Qbone
@Qbone
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Questions..
lol
Well, it's true ...
Most always, we can see in others what we cannot see in ourselves. And it's when we actually see it in someone else, in which we offer a solution that a light will go off in our own head. And this goes for everything.
What I think gets missed more often than not .... people who offer advise, in no way say or suggest, that they are exempt of same human error. And, it appears that people tend to take that position. They think that if another person offers them words, then this offering is inferring that they are above this same error ... which in itself, IS the very error in which prohibits a person from growing from the offering.
Most always, we can see in others what we cannot see in ourselves. And it's when we actually see it in someone else, in which we offer a solution that a light will go off in our own head. And this goes for everything.
What I think gets missed more often than not .... people who offer advise, in no way say or suggest, that they are exempt of same human error. And, it appears that people tend to take that position. They think that if another person offers them words, then this offering is inferring that they are above this same error ... which in itself, IS the very error in which prohibits a person from growing from the offering.
What I find more valuable than Q's questions, which are on a face-value level of the importance of the questions themselves .... is what is in the undercurrents within the motivation of people asking the questions.
This post is addressing .... Do we really want to know?
And the real issue is .... We want to hear what we want to hear, this is WHY we asked the question of strangers who don't know any information except what limited info we gave them .. for, if the person really wanted to hear REAL advise to help them, they would present the real situation, which is double-sided, rather than the single one we are presented with to come to a conclusion.
This post is addressing .... Do we really want to know?
And the real issue is .... We want to hear what we want to hear, this is WHY we asked the question of strangers who don't know any information except what limited info we gave them .. for, if the person really wanted to hear REAL advise to help them, they would present the real situation, which is double-sided, rather than the single one we are presented with to come to a conclusion.
- Do you really want to know your partner's star sign..? Yes so I can pigeonhole them😛 and treat them like the sun sign they are😛
No, actually I mainly use astrology as a 'reference guide', its never good to put people in a box.
- Does anyone really care about the elements of ?surprises? in any relationships nowadays..?? Yes I loves surprises. But I think some people the ones that keep a 'day planner' on them at all times cannot handle surprises. Time slowly reveals itself. When you first meet someone, no one shows all their cards upfront.
- What happened to the creativities in any kind of relationship ? knowing by your partners (elemental keys)?.? Elemental keys..? Not exactly what you mean by elemental keys...but I am interpreting it as..the disparity of two individuals personalities..and maybe Im guessing you are saying that we have too many expectations...and do not value our partner for their differences?? Creativities... to me would be my situation..mr cap is very creative in ways I am not and vice versa. I guess thats what drew me to him.
- Do we really want to be like ?smart ass? Mr/Mrs ?knowing it all? creatures in our relationship with the others..? I think people take turns 'playing this role' esp on DXP.. I think it all boils down to what type of mood you are in when you come on. Everyone passes the baton on here. LOL But some of us are more informed in specific areas that arise than others. I have learned ALOT from people on here.
- Are you a kind of individual that says ?honestly??I know what I don't want, but I still, don't know want I want? type..?? Yes I have moments of sitting on the fence. I make mountains out of my own molehills sometimes.. but mostly I am a realist. I try not to set myself up. I guess.
My conclusion for the past 4 years in this site is:
- How to adjust yourself with the others.
- How to force the others adjusting with you..
I dont know what you mean by that? Every time I hear about "The others" I think about Nicole Kidman
🙂
No, actually I mainly use astrology as a 'reference guide', its never good to put people in a box.
- Does anyone really care about the elements of ?surprises? in any relationships nowadays..?? Yes I loves surprises. But I think some people the ones that keep a 'day planner' on them at all times cannot handle surprises. Time slowly reveals itself. When you first meet someone, no one shows all their cards upfront.
- What happened to the creativities in any kind of relationship ? knowing by your partners (elemental keys)?.? Elemental keys..? Not exactly what you mean by elemental keys...but I am interpreting it as..the disparity of two individuals personalities..and maybe Im guessing you are saying that we have too many expectations...and do not value our partner for their differences?? Creativities... to me would be my situation..mr cap is very creative in ways I am not and vice versa. I guess thats what drew me to him.
- Do we really want to be like ?smart ass? Mr/Mrs ?knowing it all? creatures in our relationship with the others..? I think people take turns 'playing this role' esp on DXP.. I think it all boils down to what type of mood you are in when you come on. Everyone passes the baton on here. LOL But some of us are more informed in specific areas that arise than others. I have learned ALOT from people on here.
- Are you a kind of individual that says ?honestly??I know what I don't want, but I still, don't know want I want? type..?? Yes I have moments of sitting on the fence. I make mountains out of my own molehills sometimes.. but mostly I am a realist. I try not to set myself up. I guess.
My conclusion for the past 4 years in this site is:
- How to adjust yourself with the others.
- How to force the others adjusting with you..
I dont know what you mean by that? Every time I hear about "The others" I think about Nicole Kidman
🙂
......wonders....how Mr Qbone is doing—?
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- Do you really want to know your partner's star sign..?
- Does anyone really care about the elements of ?surprises? in any relationships nowadays..??
- What happened to the creativities in any kind of relationship ? knowing by your partners (elemental keys)?.?
- Do we really want to be like ?smart ass? Mr/Mrs ?knowing it all? creatures in our relationship with the others..?
- Are you a kind of individual that says ?honestly??I know what I don't want, but I still, don't know want I want? type..??
My conclusion for the past 4 years in this site is:
- How to adjust yourself with the others.
- How to force the others adjusting with you..
Any intelligent comments will be appreciated wholeheartedly..!