Positive things about Virgo......

1. They make great friends and awesome lovers
2. When they care about you, they show it in their own way. Not sleazy about it what-so-ever.
3. Genuine at their best.
4. Dependable. No matter what time of the day, if I needed him, he was there.
5. Tender
6. Reserved
7. Adventurous..... never a dull moment
8. Loves the outdoors and hates being cooped in
9. Happy to stay at home, watching tv and doing crossword puzzles.
10. Cool and Calm
11. Knows how to soothe somebody
12. Protective.....
13. Weirdos and strange.... off beat, but it's cute
14. Sensitive
15. Usually, for the most part uncomplicated.
16. Secretive...... but they will let you in.
17. Strong and opinionated.
18. Intelligent
19. Dominant.
20. Loyal
21. Honest.
22. Fun and playful
23. Light hearted
24. Serious
25. Easy going
26. Intense
27. Attentive
28. Assertive for the most part, but sometimes too secretive and it interferes

The list does go on...... I can say that I will miss my Virgo on a deep level. He was golden to me, but I just don't trust people, and I didn't trust him as a lover. As friends, he was the best of the best..... I will remember the times we had, I wish him luck, but most importantly, i wish that he will be successful in life. In all areas of life, and stop playing around and playing games. I hope he gets motivated in life and re-spark that energy he once had that drew me to him. I wish that he uncomplicates his life, and learn to live simply. Sometimes Virgos get bored, and to entertain their mind, I think that is when they start to play games. When a Virgo is bored and unfocused, that is when trouble begins, and the destruction comes out.

I love how often Point A contradicts Point B.
Eg. 8 & 9, 23 & 24, 25 & 26

We are some all rounded folk 😛

Thank you for sharing Mars-ee 🙂

inquisitive
charming
observant
encouraging
comical
deep
devilish

M.I.A - so you took me up on my suggestion eh? 😉 notice how the virgo took the initiative to critique you even though you were paying compliments. tip-pee-cull....

anyhoo, i would agree with much of what has been written. i'm not really good with one-liners. especially when it comes to this as i'd probably just be echoing what's above or what you'd read on any virgo profile. so i'll be long-winded as usual...

"first-responder" - a virgo friend was the first to drive hours to visit me after my mom passed. she waited patiently until i was well enough to answer the phone. she went with me to purchase the dress for my mom's funeral. i'm not sure if i would've been able to handle doing the latter without her. so i guess in one-word that would be..."first-responder"

"considerate" - when i was younger (and even to this day when i'm home and no one's cooked), my aunt would call and ask "what do you want to eat?" she'd ask everyone. and if we all said 5 different places, she would go to each one of those places, getting each one of our meals and not ask for a dime when she got home. sometimes, she wouldn't even get anything for herself. it wasn't until i was older that i realized how odd this was. i mean hell, who drives all around town if you don't have to?

"sacrifice" - i don't mean that in the religious/spiritual sense 😛 the same aunt, who's close to 60, hangs christmas lights on my gma's house every year since i can remember. she'd weather the cold, drag out ladders and run back and forth to the store, all to make my the house look nice. so this past christmas, when the lights didn't go up, neighbors kept asking, "when?" my aunt, after at the very least 35 years of hanging lights without fail, had decided she'd had enough. no one helped her. no one seemed to care. no one noticed. in the end, the lights went up...i couldn't let the tradition die.

"companion" - my virgo bff is like a warm fuzzy blanket. he was always there. i can probably count on one hand the number of times he's told me "no." he had my back, i had his and it was nice to know/feel the concern/love/appreciation from and for another person at all times.

M.I.A - so you took me up on my suggestion eh? notice how the virgo took the initiative to critique you even though you were paying compliments. tip-pee-cull....

Eh.... refresh my memory on what you suggested to me, lol!!!!

this is very nice.

I was really happy for awhile with my virgo guy. But tonight, he can't deal with it again, and wants to run. He, infact ran again. Says it's stupid to fall for me, because rationally, he just can't believe in it. (he desires me, wants me but, everything else is like a fantasy, and is afraid of getting hurt) I can't ...believe he ran again.

I'm glad you got to discover your virgo guy, even with the ups and downs. But, I'll never be able to.

It is up and down, pull and tug. Virgos can be very insecure and they are fragile, maybe it's for the best that your Virgo has run again. You need to let him go to let him make up his choice. As long as you're in his life, he's going to blame you for his short-comings of not being able to commit to you. If you leave him, he'll be able to focus on himself......

Good luck to you!!!!!! I know it sucks, but remember the fun that you have had with him. That was when things were sure and solid. That was probably when he was himself the most. I can't tell you how to get to that point, but I'm a firm believer that when things get messy, it's better to take the high road. You never know what secrets people live, and when somebody can't be straight with you, it's for a reason. I think anyboy, regardless of their sign, once in love with somebody, will do absolutely anything for that person. If somebody is playing games, then their heart isn't in the right place, so allow him to place his heart where it belongs.

Yes, I have had great times with my Virgo, but I've also dealt with some shitty times. I only hope that he places his heart in the right place and focus on himself, because he deserves a good life.

Good luck to ya!!!!!

I love how often Point A contradicts Point B.
Eg. 8 & 9, 23 & 24, 25 & 26

We are some all rounded folk

Thank you for sharing Mars-ee

The question is, is it I who contradicts herself, or is it Mr. Virgo whom contradicts himself—? Lik I've stated before, aries and virgos are too similar and can learn a lot from each other......

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..Eh... I'll get back to the list later. 😛

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..Eh... I'll get back to the list later.

See..... virgos give up too easily when they have to work for it!!!! LOL........ :p

Lol, It's funny how everyone says we are hard working while I am the biggest procrastinator on earth. Example, I have an essay due tomorrow and instead of writing it I am on here talking about Astrology. 😛

valeria..... you and I are going through the exact same thing..... I completely understand where you are coming from. But if there isa chance that you do mean something to him, then don't disappear completely. Letting go and disappearing are two separate things.

I'm thinking about going face-to-face with my virgo and straight up asking him, all bullshit aside, if we are really at the point to disappear from each others lives for good, after all the positivity we shared with each other.

Sometimes things are worth a risk and a chance....... maybe you should approach him the same way. Give him his space, give yourself the space, let go emotionally, and then see you two from outside looking in.

Talking with a very old and very wise friend of mine tonight, she posed something to me that made me see things in a different light. There are opening doors and closing doors. I was so ready to close the door on my virgo in view of what he has done, but she posed something very well worth taking note. Closing the door because of pain means that you might not be able to open that door when you're not in pain. Maybe leaving the door cracked still leave the option of opening or closing.

I hope her wise words help you like they helped me....... keep me posted.

lol@matt.... yes, yes, I'm procrastinating on my school work too!!! I have an assignment due online in 2 hours..... I've gotta get going!!!!

Valeria25.. I can feel your pain. I dated a virgo before and it was up and down, hide and seek. It's been a few months since I broke it off. I was in the same position as yourself. They just intoxicate you, very charming..yes..these virgo men are real charmers..BUT contaminated. In the end, he would have thrown you under the bus and you would have been left like a deer in the headlights. You are making the very best decision you could ever make right now..just let him go. You will be fine. I am fine. I am dating a gemini..me a libra. I actually dated someone in between..ah ha..another Virgo..SAME qualities..I picked up on it by the third date..and I just said "waiter, check please". They are snake charmers whose words drip from their lips like honey, all the while they have one hand on the doorknob..please..don't go there again. Women should just stay away from virgos in general. They over think everything. They are usually cheap too..lol.

Valeria25.. I can feel your pain. I dated a virgo before and it was up and down, hide and seek. It's been a few months since I broke it off. I was in the same position as yourself. They just intoxicate you, very charming..yes..these virgo men are real charmers..BUT contaminated. In the end, he would have thrown you under the bus and you would have been left like a deer in the headlights. You are making the very best decision you could ever make right now..just let him go. You will be fine. I am fine. I am dating a gemini..me a libra. I actually dated someone in between..ah ha..another Virgo..SAME qualities..I picked up on it by the third date..and I just said "waiter, check please". They are snake charmers whose words drip from their lips like honey, all the while they have one hand on the doorknob..please..don't go there again. Women should just stay away from virgos in general. They over think everything. They are usually cheap too..lol.

Posted by Mars.In.Aries

M.I.A - so you took me up on my suggestion eh? notice how the virgo took the initiative to critique you even though you were paying compliments. tip-pee-cull....

Eh.... refresh my memory on what you suggested to me, lol!!!!

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didn't suggest anything to you specifically but i did say that someone should start a thread about the positive things virgo offers. given you were part of that thread, not much of leap but you're a fire sign, you came up with it all on your own 😛

perfect human beings exist? wow, let's kill off everyone else and start a master sign.

lord, folks cant pay realistic comments without laying it on thick? just be truthful...good or bad. the thread is about the good. and no one is perfect so why blatantly lie?

compliments 😛 ok that's a sign. bedtime

Posted by hikoro
Positive things....everything, Virgo men are perfect.

Hah Hik, I take it things are going well with your V-man?