Virgo And trust Issues.

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by LeGendary ViRGo on Monday, February 22, 2010 and has 35 replies.

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i found this question yahoo answers and this what people said about it its very intriguing.

this is what one person said and it ring a bell even im not a alcoholic lmao.

BY RebeLLion2NiGhT's
my friend was a virgo...he drank alot too, one time he got real drunk and i asked why so much drinking(cuz it was alot!)...all he said was, emotions scare me, i cant express myself cuz i dont know how, sometimes i feel like a demon inside,yet no one will ever see, drinking drowns and kills the feeling of being a monster inside....and it reminds me that i will never understand how to be human cuz i worry too much about everyone else i forget who i am...thats it...he then got pissed and threw a bottle and faded out...im a leo, at first i thought it was hilarious and then the next morning i couldnt get his words out of my head....no one will ever know that guy, and its true, they keep so much inside who the f*ck knows what they feel, and who they really are....THEIR TRAPPED IN THEIR OWN CAGE,SOMETIMES FOR LIFE....

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Posted by Jason2213
...my problem too.

mines as well at times i often feel will people even understand me but i learned you cant understand people if you dont understand ur self.

sometimes i feel virgos are cursed with the lack of emotional expression even if we do we are often view as weird so there's a habit of suppressing emotions lmao.

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Posted by Cajunspirit
My trust issue, is that I trust too easily.

Totally relate to what the guy said.

its that leo in you boy lmao

maybe because u value loyalty with a high standard like me im very loyal 2 people but once you fuck up peace out.

loyalty is a rare gem thats only buried in certain people.

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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

maybe because u value loyalty with a high standard like me im very loyal 2 people but once you fuck up peace out.

loyalty is a rare gem thats only buried in certain people.

Hmm... I hear you.

But I don't affiliate the issue with loyalty, I think most people just don't like to invest as much time and effort as Virgos do, I could be wrong.

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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by Cajunspirit
My trust issue, is that I trust too easily.

Totally relate to what the guy said.

its that leo in you boy lmao

maybe because u value loyalty with a high standard like me im very loyal 2 people but once you fuck up peace out.

loyalty is a rare gem thats only buried in certain people.

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That's not loyalty!!!!! Loyalty makes you stupid and blind at times...... dropping somebody once they fuck up means that you're selective. Loyalty isn't selective..... and that's the danger in it.

Trust me, I know this. It has been a very hard lesson for me to learn. You can't even begin to understand the pain when someone whom you are loyal to stabs you. Because, it's been my experience that those that have betrayed me never had to go through the effort to stab me in the back. They know that from my loyalty, they could stab me in the heart, because I would be blind.

Loyalty isn't always a good and positive thing....

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Posted by Mars.In.Aries
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by Cajunspirit
My trust issue, is that I trust too easily.

Totally relate to what the guy said.

its that leo in you boy lmao

maybe because u value loyalty with a high standard like me im very loyal 2 people but once you fuck up peace out.

loyalty is a rare gem thats only buried in certain people.

That's not loyalty!!!!! Loyalty makes you stupid and blind at times...... dropping somebody once they fuck up means that you're selective. Loyalty isn't selective..... and that's the danger in it.

Trust me, I know this. It has been a very hard lesson for me to learn. You can't even begin to understand the pain when someone whom you are loyal to stabs you. Because, it's been my experience that those that have betrayed me never had to go through the effort to stab me in the back. They know that from my loyalty, they could stab me in the heart, because I would be blind.

Loyalty isn't always a good and positive thing....

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i know how it feels being stabbed in the back it hurts but you kno what i think we learn even better who we let in our lives and who 2 keep at bay.

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I don't know if I genuinely trust anyone. I let a few people into my world if they ask, but I don't know if that is trust.

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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

i found this question yahoo answers and this what people said about it its very intriguing.

this is what one person said and it ring a bell even im not a alcoholic lmao.

BY RebeLLion2NiGhT's
my friend was a virgo...he drank alot too, one time he got real drunk and i asked why so much drinking(cuz it was alot!)...all he said was, emotions scare me, i cant express myself cuz i dont know how, sometimes i feel like a demon inside,yet no one will ever see, drinking drowns and kills the feeling of being a monster inside....and it reminds me that i will never understand how to be human cuz i worry too much about everyone else i forget who i am...thats it...he then got pissed and threw a bottle and faded out...im a leo, at first i thought it was hilarious and then the next morning i couldnt get his words out of my head....no one will ever know that guy, and its true, they keep so much inside who the f*ck knows what they feel, and who they really are....THEIR TRAPPED IN THEIR OWN CAGE,SOMETIMES FOR LIFE....

A demon inside? Trapped in their own cage? Silly..

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Posted by msInternationalTease
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

i found this question yahoo answers and this what people said about it its very intriguing.

this is what one person said and it ring a bell even im not a alcoholic lmao.

BY RebeLLion2NiGhT's
my friend was a virgo...he drank alot too, one time he got real drunk and i asked why so much drinking(cuz it was alot!)...all he said was, emotions scare me, i cant express myself cuz i dont know how, sometimes i feel like a demon inside,yet no one will ever see, drinking drowns and kills the feeling of being a monster inside....and it reminds me that i will never understand how to be human cuz i worry too much about everyone else i forget who i am...thats it...he then got pissed and threw a bottle and faded out...im a leo, at first i thought it was hilarious and then the next morning i couldnt get his words out of my head....no one will ever know that guy, and its true, they keep so much inside who the f*ck knows what they feel, and who they really are....THEIR TRAPPED IN THEIR OWN CAGE,SOMETIMES FOR LIFE....

A demon inside? Trapped in their own cage? Silly..

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why is it they said lots of virgos are repressed because we kept emotions on tight control so virgos can often run from they're emotions.

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Posted by msInternationalTease
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

i found this question yahoo answers and this what people said about it its very intriguing.

this is what one person said and it ring a bell even im not a alcoholic lmao.

BY RebeLLion2NiGhT's
my friend was a virgo...he drank alot too, one time he got real drunk and i asked why so much drinking(cuz it was alot!)...all he said was, emotions scare me, i cant express myself cuz i dont know how, sometimes i feel like a demon inside,yet no one will ever see, drinking drowns and kills the feeling of being a monster inside....and it reminds me that i will never understand how to be human cuz i worry too much about everyone else i forget who i am...thats it...he then got pissed and threw a bottle and faded out...im a leo, at first i thought it was hilarious and then the next morning i couldnt get his words out of my head....no one will ever know that guy, and its true, they keep so much inside who the f*ck knows what they feel, and who they really are....THEIR TRAPPED IN THEIR OWN CAGE,SOMETIMES FOR LIFE....

A demon inside? Trapped in their own cage? Silly..

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That's.. Exactly what I thought. I was laughing when I read that..

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Posted by Aphrodite Bull
You will never meet a true male Virgo. They're mutubal signs. This means they're changeable, and adapt to their surroundings and people around them .
They're very introverted, complex, similar like us Taureans. But unlike Virgos, a Taurean personality is fixed. He probably meant what he said when he was drunk. My BFF is married to a Virgo. He tells the truth when he's high. When he's sober, you would have to drag information out of him. However he is very vocal and outspoken when he's critiquing you. He's also shy and insecure, but will NEVER let you know it. He does a great job of masquerading it. They may seem two-faced at times..it's not because they're back-stabbers, but it's mainly due to Virgos trying to please too many people at once....they're trying to be well-liked and accepted by as many people. So therefore, draw into their personalities, and accept the responses of others with ease (or shall I say...fake agreement).

Hmmm... someone has been paying attention... 🙂

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LOL@Cajun- seems like that was almost done intentionally!!! Hahahaha...... picky, picky!!!

I kinda agree with what AB is talking about. I also know that Virgo's hate being exposed in any form or fashion. Yes. they do go out of their way to be well-liked by others, but that's from an outsider point of view. And inside point of view is much different.

When you're on the outside with a Virgo, they can control your interaction with them. When you're on the inside of a Virgo, the interaction is quite different.

Am I the only one who sees only a limited similarities between Virgo's and Taurus'? I mean, I can understand the attraction and the interaction, but I don't think similar is the word to describe the relationship....

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lol!!!! How in the hell did I manage to do that—?

Damn, I'm tempted to fix it, but it's so comical to me. Mostly because I've been keeping extra attention to keeping my posts organized.....

.... it's another example of a Virgo affect on an Aries. Can't blame my effort to try, even if I do fuck it up!!!

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Posted by Mars.In.Aries
Am I the only one who sees only a limited similarities between Virgo's and Taurus'? I mean, I can understand the attraction and the interaction, but I don't think similar is the word to describe the relationship....

yeah, in the fact that we're both earth...

Talk about rocks. The most stable, consistent and sometimes rigid of all the signs. Once they make up their minds, like mountains they cannot be moved without huge efforts. Practical, patient, reasonable, and persistent are these signs. If you want to make sure a project gets done and gets done "right" call, on an earth person. They will stick with it until the bitter end. Not much one for spontaneity or flexibility. (We have to leave that up to the air signs) Not as sensitive as the water signs, the earth signs are still aware of the needs and often want to serve others. These people are not much one for the limelight. If it can be done, an earth sign will do it without the need for recognition.

Often so rigid, they become stuck with old routines to the point of impracticality. Fear of starting something new, earth signs can be very cautious to the point of missing a great opportunity. Conventional to a point of boredom.

The fast moving, changeable air signs fascinate Earth signs though they are un-trusting of their unworkable schemes. If you see an adult asking why repeatedly, you can pretty much be assured you are in the company of an earth sign. Fire signs are too forceful for their slower thorough nature. Sharing with the water signs the characteristics of retentiveness, self-protectiveness, and acquisitiveness. Water signs will sooth and comfort the worry element so often found in the earth people. With this support and encouragement, earth signs can work and work and work. source: http://www.nanceestar.com/elements.html

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Posted by Mars.In.Aries
lol!!!! How in the hell did I manage to do that—?

You deleted/backspaced the closing tag [ the /a> ] at the end.

*starts hearing Flo Rida*
"You spin my head right round, right round when you go down, when you go down down!"

.... it's another example of a Virgo affect on an Aries. Can't blame my effort to try, even if I do *bleep* it up!!!

One of many enthralling effects 😉

Posted by Mars.In.Aries

Yes you are!!!! It's a good approach too...... blatantly subtle. It's not just an oxymoron!!!

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Haha, Virgo skillz baby!

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lockquote>.... it's another example of a Virgo affect on an Aries. Can't blame my effort to try, even if I do *bleep* it up!!!

One of many enthralling effects 😉

I can't believe you censored me!!!!!

Grrrr......

Posted by Mars.In.Aries

Yes you are!!!! It's a good approach too...... blatantly subtle. It's not just an oxymoron!!!

Haha, Virgo skillz baby!

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yes, you boys do have some skills..... Nothin like an Aries gal to capitalize on those skills 😉