emeralddream
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Oh The Virgo DRIVES me NUTS!
Posted by emeralddream
I am in love with the romantic image of love more or less, but I do not fall into love easily. Its more like fairytale romance that ignites my brain. It tosses my whole chart off.
The first part of the 1st sentance doesn't sound like Venus in Virgo but the second part does (taking your time & analysing your love interest). And the last sentance doesn't sound like practical, analytical Virgo and as for tossing your whole chart off....nah, I highly doubt it, chuck up your chart and give us a sqiz.
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I am still trying to figure out how Mars and Venus play roles in my chart and myself. But reading venus and what she does it made sense. Doesn't mean I was right though haha. I am glad you offer some insight on the matter.
As far as my chart here you are. Its pretty interesante 😛 Just one Virgo though 😢 sadness :
Sun..........Cancer
Moon.........Libra
Mercury......Cancer
Venus........Virgo
Mars.........Cancer
Jupiter......Sagittarius
Saturn.......Libra
Uranus.......Sagittarius
Neptune......Sagittarius
Pluto........Libra
Ascendant....Capricorn
Midheaven....Scorpio
Lilith.......Aquariu
Asc node.....Gemini
LOL I have 4 Virgo's in my chart (Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars). Sometimes I wish I wasn't as Virgo-like, but someday I will grow to appreciate and embrace it.
With that said, I find I fall into infatuation easily, I become obsessed to a point. I also get bored easily and if something slips up or I don't like something about the person, I disappear off the face of the earth. But as far as love goes, I am very picky about that. Of course, I have a Libra moon, so that doesn't help me be as picky haha. I guess you can say I am very practical when I do fall in love. I only let myself fall for guys that I can see a future with, being married to and being the father of my kids. I feel that I am wasting valuable time dating the ones that I cannot see a future with. Trust me though, when I do find someone that I can see myself with, I expect to be swept off my feet, and the whole fairytale that comes along with it. When someone does get into my "shell", it's like I cannot control my emotions.
I have learned to overcome it and not let it get to me. There is no use fighting it, and it will only make your life harder. Learn to embrace it 🙂 I know I have been taking it as dating smart. I am picky, but it also means I have better quality boyfriends, I have had my share of douchenozzles, but I drop them faster than a hot potato. I do not and will not put up with jerks.
But as MoonMan said, Do NOT become overly critical or nag too much, unless you want to drive away every person you want to date, (trust me from experience). I can still be a huge nag and criticize everything about everyone (I would actually like that a lot, as I feel that I know what is right for everyone, and life would be SO much better if everything went my way haha), but other people tend to not like that as much as Virgos do (which is too bad). We just think we know what is best for everyone and get a bit fussy when people don't agree. I try to give people the best advice I can, and when they do the complete opposite and get hurt, I just laugh and say "told you so", but I am a lot more nice about it.
I strive for perfection, but I know there is no such thing as being perfect, or finding the perfect man (doesn't stop my from trying to find it though). I have very high standards for people, but even higher standards for myself.
Oh! and about your cleaning, I am the same way. I might have to join you with the Clorox haha.
I hope I have helped 🙂
With that said, I find I fall into infatuation easily, I become obsessed to a point. I also get bored easily and if something slips up or I don't like something about the person, I disappear off the face of the earth. But as far as love goes, I am very picky about that. Of course, I have a Libra moon, so that doesn't help me be as picky haha. I guess you can say I am very practical when I do fall in love. I only let myself fall for guys that I can see a future with, being married to and being the father of my kids. I feel that I am wasting valuable time dating the ones that I cannot see a future with. Trust me though, when I do find someone that I can see myself with, I expect to be swept off my feet, and the whole fairytale that comes along with it. When someone does get into my "shell", it's like I cannot control my emotions.
I have learned to overcome it and not let it get to me. There is no use fighting it, and it will only make your life harder. Learn to embrace it 🙂 I know I have been taking it as dating smart. I am picky, but it also means I have better quality boyfriends, I have had my share of douchenozzles, but I drop them faster than a hot potato. I do not and will not put up with jerks.
But as MoonMan said, Do NOT become overly critical or nag too much, unless you want to drive away every person you want to date, (trust me from experience). I can still be a huge nag and criticize everything about everyone (I would actually like that a lot, as I feel that I know what is right for everyone, and life would be SO much better if everything went my way haha), but other people tend to not like that as much as Virgos do (which is too bad). We just think we know what is best for everyone and get a bit fussy when people don't agree. I try to give people the best advice I can, and when they do the complete opposite and get hurt, I just laugh and say "told you so", but I am a lot more nice about it.
I strive for perfection, but I know there is no such thing as being perfect, or finding the perfect man (doesn't stop my from trying to find it though). I have very high standards for people, but even higher standards for myself.
Oh! and about your cleaning, I am the same way. I might have to join you with the Clorox haha.
I hope I have helped 🙂
Virgochick you have summed up my views on the matter as well esp the love part and men. I am glad I am not the only one who views things like ^^ you two. An whoooa on the 4 Virgo placements!
I never have seen nagging as productive. But in close circles I will let my views be known and criticize to an extent. That is seriously just between my mom and I, and like 4 friends.
As far as Clorox yay clean party!
Ok back to cleaning. lol seriously.
I never have seen nagging as productive. But in close circles I will let my views be known and criticize to an extent. That is seriously just between my mom and I, and like 4 friends.
As far as Clorox yay clean party!
Ok back to cleaning. lol seriously.
lol well hurray Libra Moon! Give a nice calmness to the Cancerian sun.
I am reserved, intense, I can be very intimidating. I am quiet with people who I do not know, because I analyze and observe them and what is happening. It is a guard for me and also if I observe I can better judge things honestly, and thereby respond to whatever, and who ever more accordingly.
I am not sure how people who date me see me. I believe that they see me better on the 2nd date, truer a little.
As far as threats go. I am quiet, the higher the threat level the quieter I get. It's like a quiet before a tempest. I will blow up and it will be done carefully, with carefully chosen words. What I say I mean to say, I rarely, and I mean really rarely, say something that I do not mean. Imagine a lawyer (that is kind of where I fit in with words) Will go to war and blow things up if I need to. But this is rare as I hate upturns of any sort. I enjoy harmony more🙂
If I am wrong I will admit it. If I am right I will fight to the death sort of speak. I loove a good debate you are so on MoonMan. I just love discussions in general. Gets all those mind juices flowing.
I think I am in a great place as far as my chart, the Virgo though gets me sometimes.
Houses ( I do not get the houses) So if you want to 411 some of it I would LOOOVE a good insight)
II.........Aquaruys
III........Aries
IV.........Taurus
V..........Taurus
VI.........Gemini
VII........Cancer
VIII ......Leo
IX ........Libra
Midheaven.......Scorpio
XI.........Scorpio
XII........Sagittarius
I am reserved, intense, I can be very intimidating. I am quiet with people who I do not know, because I analyze and observe them and what is happening. It is a guard for me and also if I observe I can better judge things honestly, and thereby respond to whatever, and who ever more accordingly.
I am not sure how people who date me see me. I believe that they see me better on the 2nd date, truer a little.
As far as threats go. I am quiet, the higher the threat level the quieter I get. It's like a quiet before a tempest. I will blow up and it will be done carefully, with carefully chosen words. What I say I mean to say, I rarely, and I mean really rarely, say something that I do not mean. Imagine a lawyer (that is kind of where I fit in with words) Will go to war and blow things up if I need to. But this is rare as I hate upturns of any sort. I enjoy harmony more🙂
If I am wrong I will admit it. If I am right I will fight to the death sort of speak. I loove a good debate you are so on MoonMan. I just love discussions in general. Gets all those mind juices flowing.
I think I am in a great place as far as my chart, the Virgo though gets me sometimes.
Houses ( I do not get the houses) So if you want to 411 some of it I would LOOOVE a good insight)
II.........Aquaruys
III........Aries
IV.........Taurus
V..........Taurus
VI.........Gemini
VII........Cancer
VIII ......Leo
IX ........Libra
Midheaven.......Scorpio
XI.........Scorpio
XII........Sagittarius
Aquarius* Sorry I am under a Windex high, Can not see straight!
Posted by emeralddream
Virgochick you have summed up my views on the matter as well esp the love part and men. I am glad I am not the only one who views things like ^^ you two. An whoooa on the 4 Virgo placements!
I never have seen nagging as productive. But in close circles I will let my views be known and criticize to an extent. That is seriously just between my mom and I, and like 4 friends.
As far as Clorox yay clean party!
Ok back to cleaning. lol seriously.
🙂 It is nice to know I am not alone on the matter as well. People call me too picky, but I think it's just right. I have a huge heart to give, and only the best should be able to get to it. Yes, 4 Virgo's in my chart. Makes me a little neurotic (as all my ex's tended to describe me haha). If I could, I would nag and criticize everyone about everything (darn all the Virgo in my chart haha). I don't do it to be mean, it really does come from the goodness of my heart.
*grabs my Clorox* woot! let's do this! haha 🙂
People do not understand the exact science behind being picky and why it is a good thing. Sad people!
So I drove thought this part of town I never go to...My thought was..If I am Mayor I am making a day where Everyone Cleans with CLOROX cause this is so unacceptable...
I am totally with you virgochick on the "from the heart" bit. If you did not care you would never say a word. We are neurotic because we care.
So I drove thought this part of town I never go to...My thought was..If I am Mayor I am making a day where Everyone Cleans with CLOROX cause this is so unacceptable...
I am totally with you virgochick on the "from the heart" bit. If you did not care you would never say a word. We are neurotic because we care.
Lmao Moonman that is a nice trailer intro to the huge movie. I can only imagine Morgan Freeman's voice with your words.
The more I care, the more neurotic I become 😢
You may giggle but I have a friend who is a screen writer/director. Unfortunately he does documentaries 😢
I would not go as far as say we are wondering if were the only freaks in town. At least for me I see freaky people and know I am pretty normal 🙂 What about you virgochick? And I am more into supervising the cleaning not into cleaning the world of dirt...but I will also not sit on my bum doing nothing.
I would not go as far as say we are wondering if were the only freaks in town. At least for me I see freaky people and know I am pretty normal 🙂 What about you virgochick? And I am more into supervising the cleaning not into cleaning the world of dirt...but I will also not sit on my bum doing nothing.
I am pretty sure we are the only freaks in town lol 🙂 I haven't met many people that are as picky with their cleaning habits as I am. Of course, I have a very hard time going into a house that isn't clean, I get a bit claustrophobic being in there. I know cleaning is hard, but geez...at least pick up after yourself.
A lot of people don't realize that maintaining a clean house is a heck of a lot easier than cleaning it over and over.
As far as I go, I will teach someone to clean, then I will watch them clean. If they don't clean to my standards, then I huff and puff and I go tell them to do something else while I clean it correctly lol. If you aren't going to do it right, why should I waste my time teaching someone else when I can just do it from the beginning. I actually don't mind cleaning. It allows me to clear my mind (if that makes sense). Kind of clearing the clutter and dirt from my life. Once every 6 months, I go through everything, organize, and trash the stuff I know I will never use. I get a big sense of accomplishment when I really get in there and clean.
So, when can I start my movie career? lol 🙂 I like that idea! Maybe we can clean the world, one movie-goer at a time 🙂
A lot of people don't realize that maintaining a clean house is a heck of a lot easier than cleaning it over and over.
As far as I go, I will teach someone to clean, then I will watch them clean. If they don't clean to my standards, then I huff and puff and I go tell them to do something else while I clean it correctly lol. If you aren't going to do it right, why should I waste my time teaching someone else when I can just do it from the beginning. I actually don't mind cleaning. It allows me to clear my mind (if that makes sense). Kind of clearing the clutter and dirt from my life. Once every 6 months, I go through everything, organize, and trash the stuff I know I will never use. I get a big sense of accomplishment when I really get in there and clean.
So, when can I start my movie career? lol 🙂 I like that idea! Maybe we can clean the world, one movie-goer at a time 🙂
We can start tomorrow. First thought we will need tons of clorox! I Got gloves galore. and scrubbies. and a song to go with that. We will need a theme song though. Something upbeat and oomphy.
I have a friend that can work on a theme song (he is good with that kind of thing). We will have to hold a fundraiser to buy Clorox.
I guess we are going to hit the Mr. Clean convention and hope for the best. and germaphobe anonymous.
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