Should I be concerned about Virgo female crush not replying texts?

Virgo or no virgo, if a woman is putting you on hold, deliberately and repeatedly then it's simple that she's not into you in any way romantically.

Posted by SitusInversus27

Virgo or no virgo, if a woman is putting you on hold, deliberately and repeatedly then it's simple that she's not into you in any way romantically.

I hope one day you'll get a girlfriend who likes texting so much, that she goes hiding in the bathroom to text a lover, when she lives with you and has no reason to text you 😈

Posted by leon2017ow

So I and my crush has known each other at work for almost half a year and at the beginning we had lots to talk about. There was a point where we talk about personality/habits and she mentions that she usually does not reply her friends' texts (has a reply in the mind but doesn't reply the text) or could reply late (up till a week or two), but to work colleagues she will always. Recently she was busy with work and apologized to me in replying late (a few hours) but then I just told her that she could just treat me as how she treats her friends. Then thereafter she stopped replying to my texts (non-work related texts).

I know that being concerned over this is a bit paranoid/ironic but from what I've read, Virgo women would reply you if you are important to her/she is interested in you right? Could the "not replying friends' texts" part be just an indirect rejection towards me? Or am I really just overthinking this matter?

"but then I just told her that she could just treat me as how she treats her friends. Then thereafter she stopped replying to my texts (non-work related texts). "

Excuse me? She did what you asked, and now are paranoid about it...?!

Relationship idiots....both of you!

When someone tells you and shows you who they are, believe them. Or believe the generic astrology description, whatevs it’s your life.

Basically, yes, she told you she can easily ignore her friends texts, you asked to treat you the same way, so it seems logical. On the other hand, meh. Communication is important, otherwise how does the relationship suppose to grow (considering that you do not live together). I would say, both friend/romantic relationships are not a priority for her for some reason at this stage.

Posted by Undine

Posted by leon2017ow

So I and my crush has known each other at work for almost half a year and at the beginning we had lots to talk about. There was a point where we talk about personality/habits and she mentions that she usually does not reply her friends' texts (has a reply in the mind but doesn't reply the text) or could reply late (up till a week or two), but to work colleagues she will always. Recently she was busy with work and apologized to me in replying late (a few hours) but then I just told her that she could just treat me as how she treats her friends. Then thereafter she stopped replying to my texts (non-work related texts).

I know that being concerned over this is a bit paranoid/ironic but from what I've read, Virgo women would reply you if you are important to her/she is interested in you right? Could the "not replying friends' texts" part be just an indirect rejection towards me? Or am I really just overthinking this matter?

"but then I just told her that she could just treat me as how she treats her friends. Then thereafter she stopped replying to my texts (non-work related texts). "

Excuse me? She did what you asked, and now are paranoid about it...?!

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Lmao! I’m sorry but I spit out my coffee.

Also, I can’t stand people who take weeks to reply to a simple text—yet they have time to be on social media. When I see that, it’s noted. No worries, I won’t text you again, since I see you don’t want to be bothered.

Posted by blackphvse

Who puts priority on texting work colleagues over friends?? That's some backwards shit, unless the company can't do it's job without her replying to co workers, that just seems fkn weird. So what if you were her boyfriend? What priority do you get then? Cause it seems like her friends don't even get much from her.

Well it depends on the job. I work in a very demanding industry, and our boss and team will communicate via text. It’s mostly just to update us on schedule or program changing, but I am also quick to reply because it’s about signaling to management I’m alert—routinely checking my emails (all part of our job description).

With that said, up until the OP made the dumb decision to tell her to treat him like her friends—she seemed to be able to make time texting him, letting him know when she was busy. I found that curious as more alarming, because who blows off their friends for weeks on end, yet you can provide your “crush” the common courtesy of letting them know “you’re busy, I’ll text you later, etc.”

That to me is the greater red flag.