Question about Virgos!!

I am a Taurus i like a Virgo male we havent met yet only talked online and text message and talked on phone.. what does it take to get to a virgos heart to make them fall for a person fast and hard— Someone told me that virgos and taurus are attracted to each other its a natural attraction and i find that to be true.. And if someone mails a virgo and texts them and the virgo says just Relax are they interested— and 1 more thing when u are on myspace and u request a virgo and u e-mail him and tell him all he has to do is add u and he doesnt write back but doesnt cancel your request what does that mean— Please help Thanks

It's the same thing that we've been telling you, girly. Slow down and chill out.

Relax means just that... relax. It's fine. If he doesn't cancel your ad request, that also means you're fine. Nothing more (don't read too much into it), but also nothing less (he doesn't hate you).

what does it take to get to a virgo males heart to make them fall for a person fast and hard—

jerseygirly36:
>1 more thing when u are on myspace and u request a virgo and u e-mail him and tell him all he has to do is add u and he doesnt write back but doesnt cancel your request what does that mean—

Depends on the person. When I get a MySpace friend request, I look at the persons profile. Being a horse person gets them an instant ADD. Being a compatible sign, having similar thinking, from their blog, or "tests" they've taken, might get them an ADD. Others, it just depends. If they have 1000 friends, I figure they're just collectors and won't add them. At the same time, if I can barely keep up with the 20 friends that I have, I might not want to add others just because of lack of time to share with more people. Many I'm not interested in, or feel I don't have time for, I deny. Some I don't do anything because I figure I need more time to consider... but some of those fall by the wayside because I might lose track of the time and MySpace only allows a limited time before it automatically deletes the requests.

I'd been on MySpace for over a year till I actually tried to use the "browse" feature. At first I thought it'd be interesting to find other Virgos, male and female who were born in the year of the Rat, 1960. I wrote many interesting ones a message and a friends request, but few answered. That's just the way it is.

If you send a friend request, also send a short message, as it personalizes it. It shows the person that you're not a bot, and have actually read their profile and find them interesting. Mentioning some keyword might help. In one case, one gal, a Taurus, wrote me and said she liked the pictures of my horses. That was the magic word for me. So even tho she, from her profile, was not a horse woman, I added her.

Lastly, I don't think everyone has the heart to deny a friends request, as they are not sure if it will result in an actual message being sent to the requester denying them access, and figure that if they just ignore the request, it will simply be forgotten and there will be no hard feelings.

JG36: "what does it take to get to a virgo males heart to make them fall for a person fast and hard—"

First off, you need to focus on his mind rather than his heart, Jersey. The way to the Virg males heart is directly through his mind. As is the route to his attention, his appetite, his comfort, his sexuality, his friendship, etc. The Virguy is an intensly analytical creature, more so than any other of the signs. Think of his thought process and how he analyses every little teeny tiny detail about stuff. Seemingly insignificant to most others, we like to observe people through a microscope, rather than rose-colored glasses.

Think before you act with this guy. You need to discover his expectations and desires BEFORE you enter into a relationship with one of us. The 'falling hard and fast' routine will quickly loose its bloom for him unless you're capable of backing it up with some sturdy, predictable future attributes that he finds appealing.

And be prepared for criticism, scepticism, being torn down and built back up again. 'Tis the nature of the beast. Since you said he replied back to you "Just RELAX", that already signifies to me that he senses something negative in you, but not that it is necessarily a deal breaker for him, maybe more of a sign of somethinghe detects about you that makes him feel rushed or less than comfortable with maybe the speed and intensity of your pursuit of him? v-lady covered this above.

Would have to agree with what has been mentioned ..


Jerseygirly .. he said to relax .. this means to stop letting your feelings get so out of whack that you're searching for ways to make him fall hard and fast. What you are doing is the complete opposite of what he insinuates is what you have to do get closer to him .. which will push him away ..

Think about that ... if to him, what he wants you to do so the two of you can get to know each other better, is for you to 'relax', yet, you keep pushing forward harder ......

Relax means slow down .. it means to stop putting pressure on ways to capture him. If you want him to consider you as a partner, then you have to consider him as well ... and he said, "relax" .. so if you want him to view you as a potential partner, then you'd be wise to do just that .. or he'll write you off as a person who isn't in control of yourself.

WoW!!! that was very good advice.. Thanks alot.. We never met yet.. but i do not want to make him skip town before i get the chance to meet him.. he already had me as his friend on myspace but i tried commenting and it wouldnt go through so i told him to just request me again so i wound up requesting him and he didnt add me yet but also didnt deny me either.. but that was other day i have been leaving him alone now for an official 1 and a half days.. so thats a start

Jerseygirly .. is this the same man in which when you first started talking to, you got upset and sent him an emotional outcry because of your pain over being upset about something (this something not having anything to do with him) .. and he sent you back a message, saying, "You're scaring me" .. and then deleted you from his myspace list?

If so, then I think you need to take a giant step backwards here. That was at the end of January that you posted that situation in which you frightened him with inflicting upon him emotional distress that was irrelevant to him in any way .. and now it's several weeks later and you're still pressuring him to make some kind of emotional gesture back to you.

If it's not the same man .. then perhaps the prudent thing to do is to sit back and look at both of these incidents, within the whole scheme of things. Two times you have project an emotional neediness, and both times the men have step back and insinuated .... STOP. So, this is something you can use in the future to apply to your life and how you approach men.

Heads-up .. men ... all men .. will have this kind of reaction if you appear to have emotional baggage in which you attempt to project onto them. They are turned-off by women who appear emotionally needy.

That's not meant to hurt your feelings, rather, give you something you really need to comprehend .. for if you don't, you will likely keep running into this same issue over and over.

Good Luck 🙂

thanks guys... u didnt hurt my feelings i like honesty and people that can be hard on me to get me to do the right thing.. I havent bothered him in a day and a half so thats good for me anyway... I always used to say whatever is going to happen will happen so thats what i am going to do.. im done chasing him he has to come to me if he wants me if not then its his Loss not mine... :-)

I let it go and he instant messaged me and we talked alot last night and planning on meeting soon 😉 thanks for the advice guys.. Helped me to become a stronger woman.. thanks again 😉