virgo don't work for this main reason and untill you can express properly through words a relationship with any virgo will not work with you PLAIN AND SIMPLE

This forum is a dumping ground... I expect nothing more then that

Posted by BlackMamba

Posted by Weeds
This forum is a dumping ground... I expect nothing more then that

Lol you just flow with it ehh?

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Do you worry about the pieces of paper on the road as you drive? Crushed cans on the side walk?
If its not apart of the subject that day it means nothing.. you ever wonder why only 2-3 virgos bother to reply to your resentment? take a wiiiiiilllllddd guess.

Posted by BlackMamba
I have four Leo placements and sag.

I think we think everything should be clear, easy, simple. But I love you though don't you see. Why don't you behave the way I want you too! Leo plus cancer makes me double emotionally and if I don't get my way..Well I'm overly critical dramatic annoying Nag... Blah blah

Really all I'm asking for is affection and attention because damn Virgo is like the desert and you're like the person in search of water. Virgo will hide water within the cracking dirt... You get little drops here and there but your left thirsty.

Hahahaha. Since we are Earth Sign maybe you're right about us being a desert lol

Posted by BlackMamba

Posted by Weeds
Its not insecurities tho.. not even her Leo parts... its her venus cancer

Go listen to men are from Mars women are from Venus. This has nothing to do with her crab bits. Don't be hating on us.

I've never felt as unloved by another person I've felt by the Virgo.

And maybe that's why I stick around. He's a challenge to conquer

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I agree on the never felt unloved before part !

Yes, you do need help, but it's the kind of help that no one here is capable of providing you...

@Taureanvirgo - whatever...

@vanish - Thank you ..thats my nephew 🙂

@vanish - Thank you ..thats my nephew 🙂