According to most astrological sites, books, newspapers, I am considered a Cancer. Thing is, I was born on the first day that Cancer begins, so I tend to have more Gemini qualities than Cancer qualities. I've been friends w/ a Virgo male for 8 yrs. Throughout the time that we've known one another, beginning when we were about 13. We dated for about a wk at the age of 13,then for no reason at all, he pulled away & broke up with me. We didn't speak for about a month or so..then all of a sudden he wanted to be my friend again. So we remained friends throughout our high school yrs, he's had plenty of gfs. But, we would always talk & be friends, never bothered me. So, in my 10th grade yr, we began talking & getting close again. He began to express feelings for me again, but would never make a move, almost like he was afraid to be rejected, which at the same time he was fighting for me with some other guy(a LEO). The other guy was more aggressive, & I ended up dating the leo, thinking that the Virgo wasn't into me.. like I thought. Okay, so we didn't really talk much, we'd say hi in the halls, & he'd always hug me and such. So, going into our senior year, he came back again, (this is when my relationship with the Leo was going sour) and this time took a HUGE step. He kissed me, and told me he really liked me. I was in total shock & this caused me to break up with the leo. (which was a good thing...he's abusive) & then the Virgo disappeared off the face of the planet.Then, just recently, my husband (who is a cancer like me), just started having problems. Back in November 2011 (he had a gf), the Virgo came back. This time he was talking about us getting married in the future, & always had loved me, & he basically talked about a future with me. Then, backed off & acted like he completely changed his mind. Then, February 2012, I went to visit, and we hung out the entire time I was there. He was excited to see me & even said I should visit more often. He came to my hotel room, & slept in the bed with me, & we cuddled the whole time. Then, without thinking, we messed around, (no full blown sex) I initiated. he was freaked out, & wouldnt talk 2 me, sd he needed time. then i asked if he wanted to be my friend still (cuz he sd he knew we could get through this) and he said we should go our seperate ways, and not be friends. WHY? I'm so lost. I thought that's what he wanted...he always acts like he does..then pushes me away. ugh.
